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writes:Hi, i think i may have screwed up with a guy i like, i sent him a really bitchy message cos he annoyed me. he canceled our plans and i replied on a whim. At the time I was annoyed and thought he was blowing me off. He's really shy and sweet and friends of his told my friends that he really likes me so now i dont think he was blowing me off by canceling. How do i fix it??
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): He annoyed you by canceling, guys rarely cancel dates with girls they are really interested in, don't believe what a third party tells you, pay attention to the guys actions. Unless your text was completely insane, I think he is the one who owes you an apology and a phone call back....don't text him call him or email him.....you have let him know you don't like being taken for granted, don't back down now or it makes you seem like a girl who doesn't stand up for what she expects....you have every right to set a boundary....with him or anyone else.....Since it was the first time he did something like that it may have been over-reacting a little, but still you don't really have much to apologize for....next time sit on your hands if you have too, you have to learn to let guys pursue you, period.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): Just explain to him that you're sorry and you were having a bad day, that's all I can give you without actually knowing what you sent.
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reader, xcharlottex +, writes (24 January 2009):
wait untill he texts/speaks to you 1st. if you initiate the next conversation by apologising you may seem clingy.
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