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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Sexual positions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - What's your favorite sexual position and why?...

The anecdote of perfection!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Okay, so. I'm 19, shes 20. We started going out about 9 months ago, we click, we are perfectly together. So perfect, that i know its bad. We are both very close, we don't have intrest in other people, but we find, that our relationshop is perfect. ...

Oddly attracted to cousin...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Well, how can I explain this... recently, I have been very "oddly" attracted to my female cousin. I don't know why, but I need to know. Is this wrong? Please help me out guys, I'm waiting....

My sex life is just one big stress!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I am soo stressed about this. I'm very young but I love my bf. I don't know if I should wait or go for it but I have a feeling that this time is right to have sex but when it comes to this I get very stressed out I tremble and I can't breathe. I ...

I'm a bit stuck! What to get him for valentine's day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - im 15 and ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 months, we love each other so much x and its going so well... its coming up to valentines day and have thought of some stuff to get him but dont want them to be too mushy..., i was thinking about ...

I broke his trust... how can I make this better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Okay, so I am a senior in high school and so is my boyfriend and we are both almost 18. We have been together since we were freshmen and our three year anniversary is coming up. Our first time having sex wasn't planned at all and this happene...

What's a 69'r???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has recently asked me to perform a 69er with him but I don't know what to do :S please help ...

How do I stay strong and have faith???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Well I've been going out with this guy for about a year, and we've just decided to split up because we both go to different schools and have hobbies and commitments inbetween and it's made it hard for us to be together and to be a proper couple as ...

I am always nice to girls, but they don't seem attracted to me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - No girls seem that attracted to me, i am always nice to them, being a gentleman what else can i do, ...

Should I tell him my REAL age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - hey you guys i have a question that i want to ask im 14 soon to be 15 in june and my boyfriend is younger than i am i want to tell himm that im older than him but im way to scared that he might reject me becuse of that. please tell me how should i ...

Would having sex with her change the perameters of our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Hi. I'm an 18 year old virgin. A girl I know, who is a close friend of mine, has said she will have sex with me if I want, so I can gain experience. I really like her, and I wouldn't say no, if you get me. But she's one of my closest friends ...

First kiss difficulties...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - dear cupid: how do you have your first kiss with a boy who hasnt ever kissed any one either cos everyone has told me to follow him but wot if he was expectin to follow me ??? x...

What position would be best for first time intercourse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - so me and my gf are goin to have sex for the 1st time. we are both sure we want to do this. i have asked other questions having to do with this, and so far almost no one has said anything about waiting until were legal, and isnt the legal age 16? ...

Should we wait longer to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - hey im 15 and im thinking about having sex with my girlfreind but my penis is 5.5" erect with the girth of 4" is it too small and should i wait longer + will a condom fit ?...

How can a friend be so close and never want to talk to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My friend only talks to me when he doesn't kno its me? I just started AIM and added him. He kept asking who it was and I didnt want to tll him knowing if I did he would never chat with me. I wanted so much to talk to him but he never understands me. ...

Once I was accused of rape and it proved to be a lie! I am afraid it can happen again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - I just need some reassurance because i am worrying really. When i was 11 in school, we went on a week long residential trip to wales, half way through the week, a person i thought was a friend, she was also 11 accused me of raping her. it got found ...

"Fake" friend hitting on girlfriend - what should I do so she doesn't speak to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - im an 18 year old male. i have a girlfriend and my friend is so messed up and says stuff to her behind my back. he asks her to send him sexual pictures. he asks her for kisses to cheer him up. and to bite her ass and stuff. the thing is i promised ...

I'm afraid to kiss him coz I can't stand his gross teeth.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - okay, my boyfriend is amazing and sweet and i really like him but im afraid to kiss him to tell you the truth his teeth are gross and i just cant stand them but i want to kiss him but idk wat to do. should i kiss him and see how it goes first or...

