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Archived questions from: March, 2016 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I have feelings for the boy I am texting and having sex with

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3148 days ago

30 March 2016 (?) - The past 2 month I've been texting and sleeping with a guy and recently found out I am 4 weeks pregnant. We have spoke about it and argued a lot over the past few days due to him telling all of his friends after me repeatedly asking and telling him ...

After we had sex I assumed he would not be back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3148 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - I met a guy on a dating site. We met up and ended up sleeping together. This was my first time involving myself in something like this. I watched him during the date and he is mature, understanding and well-balanced. I had a feeling that we would ...

The messages are turning sexual. When is it a good time to tell him I've never had sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3143 days ago

29 March 2016 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks now and everything seems to be great and going really well. We've been on a few dates that have also turned out well and we both are starting to enjoy each other's company. I'm really starting to ...

Do all women like to be watched while they are bathing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3149 days ago

29 March 2016 (M) - When I ask my wife how she will feel if some one peek in her bathroom and watch her bath, she got extremely horny. Is that normal... how do I know she got extremely horny?, I was doing an intercource with her when I asked. So she basically went ...

If I stop smoking weed will I stop having gay thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3144 days ago

29 March 2016 (M) - Okay. So I'm a 20 year old male. I have always been straight. I masturbated a lot in the last 2 years, excessively to straight/lesbiano porn. I smoked lots of weed in my day and realized I can't really get hard while high or drunk. About 8 months ...

My boyfriend seemed too interested in my friend during our threesome

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3140 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and have had a great sex life with lots of experimentation as we both have high sex drives. He has always wanted to have a threesome so I, having had two previous good experiences with thr...

Are there men who want to build relationships and not just have casual sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3149 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid It's a rhetorical question may be, but is there men who wants to build a relationship not just have casual sex. I have been dating for sometime and lost trust in male population as it is, everywhere I see people just want to have a c...

This new guy is generally nice but very strange at times

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3149 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - help!! This new guy that i am seeing is generally a nice sweet guy, but he is weird in a way that he denies when i ask him not to do anything or change, basically everything. For example, he has a habit early in a morning create a horrend...

I'm Sexually innexperienced , does it affect my chances of meeting someone ? (Bi)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3149 days ago

26 March 2016 (M) - Dear People of dearcupid.org Let me start off first by writing about myself. I am a bi sexual male in the early 20s , living in Europe. I don't prefer any gender over the other. I work out regularly and I like my self the way I am. You could ...

We had a one night stand and now she is pregnant1

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3152 days ago

26 March 2016 (M) - We had a one night stand, and now a month later she's saying she's pregnant. I checked the condom after for holes and it seemed find as no water was dripping through. I wanted her to get an abortion as I'm sure she doesn't want kids with me an...

I'm too shy in bed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3155 days ago

24 March 2016 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm in a relationship with an older man. This is my first serious relationship and its going great emotionally, and mostly sexually.. I have not had much sexual experience and am quite anxious and nervous when it comes to new things. ...

Am I too uptight with saving intimacy until later? Does this turn men off and was it a mistake to visit his home?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3155 days ago

23 March 2016 (F) - I posted last week and would appreciate further advice. I went on 7 dates with a great guy and we communicated daily. The last date, I went to his place and we made out but I was clear in not wanting to go further just yet. At the end of the evening ...

Is sex such a big deal? Do I need to hold out for someone special? How do I know if that special person exists? Did you regret your first time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3152 days ago

23 March 2016 (F) - I am 16 and yes I know you might be thinking i m too young to be talking about sex. But that's on my mind almost 24/7. Unlike a lot of the people who claim to be otherwise, I'm still a virgin. I never really talk about it to anyone, not really ...

Boyfriend is angry because I'm not ready for sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3155 days ago

23 March 2016 (F) - my boyfriend and me are in a relation since last three years. he says he wants sex but i am not ready. he got angry when i said so. I really love him and i dont want to lose him. but i am really not ready for sex. he is really angry with me when i ...

I feel scared that I'll be tempted to cheat again. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3157 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - Hi all. I am a 37yr old married woman no kids. Have been super happily married for a few years now, but I am seeing my usual relationship pattern starting once again. And the pattern, which has always started after a few years into any of rela...

