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Sex: Help and advice

Our sex life has declined. How normal is this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

31 July 2017 (F) - Hi everyone me and my fiance have been together nearly 4 year but lately our sex life has became non existant. im this normal? I'm lucky if it's once a week. we have just came back from a week's holiday and didn't have sex at all while we were ...

His demands seem unreasonable. Am I being foolish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2676 days ago

30 July 2017 (F) - I have had a boyfriend for a long time and its got so he always wants back rubs and oral sexs all the time. I have told him that I do not want to do that without a condom. He prefers no condom. However for health issues I only do oral and other ...

Is a man considered promiscuous for having 15 sexual partners?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2674 days ago

29 July 2017 (F) - Is having 12-15 women as sexual partners considered promiscuous for the average man? Would that many partners be a deal breaker for you? ...

My boyfriend masterbated to porn next to me while I was sleeping

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2678 days ago

29 July 2017 (F) - Hello, so I woke up next to my boyfriend yesterday and noticed porn in his history, I was confused so I asked him why he had porn in his history and he said he fapped last night. I asked him if he did it right next to me and he said yes!!!! Is it ...

My boyfriend is cheating, pressuring me to have sex. I'm afraid he'll leave me if I don't give in

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2676 days ago

29 July 2017 (F) - I am 19 and even tho i know all my friends are having sex, i know it doesn't mean i have to but i'm getting a lot of pressure from my boyfriend to do it right now. The pressure seems to be more and more as the days go on. And I will be honest, i ...

Why won't he play with me and not himself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2663 days ago

28 July 2017 (F) - Boyfriend of 1 year who is 33 and I am 29 . He masturbates in bed next to me when he thinks I am asleep or if I am awake he quickly goes to the bathroom. Once he does the deed, then he will say sweet things oh i miss you, oh i love you. We have sex ...

Is what we are doing right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2678 days ago

27 July 2017 (F) - Hello everyone actually I'm quite curious to tell about my relation as I'm dating a guy and it's been just 1 mth that we have been in a relation and he always likes licking my boobs and he always like to put his hand n rub in my private part i a...

I don't want a ring on my finger but I would like more affection!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2501 days ago

26 July 2017 (F) - I've been seeing my fella for 12 yrs and have to say we are not in love although I feel I'm more fond of him than he is of me! He is totally inscrutable and never reveals his feelings. He is very reliable and fab company. I would say we are in lust ...

Why do I want him so much? With no cares about who gets hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2681 days ago

26 July 2017 (F) - The below is a story about, love, betrayal, cheating, and fate... In order for you to understand my story, I have to take it back TO THE BEGINNING. 6 years ago I met my now ex-boyfriend. After a year of us dating, we both moved across the count...

First time sex was a disaster!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2661 days ago

26 July 2017 (F) - I tried sex for the first time I really like the guy and I really did want it, but when it came to it, it didn't feel good. First he wouldn't fit into me, then he started touching me which I barely felt and when he was finally inside me I didn't f...

My boyfriend won't have sex with me. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2529 days ago

26 July 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now so it is still pretty fresh. At first we never had problems with having sex and then the past few weeks I've noticed he just doesn't seem that interested. There would be small excuses from can't ...

I'm very puzzled by my boyfriend's giantess fetish. Can someone explain?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2682 days ago

24 July 2017 (F) - Hello, i'm very open about porn and sexual things and nothing really phases me, however I found out my boyfriend has a foot fetish, it's not something that really did it for me, but seeing how turned on he gets by using my feet etc, i'm starting to ...

Sex for the first time--how do I feel more brave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2683 days ago

24 July 2017 (M) - I'm going to have sex with my gf for the first time , I need help on how to feel more confortable about my self and how to be more brave....

