A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok I've been waiting for this girl for 2 years. She is in a relationship with her bf for 4 years plus. She has on and off feelings towards me. She says her bf is possessive and controlling. If she were to initiate to break up, he wouldn't allow and even if she did, they'll patch back. This has happened countless times. Recently I have sent her birthday which I was holding onto it for very long. I made in such a way where very few guys will go till this extent for a girl. I made it very creatively. Got her a portrait sketch by an artist. Made my own birthday card and a lot of glitter work. When she saw her whole gift, she touched and asked me why I did so much for her. We always quarrel because she insists me in moving on. Sometimes She says she wants me and don't want to lose me. One day, I talked to her guy, told him to treat her properly but he told her about it and started quarreling with her. She got really mad at me and told me that's the end of us and wants to be with him and loves him. I cared so much for her, showered a lot of affection towards her. She told me to get lost from her life. She really hurt me. She knows I did nothing wrong or cause any harm to her. She's in a unhealthy relationship. Will she be still thinking of me and treasure my gifts?? I love her so much! Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): Let fate come to you my brudder.. if you are a good guy and she knows it, she'll remember and think of you again when this relationship of hers doesnt work out. Just take it easy and expose urself with more girls. maybe u'll find one that's more compatible with you?
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): Darlin... I'm sorry but you need to let go and move on. This woman is in a serious committed relationship and though she saw you as a friend at first, you went overboard with the gift (which I think probably freaked her out a bit) and then interfered with her relationship. You can't do that. Even if her own sister did that she'd be mad. When she told you she was done, you have to respect that. I'm sorry that you fell in love with a woman who is unavailable, but you need to let her go, heal your heart and find a woman who cares for you back. You deserve that. You have given this unavaiable crush 2 years of your life. Enough! Move on.
...............................
|