Why would a guy come back after turning him down for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

21 March 2016 (F) - I was talking to guy about 6 months ago who made it plain the first time around he only wanted a hook up through his actions. He didn't verbally tell me but his actions indicated that he just wanted to hook up. He brought up sex in our first ...

How do you stop being an older virgin from beating down your confidence?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3152 days ago

21 March 2016 (M) - As an older virgin, how do you not let it bother you? I tried improving myself and taking more interest in my hobbies. Focusing on interacting with as many people as I can. Downloaded dating apps to raise my confidence. I'm turning 23 and n...

Where is the passion? Can the passion be revived? We have become platonic friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3147 days ago

21 March 2016 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together 10 years. He is 9 years older than me. at first we were always making love but its got less and less over the last few years, and we have not been intimate since last year, Recently I found flirty texts bet...

My baby is now a year old and I'm still not in the mood for sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

20 March 2016 (F) - My baby is almost 1 year old now and I still haven't got my sex drive back. It's a bit upsetting that I don't seem to want to have sex any more, my poor husband is finding it very hard to deal with. It's not that I don't love or fancy him coz I do...

Sleeping with my teacher, what will happen ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

19 March 2016 (F) - Hello,so I will start by saying this isn't a sordid affair. I am 21 and have been at university for two years. (I started at 19, as I had a gap year) Anyway, I have been dating this guy (who is much older than me) since June 6th 2015, so nearly ...

My roommate caught me with my pants down - literally

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

19 March 2016 (M) - I have two roommates. One male and the other female. Im close with both but am closer with my roommate who is a girl as we hangout more. We are strictly friends though as I assume she has no romantic feelings for me. I don't have feelings for her ...

Disappointed by my boyfriend's love making. He doesn't satisfy me. What are some options to address this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

19 March 2016 (F) - Hi all, I'm 17 and my boyfriend doesn't please me in bed? he was my first sexual relationship but he had one previously. I've taken in on all the things that turn him on and make sure I do them, I'm not keen on blowjobs though because I gag real...

We are curious about sex but not sure where or who to go to for advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3160 days ago

18 March 2016 (M) - The most me and my boyfriend have done is kiss, cuddle and some masturbation. We are both fine with that but that is because we really cannot aks anybody. It is not like we can ask our dads how we have sex. We have tried having sex but i guess we ...

Which of these sexual issues should I tackle first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3134 days ago

18 March 2016 (F) - Hi I'd like some advice on how to go about tackling a few issues in relation to my sex drive. My partner and I have been together 2 years and I do love him very much, there's a 10 year age gap (he's 36 and I'm 26). We are very similar people a...

I need help controlling my urges

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3155 days ago

18 March 2016 (M) - Hello aunts, I have an embarrassing yet difficult question to ask. I have been with my wife for about five years and everything is great, yet I have a vice that is difficult to control. I hate to say it, but I like to watch my wife with other ...

What should I do about this guy? Did I over-react?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3160 days ago

17 March 2016 (M) - I recently started seeing a guy that i have known for quite a while (we attended the same school and live in the same town). He started chatting to me on Facebook after we had run into each other one night. He was always asking how i am, how wo...

I don’t know why I don’t want to have sex! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3155 days ago

16 March 2016 (F) - I've been in a relationship for a year now with my boyfriend and i love him very much and i am sexually attracted to him. We haven't had sex for over a month because i don't want to, i don't know why. I find it annoying when he touches me and hate ...

My friend slept with my FWB gal. Do I have the right to be upset?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

16 March 2016 (F) - So I would like some opinions on this topic. This is an area I've never treaded into before and would like some perspectives. I've had a friends with benefits relationship for the past 5 months. We have a bit of a different style relationship than ...

I am in a lifeless relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - I feel as though I'm in a lifeless, passionless, boring relationship with my long term boyfriend. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. At first it was exciting and very passionate. But time took its toll and that passion has been lost. Ou...

