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writes: i have been seeing someone for seven weeks and we see each other two/three times a week. i am in my forties and so it is not a young relationship. however i have begun to notice that he sometimes does not contact me for a day or two after he has been round. i don't think he is seeing someone else but i have seen that he is online but does not check his messages from me. am i stupid to be annoyed by this or is it okay when you have had someone round to not hear from them? also he has said that he cares a lot for me and vice versa but we have put no label on our relationship, i was asked last night if he is my boyfriend or am i just 'seeing him'. i said i guessed it was that i was seeing him as that has not been mentioned, is it early days and too soon to be calling it a relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 July 2017):
 You do understand that us 'agony aunts' do have a life as well!!
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (6 July 2017):
 You have misunderstood. What the instruction means is not to write your whole question in capitals. Sorry to have shot you down over that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2017): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt states not to put capital letters when you ask the question, I know full well when to use them!
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reader, Denizen +, writes (6 July 2017):
You put yourself as, please excuse me, middle aged, and yet you are worried about labels. That, and the fact that you haven't found the way to add capital letters to your sentences leads me to believe that you are a lot younger.
There is no hard or fast rule about when you are in a relationship or not, and whether he is a boyfriend or just a friend. It doesn't matter what you call it. Just take it for what it is and enjoy each other's company.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2017): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncheers for the advice, must have been a too difficult problem to comprehend any help. i have drawn my own conclusions, no thanks to you 'agony aunts'
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