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No more attention unless he wants sex! What is going on?

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Question - (4 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend have known each other about 4 months now and have dated about 3 months. at first we were all over each other. that lasted for about a month, if that. now he doesn't pay any attention to me unless he wants sex, which he hardly wants it. and won't even sit with me on the couch to watch a movie. i have confronted him about it and he said i'm smothering him. and leave him alone because he's watching tv. all he does is work and watch tv.

he says he still loves me but i don't think he does. he doesn't even text me anymore while he's at work. what could be going on?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008):

If he is acting like this after dating for three months then there must be something on his mind ask him what itis and try to help him solve his problem

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008):

i hate to say it but maybe u have just drifted apart,

there can be many reasons for it, but the main one and the most unpleasent one is hes cheating

i hope im wrong

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A female reader, lifehasnorules Spain +, writes (4 May 2008):

If, after 4 short months he treates you like this..why are you sticking around and putting up with it? If you let a man treat you like a doormat he will continue to do so and it will never get better. If a man told me I was smothering him...I would get up and he could kiss my butt on the way out the door. OK so my guess is he has another girl and can´t get the courage up to tell you.

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