Is it possible to start things over with my alcoholic husband whom I don't trust?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

14 March 2016 (F) - I am 27 and married with three young children. I felt pressured into marrying my husband after our first child was born, and I really thought if I loved him enough we could make it work. He loves me. He loves the kids. He works hard, but he is ...

Why? He hates when I become sexy and flirty with him.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

14 March 2016 (F) - I'm normally like this but he seems to have a go at me when I've been drinking. He hates it. Like even if it's behind closed doors and only to him, he would hate when I dance for him sexily and strip so to speak. I don't drink much and never g...

I did something stupid and now I wonder "what if"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

13 March 2016 (F) - Hi so I'm 16 and part of me has wanted to have sex for the past year and a half maybe, but then the other part has reasoned with that part and is kind of scared. Yes I want to have sex (I'm still a virgin) but then when I hear about sex assault and ...

Is this friends with benefits or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

12 March 2016 (F) - Hey everyone, im going to try and make this as short as possible. I’m 22 and I recently got out of the most horrible relationship I have ever been in 7 months ago. I started talking to this guy in September we have hung out a few times since th...

Can I learn to be a sexual 'sub'? The man I love is ending our relationship because he doesn't think so!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

11 March 2016 (F) - My boyfriend just ended our relationship and I am devastated. He really was my best friend and in my whole life I have never met anyone on my wavelength like that. The reason, he said, he ended it is that he is into bdsm in a big way and is ...

He thinks I should chill out. How can I get him to realize that what he did has made me feel so bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

9 March 2016 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for three years and we always had such an amazing sex life, he gave me a lot of confidence and I'm really sad that he is knocking it all back out of me. For the majority of our relationship he has loved going down...

Is it wrong for a widow to sleep with her late husband's married best friend ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

9 March 2016 (F) - I am a forty year old widow. My husband passed away in January 2014. I was very lonely. My husband's best friend, X, and his wife Y used to visit when my husband was alive and continued to do so after my husband's death. A month later Y noticed ...

Was it my fault or my ex boyfriends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

9 March 2016 (F) - Am I in the wrong here or is my ex boyfriend? I invited him to my sisters bbq at her house. When we arrived my sister asked me what I was drinking and if I wanted some wine so she poured me a glass. My boyfriend said he didn't want a drink, I ...

He's going to propose soon but our sex life has disappeared!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3141 days ago

8 March 2016 (F) - Hi all... so my boyfriend and I are taking a big trip to California in October and while there we have planned to secretly elope. He hasn't yet proposed lol. But he has been looking at rings (ads appearing on my computer and he also left an email ...

I told her I didn’t think she was hot, but that she was super cute, and that’s when the trouble started! Help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

8 March 2016 (M) - So let me begin by saying im happy being in a relationship with my girlfriend. I love her and im thinking she could be the one. But over a month of dating she said she was ready to take our relationship to tbe next level. She's ready to have sex...

Is it possible to live happily ever after knowing that my husband occasionally sleeps with other women on side?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

7 March 2016 (F) - Is it possible to live happily ever after knowing that husband sleeps with other women on side occasionally(paid sex with high end escort/companions)? He always use protection and is very hygienic. I've got him n myself tested few yrs ago when I i...

Can I find a loving man who will accept my low sex drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

6 March 2016 (F) - I have a low sex drive it's been suggested it's my age but I know I always have had this as sex itself has never been 'that' important to me ever so wonder whether it's just the way I am. I like men and would like a close relationship with someone ...

How do I make this threesome idea happen?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

2 March 2016 (M) - I want have a threesome with my wife and friend. the game plan is they should not know each other so I want to blind fold them and to convince them for this and then the game goes on.... suggest me how to make this wonderful...!?...

Is my two year relationship dead?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

1 March 2016 (F) - Hi everyone! Just need some help here My and my boyfriend are both 19 years old - we're young and you would expect that our relationship would be great in the bedroom, but it's not. We've been together for 2 years but it feels like we've been marri...

I'm having problems during sexual activities with my girlfriend. What is the issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

1 March 2016 (M) - I'm not sure how to go about saying this so I apologise if I'm not clear on anything I say. Recently I've been having problems during any form of sexual play with my girlfriend, I seem to be able to finish ok on my own but whenever she doe...