Why do men think its alright to comment on a woman's nether regions?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2661 days ago

22 July 2017 (F) - This is probably more of a rant than anything, but what is up with some men thinking it's ok to comment on the look of a woman's vagina/vulva?! Whether it's not neat enough, 'beef curtains', too hairy, it 'looks loose'... the list goes on! My m...

Should I let him go? or see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2685 days ago

22 July 2017 (F) - I met this guy last year while I was drunk eating pizza after clubbing with my friend (typical party girl scene) now I never took this guy seriously I'd always ignore his texts, or keep conversations small, sometimes he'd ask to hang out but I'd ...

I'm lost in feelings about my cousin. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2677 days ago

20 July 2017 (M) - Well as my title states I'm lost on my feelings about my cousin. It first started out when we were kids and we were both very close. Then we both learned out sex. We experimented quite a bit. To tell you the truth it made us even closer. From there ...

How do I tell a man he's not doing it for me in the bedroom?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2687 days ago

19 July 2017 (F) - Ok so my problem is pretty simple. How do I tell a man he's not doing it for me in the bedroom? I've been seeing a man for about 6 weeks now and in the last two weeks we've started to have sex, but it really isn't good. He's a great kisser and...

I don't want to panic in the future about oral sex performed on me, advice please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2674 days ago

18 July 2017 (F) - Hi I'm an 18 y/o girl and lost my virginity earlier this year. It was great, and the foreplay was even better, except as he was kissing his way down there I was pulling him back up. I told him I wasn't comfortable with him going down on me, like I ...

I can't deal with his passive aggressive behavior when I don't want sex

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2686 days ago

17 July 2017 (F) - I met a guy, who is now my boyfriend, 3 months ago. He has made it clear he is really into me. I wasn't sure if I was atttacted to him enough, but he was lovely to me and we had a lot in common, so I went with it. I was very happy to fiND we worked ...

Husband wants sex and a baby but he's searching online for partners

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2682 days ago

17 July 2017 (F) - Everyday I feel more and more sick. My husband always asks for sex but I don't want it, he wants a child but I don't, not even an adopted child, but he insists, and now he's trying to turn me on but I say no. The real problem is he's searching o...

Can you stay friends after having a one night stand?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2682 days ago

17 July 2017 (F) - About a month ago, I met a guy on a dating site. We would talk from night to morning every day. I kind of like him, but he rarely talked about himself. I was curious about him; therefore, I checked on him on Facebook and found out that he has a ...

I cheated on my fiance and am looking at others because of the lack of sex in our relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2692 days ago

13 July 2017 (F) - Looking for advice... I'm marrying my fiancé next year whom I've been with for 9 years. We've had our ups and downs over the years and he's not had much time for me over the past couple of years as he's been studying on top of his full time job. Thi...

Desperately seeking sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2694 days ago

11 July 2017 (F) - Im single and i have been having a few dates here and there. Its all fine but im not getting any connections with anyone. Im quite horny now and miss the regular sex and dirty talk. Sex toys and masturbating are fine for a while but its just not the ...

How do I get out of loving the "other man" when I'm a married woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2694 days ago

11 July 2017 (F) - 4 years ago I became colleagues with a man I met online. He knew I was married from the beginning and he was always platonic with me, or so I thought, Things soon started getting weird between us and he started acting jealous whenever I'd men...

Will a guy wait for sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2653 days ago

10 July 2017 (F) - How long will men wait to have sex? I am 31 and I have had only two boyfriends - I suffer from obsessive compulsive disorder and it's hard for me to be intimate because I always fear catching diseases. I am always mostly been celibate because of ...

I don't understand his shallow attitude to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2687 days ago

10 July 2017 (M) - I was speaking to this guy for a few months. He seemed quite interested in me, always compliment me, ask for face pictures of me, just so sweet and lovely! We met up a few times and we eventually had sex... he complimented me during the sex (saying ...

My friend seems keen for me to have sex with his wife

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2691 days ago

8 July 2017 (M) - I am single guy....... A friend of mine and his wife who I have both known for years,went over my apartment last night, after drinking at a local bar,and we ended up having a threesome, after he encouraged her... afterwards it was a little...

