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Was he lying about his reasons for blocking me?

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Question - (27 March 2017) 6 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2017)
A female United States age 30-35, *rueLoveWaits2016 writes:

I was dating a guy and he was leaving on duty for a couple weeks. He lied to me about deleting social media, he actually ended up blocking me. When I caught him in his lie, he said anxiety and paranoia made him delete me, he thought I would stalk him. I'm not bashing anyone w/anxiety as I do suffer from it as well. Seems like a big lie to me. Opinions?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (5 April 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntYip was a lie, he only saw you as a short term fling.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (28 March 2017):

Honeypie agony auntDoes it matter HOW he communicates with you?

OP he is treating you like dirt. LET him go.

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A female reader, TrueLoveWaits2016 United States +, writes (27 March 2017):

TrueLoveWaits2016 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

He is talking to me, not via that social media place, but through email and another app.

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious United Kingdom +, writes (27 March 2017):

Youcannotbeserious agony auntOpinion? He's a waste of space. Don't waste another thought on him. He did what he did because he doesn't want a relationship with you. Respect that and find someone who does want to be with you.

Or perhaps a better thing to do would be to try to repair your self respect, as you obviously have a very low opinion of yourself if you feel you are not worth being treated better than this. YOU ARE WORTH MORE.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (27 March 2017):

N91 agony auntQuestion is why do you care?

He clearly doesn't want you in his life so stop wasting your time thinking about him.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (27 March 2017):

Honeypie agony auntYes he lied, he didn't want you to see what he gets up to.

But really OP, why are you still wasting time on this guy?

He is the same that you made out with and sent naughty pics too who then blocked you and isn't talking to you? You have only known him a few months - LET HIM go and move on to someone who is a better fit and isn't full of crap.

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