I'm 16 and I need advice on how to talk to girls!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Im 16, i never had a girlfriend or even got my first kiss yet. its not hard for me to talk to my girls that are my friends, but i get super nervous and shy around really hot girls idk. what should i do to "break out of the shell" and also, i rush ...

I got my period twice in a month. Am I pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hey guys i am new to this i am in serious needs of answer... Okay so here the problem I had my period Jan. 14.2010.. Me and my boyfriend started having sex Jan 2nd 2010.... and then we had sex on the jan 12th 2010.. so i got my period a day after we ...

What did she mean by saying "I don't know you?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Ok! I have a personal problem I want to ask you guys. When I was in high-school, I was single throughout. One day I remember I asked this girl for her telephone number. I didn't know much about her, but I knew her name. I just thought she was ...

I think he has feelings for another girl! How do I talk to him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I think my boyfriend has feelings for another girl... Should I talk to him about it? What would I say if I talk to him about it? HELP!!!...

He told me he's territorial and doesn't want me hanging out with other guys! What does he mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - hey i gotta question whats it mean when my boyfriend tells me that he doesn't want me hanging with other guys or really talking to them.....he told me hes territorial...??...

Mom is disappointed I went to a club instead of the movies. Am I a bad person for telling the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hey you guys,i kno it has been a while and I have missed you all.Ok,last weekend was my cousins birthday and she decided to go to a club afterwards.I had an eerie feeling about it but mi cousins convinced me not to be scared(being that i'm only 16 ...

Told my gf I watch porn, and she doesn't understand. What can I say to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - i have been watching porn. i have been with my gf for 4 years so i told her that i watched porn. she got mad and was telling me that i shouldn't be watching those things cause it is all fake so i told her that even if it is fake the sex seems real. ...

Older Boyfriend, I don't want to lose him. Should I worry about him going out to clubs and parties???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a really good relationship. He's there for me, cares for me, and wants to be with me in the future. I feel that i can trust him, and dont mind him talking (as friends) to other girls. So ive been on punishment lately and ...

Period cycles...please clarify for me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - hi okay this is a question about periods and period cycles. Considering my age i really should know this but honestly i am don't have a clue. Someone asked me a while ago how long is my cycle and i answered 34 days however i got to thinking abou...

Planning my future in the Navy. My friends don't understand and I feel isolated.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - hi i'm applying for the navy soon (in july to be precise) so i've been training phisically, mentally and emotionally. i've also been getting as much experience as i can on ships n that. but i'm only 15. half the people who are 16 in my school ...

Me and my gf are going to have sex...should I shave down there?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Me and my gf are going to have sex. we talked about it before, and i dont know if to shave down there. she said she wouldnt like it if i sis because then it might be prickly and might hurt. or should i just trim really small?...

He hugged me...does he like me or was he kidding around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - So i'm in tennis. There's this guy on my tennis team, he's korean and i'm viet/chinese. He's a sophomore and i'm a freshman. On Friday, my friends and I stayed after school to practice and play, and he showed up, since he always stays after scho...

Save your "you are just a kid" speeches

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - Ok righto. My beautiful girlfriend's mum brewed up a shit storm with a friend of my family. The mum is a hell of a lot less immature than than my love. So after the fact things between my girlfriend, lets call her Ella, and me have been a bit ...

I'm planning to have sex with my boyfriend on prom night. How can I stay safe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - im planning to have sex with my boyfriend on prom night, i really feel like we're connected because we've been dating for 2 years. im a little nervous any good tips on safe sex, how to satisfy him, and if im making the right decision??? ...

I won't be able to see or talk her for two plus weeks and don't know what to do! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

30 January 2010 (?) - So about a week ago me and my girlfriend skipped a day of school so we could spend the day together alone (I know this isn't a good idea but it's really hard for us to spend extended amounts of time together alone not in a sexual way but just to ...

I fingered my gf the other day and she said it wasn't as good as she thought it would be.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - I fingered my gf the other day and i asked how it felt. She said it didn't feel any different and that it felt normal. It was her first time and she was expecting more out of it but she said it wasn't as good as she thought it would be. I was ...

