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writes:Me and my boyfriend of 6 years had a row. We lived togetheher (house in his name). Both decided I should move back to my parents. I did.He also bought me a car (he is self employed and earns a comfortable life). That was left behind. At the time I had just got a job I had been waiting for, but as I had to move back to my parents which is an hour from where the job would be, I had to turn it down.I'm now at my parents, back in my old room. No car. No job (currently looking). And we are seeing each other again.Am I being selfish? Because I wonder why he isn't bothered? Seeing me go without a car etc? Nothing in his life changed. Feel angry. I lost everything. He hasn't offered to give any of it back or give me the option. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007): I think 6 years is too long to date someone who is financially capable of marrying and supporting you. Living together as you found out is not a good deal for the woman, he has basically put you out, and since the house is in his name and so is the car, you have no legal recourse and your life has been negatively affected by the decisions you made for him as a couple.
You need to dump this guy, he is through with you and now he is just a hanger on.....he is not being totally honest with you, he does not want to marry you, he is happy just dating you.....6 years is too long to drag this thing out, you need to become self supporting and don't move in with a guy in the future unless you have a ring on your finger and a promise of a future and marriage...otherwise, it is just playing house.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007): HiI posted the questionThe car was bought for me 5 years agoYes we have some probs but are now seeing e.other again
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (28 July 2007):
 Why have someone buy you a car in the first place, and if you both agreed you should move out, then there must be some probs there? And if so, why would he want to be giving you cars?Im not sure what to say here cuz theres not a lot of detail to go on.C xxxxxxxx
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