A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone, I am a very shy 19 year old girl. There is this particular guy I have recently developed a bit of a crush on. I noticed that when we are talking in person, there are a few moments of awkward silences, which make me pretty nervous. He usually takes charge of the conversations, because I just freeze up, and do not know what to say. Also, on more than one occasion, he has glanced down from my eyes to my breasts, then back up to my eyes again. I do not wear revealing clothes, so I'm not sure why he does that, (not that I'm complaining). I have noticed that at times he will puff up his chest and smile, while maintaing eye contact.I'm not an expert on body language, so I really don't know if he's flirting or just being friendly.Also, how should I respond without looking like an idiot? Any thoughts/advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance. :)
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reader, Auntie Audrey  +, writes (16 October 2012):
 Act nicely, smell nice and look nice. No tough nor tarty clothes. Just nice gear. and your hair always shiny and nice smelling. Don't shout and be loud. Nasty girls are best avoided.
Try to keep a handle on your nerves. Count to ten before you speak. Look thoughtful and interested even if you feel nervous. Smile Smile Smile. but Listen even more than you smile. You crush will love that you listen as guys love a good listener. He is fliring and he is interested. Wear tactile clothing too. That means soft fabrics, velvet when the wear is colder. Any clothing that will feel lovely on his fingers when he touches the fabric.
Just keep on being you as he is definitely interested.
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