I know there are plenty of fish in the sea, but I want this fish

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Ok, Here goes. There is an attractive girl. We have really been talking recently and getting to know each other really well recently. I know she likes me. She thinks I'm nice, she even told me she thinks I'm cute. Today, we were talking and she told...

My ex just wont take a hint!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Well, i broke up with this guy because i didnt like him as much any more(actually he got boring lol) but he still thinks i like him and like stares, flirts, and talks about these weird subjects with me. its so annoying! at my school dance he came up ...

I've lost the urge, and want to get it back again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

29 January 2010 (?) - Me and my boyfriend of three months just started "doing things" like I gave him a hand job and he fingered me we did that alot and all of a sudden I lost all interest in doing that and I want to be in the mood again. Anybody have advice on why and ...

Why is it that when I start dating one guy, I start to like another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Can someone please explain this to me: When I start dating a guy, it's great...except I start to like another guy. Every single relationship I've been in, it's good for awhile, but then I start to like someone else. What is wrong with me? Why do I ...

I lied to my teacher and now I feel really bad

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (?) - My classroom assistant told my geography teache I was up until half past midnight doing homework. I was up til 11.30 doing it but that's not the problem I lied to him saying I was finding geography ok when I'm not I'm finding parts of it hard and I ...

I still love my ex even though he treated me like dirt and I have someone new

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

29 January 2010 (?) - Me and my ex have been together for a year on and off he treated me like crap and I still took him back everytime. He cheated and broke up with me millions of times and he even kissed my sister and I still love him. I can tell he doesn't want ...

Does xXx on the end of a guys text mean anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Does xXx on the end of a guys text mean anything? Hes a mate of mine, we dont speak much, not sure why but when we do i start it. he doesnt normally put any kisses on the end of texts so im wondering if this one meant something? (btw he sent me ...

Why do you think he kept staring at me?...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - hi i was walking home from school and there was this guy walking infront of me.everytime a car would go up the street he would turn around and look at the car i thought he might be getting picked up by someone but he just carried on but everytime...

How do you feel about larger inner lips?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Male and female opinions wanted - please be truthful! How do you feel about the inner lips being outside the outer by quite a fair bit? Please be honest !...

My boyfriend always thinks I'm talking to other guys and thinks I'm tired of him and its p***ing me off so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is the best. He does everything he absolutely can for me. He tells me he loves me everyday. So here's the problem...in his past relationships hes been lied to and cheated on with two of the girls he went out with and they both broke up ...

I was on the phone with her a few hours ago and she said hold on one second and I said ok, I was on hold for 30 minutes before I hung up.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - i am 14 and my girlfriend of 7 months in 16 our relationship is really good we go a lot of places and she is always laughing at my jokes and i laugh at most of hers but lately my girlfriend just disapears from time to time, i'll be texting her and ...

In the beginning we talked alot and he told me how much he missed me and now when I IM him he doesn't reply.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - This summer I went to Dominican republic and fell in love with a guy who works at my grandparents. We kissed, snuck out to the beach, it was amazing. ( I'm 13, we didn't have sex) I go there every summer so we said our goodbyes and see ya next ...

Does he still have feelings for me after all of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I've known my x boyfriend since we were in the 1st grade and from church but up until april of last year did i find out that he had feelings for me that he claims he's had since we were younger. I didn't take it into consideration, but he was ...

Should guys shave their penis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Should guys shave their penis...

I have problems keeping eye contact, or even talking to her for that matter

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I am 14,female,and bi. Recently a girl who I've had a crush on for several months asked me out. So, we are going out now, but whenever I'm around her or talk to her I blush. It's soo noticable because my face gets very red. I have problems keeping ...

Is it pointless to confess your love to someone who doesn't go to the same school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I really like my friend, but he doesn't go to the same school as me anymore. I'm afraid to tell him that I like him because I don't think he will like that idea since we don't see each other anymore. Regardless, I couldn't help having feelings ...