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writes: Me and my ex have been together for a year on and off he treated me like crap and I still took him back everytime. He cheated and broke up with me millions of times and he even kissed my sister and I still love him. I can tell he doesn't want anything to so with me now and he still plays mind games with me. I have a new boyfriend of three months he is great to me. I've never had anyone to treat me better but I'm still in love with my ex and I don't want to be I've tried and tried to get over him but it just doesn't work. Please help me out with some advice and tips to get over him. shit
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): how did your ex treat you badly???
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reader, visione +, writes (29 January 2010):
But what about him makes you still "love" him? He has done a lot of things to hurt you yet you still hold on? I'm glad you have found someone new who treats you right, but you should respect your new bf by forgetting about your ex. How can you still think about your ex when you have someone new in your life? Is that fair?
Like strongfp said, you should maintain no contact with your ex and just forget about him. If you constantly think about him and the past you'll never be able to "get over" him. Break ups are painful but you have to move on, and that's near impossible to do if: you aren't willing to move on / you have hope in him, he's still in your life, and/or you still pay attention to him.
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