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writes:Hello, i'm very open about porn and sexual things and nothing really phases me, however I found out my boyfriend has a foot fetish, it's not something that really did it for me, but seeing how turned on he gets by using my feet etc, i'm starting to understand it.However, he recently told me while he was drunk that he likes Giantess porn, basically the thought of being tiny, almost smurf like, while squirming around and being used by a "giant" I asked him to show me what he meant, and he showed me a porn video, the porn was basically a woman from a camera point of view that made her seem like a giant, playing with ant sized men who had been photo shopped in or tiny polly pocket sized toys, the woman would torture these men by shoving them in her vagina or squashing them between her feet while masturbating. I just can't get my head around it, he says for him he likes the thought of being small and used and being able to squrim around inside a vagina, I just don't understand it, ive tried googling it and all I can find is men that liked to be squashed by giants, I understand that, a lot of men love to be squished between boobs and bums etc, but I cant understand the appeal to want to be ant sized and their whole body be used as a sex toy.Can someone please explain it to me? I want to understand it, I dont think its weird as everyone is different, but he says he cant explain it but I feel I cant satisfy him unless I get my head around this fetish!
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reader, judgedick  +, writes (25 July 2017):
 Every day is a school day, and life holds new things for us all the time, many of us don't even know if we have a fetish or not as our fetish can be popular and be excepted as normal sex life, all I can say is if you love each other and it does not get in the way you don't even have to understand his fetish completely and luck you two can talk to each other about it as many people sneak around on the internet looking for like minded people to talk to, Any one that works in hospital can tell you about things they see that their other half never know, like a man that was taken in after a car crash and he had a case in the car full of women's wear.His wife thought at first he was having an affair as he should not be where he was when he had the crash, turned out he and another man used to share their transvestite fetish
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2017): Stop trying to understand it. It just is. It works for him. It's a turn on. That's all you need to know. You don't have to be aroused by the same things in order to pleasure each other. I believe he is fine on his own with this interest of his, no need for you to partake in it unless he's specifically asked to role play it or something. We don't all like the same things, and there is nothing more to understand about it. I'm sexually aroused by plenty of things that I really do not think others would understand. But I do not see the point in making other people understand it either. It's for me, not for them, so why would I need everyone else to get aroused by the same things I get aroused by? No, you go have fun with the things that turn you on, and let him have his fun with his own fetishes. It's not for you to understand, simply just enjoy that your man has an active sex life that he shares with you and enjoy the great sex you have together. Most of these feitshes are the most enjoyable when you can imagine it or pretend it, and there is no need or desire to role play it or act on it in real life. So don't worry about not being able to satisfy him, because he is able to satisfy himself. And if he needs/wants something from you, he will ask for it.
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reader, This_is_not_a_dress_rehearsal  +, writes (25 July 2017):
 Prince Charles wanted to be Camilla's tampon. Google it!
He just wants to give himself over to being completely sexual. It's his thing and your nice to want to get in his skull but don't stress too much.
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reader, Allumeuse +, writes (24 July 2017):
It cant be explained. Fantasies are a product of our subconscious, which in turn are a product of our childhood. Perhaps in his childhood he was sexually aroused by a woman who appeared giant to him. Not even he knows. I'm surprised by the previous poster that there is any real resistance to this-EVERYBODY has fantasies. They are all different. It might be feet, it might be dressing up as a baby, it might be scatological! Some are extreme! This is benign. It could involve violence or pain. Some women have fantasies like this so it isn't just men. It could be benign but other in a conventional way- imagine if he wanted women of a different skin colour or body type to you. This is impossibly other- good no? The truth is, contrary to modern romantic myth, noone ever knows anyone inside out, and frankly it'd be boring if your partner never surprised you, so i don't know why anyone would want that. Stop worrying, and IF you're amenable, think about to make yourself seem really big!
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (24 July 2017):
 Wow! Just when you think you have heard everything!
There are many fetishes which are difficult, if not impossible, to explain. All I can say is that he is lucky to have someone as open minded as you. Some (many?) women would head for the hills.
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