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writes:Okay guys so my bridesmaid suck! It's two month till my wedding and my bridesmaids haven't told me anything at all..... I told them rbe my vbridesmaid like 5month ago.....I had to go and buy them their dresses that's how uninterested they are....I set a date to go out to go shopping for our she's and they always make up an excuse not to go..... But yet they do make time to go out with their other friends !:/ what should I do ??? Should I just leave them alone ?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011): Maybe they weren't able to go run errands with you because the plans they had with their other friends were made before yours. Don't demand they do things when you say. Let them help decide when they can go. Be flexible. Yes, it's almost time for your wedding, but like I said, their lives aren't only about your wedding.Don't be a bridezilla, or else you might not have any friends after you get married.
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reader, Saamm +, writes (21 March 2011):
Saamm is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes I have been very consecrate with them is just like they are not interested they all want to reschedule or they say they don't have time but yet they go out with other friends on the date that they said they where going to be able to go?:/
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011): Do they suck, or are you demanding that they do things with you on certain days at certain times, with no concern for other plans they may have? "I told them to be my bridesmaids," "I set a date to go shopping" "I had to go and buy their dresses." Maybe ask them when a better day or time would be for them. Be courteous and show them that you understand there are more things going on in their lives than your wedding.
If they still don't come around after you've made an effort to respect them and their schedules, then you might have a problem.
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