Why won't he do what he used to offer me in bed?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2691 days ago

7 July 2017 (F) - Basically, me and my partner got together in 2012. We're engaged now and have two kids so our relationship is serious. I'm 23 and he's 27. When we met we did start off at friends with benefits for about 6 months before becoming bf gf. Anyway, in the ...

Should I back of and give her time to deal with things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2699 days ago

7 July 2017 (M) - So for the past month or so I've been sleeping with this girl I know through mutual friends. We always have a lot of fun together when we hang out. She's just getting out of a seven year relationship and is currently in the process of moving out of ...

I am much less experienced sexually and it bothers me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2699 days ago

6 July 2017 (M) - I am a lot less experienced sexually than my girlfriend. She has had atleast 13 past sexual partners aswell as a long term boyfriend. Unfortunately her efforts to try and be open and honest about her sexual past (which I respect her for) led to me ...

He's asking about people I've slept within the past 2 years!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2699 days ago

6 July 2017 (F) - I've recently got into a relationship with a guy i've been seeing on and off for a long time. We've only been together a couple of months officially but he's began to ask about people i've slept with over the past two years. He's quite insecure as ...

Why is everyone sceptical about a 'friends with benefits' arrangement?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2700 days ago

5 July 2017 (M) - So a while back me and my friend had sex a couple of times. We actually live in a shared house with other people, although they don't know that anything happened between us. We had known each other for about a year before this happened, and had ...

Does this mean he just wants casual sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2700 days ago

5 July 2017 (F) - There's this guy who used to work with my dad, who's a few year younger than me but we seemed to get on. Every time I went into his work (a pub) he seemed to be having the usual barman banter and fun with me (sometimes he'd go a little further ...

Is it too soon to be calling it a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2700 days ago

5 July 2017 (?) - i have been seeing someone for seven weeks and we see each other two/three times a week. i am in my forties and so it is not a young relationship. however i have begun to notice that he sometimes does not contact me for a day or two after he has ...

I'm unhappy at home and crushing on a co worker

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2700 days ago

3 July 2017 (F) - Hi not sure if anyone will be able to help but hoping someone can give some advice or even discuss similar experiences? So I'm 38 have a boyfriend of 7 years and 2 young children (5 and 6) life is quiet and settled never any arguments, however ...

Went out with a colleague but things took a downward turn. He's not interested anymore and I feel stuck blaming myself. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2698 days ago

3 July 2017 (F) - So me and my colleague started to like each other so we exchanged numbers. I wasn't looking for anything serious because of the age difference but I was sexually attracted to him, and it appeared mutual. We were texting and we decided to go out ...

I am involved with a married woman.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2700 days ago

3 July 2017 (M) - So first off let’s just get the I’m an idiot, I’m a horrible person, I’m naïve, I need to grow up, and all that out of the way. I am an idiot for this and I didn’t want to let my emotions get involved but I let my guard down and now I’m lost. Ju...

Do men lose out on any pleasure by using condoms?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2653 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - Hi Aunts. I've met this amazing guy and we have been chatting for a while, he is going at a slow pace with me :)he is kind, understanding and says he is very much in love with me, I feel the same. I can trust him and I think he's perfect for me ...

I don't want to be replaced by a vibrator .... again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

2 July 2017 (M) - I have a much higher sex drive than my wife. About 10 years ago I bought a vibrator for her. Everything was great and we used it a lot together when we had sex, and sex happened more frequently. After a while, she lost almost all interest in havi...

He groped me without permission during our first kiss!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

1 July 2017 (F) - I'm 15 and I went hiking yesterday with my friend (he lives in another state, but he used to live in the state that I live in so we haven't seen each other in a while so we've been flirting over FaceTime and such) and I was tired so I needed to sit ...