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I can't get/keep an erection -any ideas?

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Question - (4 May 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 May 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey

i usely have sex with my grilriend about four times a week, on two seperate days. im really attracted to her and her body arrouses me but i can't get/keep an errection. we do foreplay and is fun for her but not so much for me as:

1. its quite embarassing im not hard

2. im not hard so it doesnt feel as good

i don't really masturbate and i dont drink or do drugs.

any ideas? =[

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A male reader, Namatjira United Kingdom +, writes (4 May 2008):

Do not worry too much about it. You are still young and your body is still changing.

The other thing to consider is that a man can only come so many times in a short number of days (it varies with each man, but there is a limit) before the body needs to recharge itself. So if that is the case, try waiting a week or so before having sex again. You may find the problem fixes itself.

The other thing is to not worry as that can contribute to the softness as well.

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