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writes:ok so here is the deal.. my mom tells me my gf of 7 months now is taking advantage of me. in this short time she has given up her apartment in an attempt to move in with her dad but she is never at his house she is at my house 5 days out of the week. she never pays any bills she just lives rent free and i'm gettin irritated. she has never asked to contribute on aything other than toilet tissue, soap and some food. about 25 dollars u.s. money.my bills are way more than that. well her car is down this month and i let her use my car for 1 day to attend her friends college graduation.This morning she gets up very careful not to wake me and attempts to take my car without asking nor even wakeing me up. she isn't very affectionate and she acts as if i irritate her all the time. Is she taking advantage of me?
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reader, Ember13 +, writes (5 May 2008):
I don't know if she's purposefully taking advantage of you. She could jsut not be aware of what she is doing. I think you should sit her down and have a talk. If she's a reasonable person she might realize what she's doing and either contritube more financially or lay off. But if you just want your space, tell her to lay off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2008): Yes honey! Either talk to her or you should seriously consider your relationship, because you deserve so much more than you're getting from her. Good luck.
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reader, WiccanWonder  +, writes (4 May 2008):
 I think she is taking advantage of you, explain to her you want more help with paying bills etc. and would appreciate her asking to use your car in the future, if she does not accept these terms then finish it with her!
I hope this helps
Love & Hugs
Good luck
tasha x
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