Am I being too demanding? Is it ok to feel jealous of his attractive female friends and ex's?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi people I share a wonderful relationship with my bf of about a month. Before that we already knew each other for almost a year. Although he looks like an average Joe, he's a real charmer and in fact, his exes are really good looking and he has had rumors with girls in the past. And even though we're together he still shares a fairly good relationship with the girls. While I trust him that everything is platonic, sometimes I can't help but worry when he tells me he's going out to study with his 'girlfriends'. While I told him I'm ok with that, I can't help but worry because he always mentions it out of the blue. I don't know if I'm too demanding and is it ok if I feel jealous, especially when your bf has many female friends (some of whom like flirting with him) even though he constantly assures you you're the only one he loves?

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