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Was I wrong to break-up with him? Was I too impatient?

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Question - (1 October 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I just broke-up with my boyfriend recently and everything that was said during the break-up and aftwards gives me mixed emotions on what he was really thinking. First he always said, when we had fights, that I am not good for you or you should be with someone eles. But he never broke it off. Then we had a huge fight and it lasted for a few days about affection. He wanted a break so we can calm our emotions down, so I gave him a few days, when I came back he did not want to continue the relationship nor end it. So I wanted to continue it but it was hurtting me more where it was so I ended it. Now, I regret saying this, because I think he might of forced it on me. But then I find out that from his mom, that he was holding me back, and from friends that he was not ready for the relationship. And the day we broke-up he said that I was the best girl he has ever had. And now he completly ignores me and will not talk to me ever.

I don't know what to do, I tried forgetting but things like this keep comming up! Was I wrong to break-up with him? Was I too impatient? Do you think he cares for me? I just want to get over this, but I feel so left open by this and I have no closure. If anyone had any advice for me, Please Please let me know??

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