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26-29,
anonymous
writes:There's this guy who used to work with my dad, who's a few year younger than me but we seemed to get on. Every time I went into his work (a pub) he seemed to be having the usual barman banter and fun with me (sometimes he'd go a little further as in like flicking water at me) Anyway. He recently lost his job but we started to talk on Snapchat. Things were fine until he mentioned he wanted to have sex with me. I was taken aback because i would never have thought he'd want that with me. I told him this and he said "after all that flirting and banter and you still couldn't tell"He says he wants cause fun - I'm assuming this means he just wants sex and fooling around. Am I right?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 July 2017):
 yip you are right, he doesn't want anything serious, just wants to get in to your pants.
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reader, Caring Aunty A  +, writes (5 July 2017):
 I'm sure he had tried flirting with other girls (for casual sex) when he was working as a Barman. Whether he had any luck, who knows?
Now that he's lost his job and you've become chatty, he's straight to the point in that he wants sex, because the Bar has run dry. Yet there’s no wining and dining, dating, how's your father, just open up as he’s done the all romantic gestures of flirting and magic water flicking for you be his tart no doubt?
Yeah since when is flicking water a sign for; come on baby, I’m your man? Like that’ll get any woman with class real juicy for more? What a player – he’s a dud.
If a guy has any luck after that, he should sell bottles of that water across the Nation. Guys like him who are so cheap could have free casual sex for life!?
Take Care – CAA
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (5 July 2017):
 Yep. I think he has sensed that you at least COULD be receptive to some casual sex so he put it out there. He might do that to ANY girl he finds attractive and who seems to like him.
Having banter doesn't mean automatically that you are looking for sex.
He on the other hand probably uses his "charm" to entice something more (as in first banter, then a little chat, flirting then bam! sex - then on to next girl).
IF you were/are looking for a BF then look elsewhere HE isn't it.
If you just want some NSA (no strings attached) sex... he is up for it. Just don't expect MORE.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2017): I would say he's only after one thing n if u do it u might not see him again so I would say no
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reader, N91 +, writes (5 July 2017):
 Did you mean to say 'casual fun'?
If so then yes, he wants nothing more than sex.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (5 July 2017):
 Yeah, that's all he wants. I'd suggest giving it a miss, though - he sounds like you'd be a notch on his bedpost, not an equal partner he should pleasure too.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (5 July 2017):
 If you're into casual sex then it's your call but I would stay away from this cheap, creepy guy if I were you.
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