A
female
age
36-40,
*lc
writes:hello,am glad i met you guys.coz i have something in my heart i just want to get off my chest.i have known my boyfriend for 2 years now.he has a history of being a drunk but when i met him he had just broke up with his ex becoz he ignores her and goes out drinkin with his friends a lot.but when we met he said that he promised he would stop.and i believed him.i have put up a lot of his crap along those two years; *HE CHEATED ON ME THREE TIMES *he asked his ex back *he goes out drinking with his friends often *he gets drunk when he wants even if i beg him not to *WHEN HE IS NOT WORKING HE BARELY SPENDS TIME WITH ME *i have to beg him to go out with him,as if he doesnt like to spend time with meanyway we moved in recently and he keeps on doing the same thing over and over again.everynow and then i return back to my moms house and then comes back because i pity him.but now i left for good.And he is constantly begging me to come back coz he says he cant live without me and now i feel bad,but i dont want to coz am fed up and i know i have a better future and i deserve bettterdid i make the right choice?how can i not feel guilty for leaving him or feel worried that he will not be ok?please help ....i want to be free from him vcl
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (16 October 2012):
 You made the right choice to leave a man who is not giving you what you need/want.
He is not your problem.
you need to block his email, facebook, phone, twitter etc.. and move on with your life....
you are doing him a favor... if he truly wants you back he will clean up his act and grow up
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