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Archived questions from: July, 2015 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I don't like the way he treated me. Does he not have a conscience? Or did he just never care? Or is he trying to get over me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

31 July 2015 (F) - 1997- 1998: Was in David's school. He was my school mate. Wasn’t really his friend but just a classmate. Sept 2014: Started working at a local Retail store Pharmacy. Saw David there. We chatted and exchanged numbers but he was getting over a break ...

My neighbor and I hooked up 4 times and then broke things off. Now I feel like I need to move!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3393 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - ok so my neighbor is a 28 single, bachelor, and i'm a 28 single, bachelorrette.. who both work full time...one night he came over to hang out with me, we played video games, talked and had wine..prior to that, we had gone out on one date...I really ...

We were taking it slow and then there was a complete 180, what do I do now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3389 days ago

30 July 2015 (M) - About 2 years ago a friend of mine showed me the instagram of a friend. She commented on a picture of us together and inquired who I was. I could tell from her pictures that she was gorgeous and outgoing. Real life of the party type of girl. Well...

Can a man live without sex in a marriage?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3392 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - Can a married man in his mid 40's stay happily married if his wife doesn't want sex anymore? And I'm talking years now? Can a man live without sex in a marriage? ...

My fiance is a sex addict and it feels like our relationship is just about sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3393 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - My Fiancé and I have been together a year. We have always enjoyed sex and have it quite frequently, 4 to 6 times a week. The thing is though I feel as though my sex drive is going down and I don't want it as much and his is going up and always ...

What can I do? First he refused me. Then I caught my husband watching porn and masturbating in the middle of the night!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3393 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - Please help me!!! I caught my husband watching porn and masturbating in the middle of the night!! Early that night I wanted to have sex with my husband. I kissed and touched him, but he was too busy playing with his phone and completely ignored ...

Standing up for yourself in a relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3390 days ago

28 July 2015 (M) - First of all, I want to start off by saying that I have nothing against men and women who engage in their fantasies whether it's open marriages, candaulism, hotwifing, polyamory or swinging, it's all fine by me as long as it is a shared fantasy,...

Am I letting him down when I'm unwilling to have virtual sex with my LDR boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3396 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - My LDR boyfriend often wants virtual sex where we are on Webcam. Thing is, he doesn't do the sweet talk or sexy talk.. he just wants to see and then he masturbates and is finished within 2 minutes... while I have yet to feel anything. This is w...

At this rate I don't want to have sex with him. What can I do about our volatile on or off relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3396 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - I am 30 and my boyfriend is 29. We are in an on/off relationship. He is always the one initiating the breakup when he gets upset or feel attacked/disrespected. We don't live together and we have sex about once a week more or less. We've been back ...

Long term is he the man for me? Should I stay or go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3397 days ago

26 July 2015 (F) - Hello, I have been living with my boyfriend for over a year, and we have been together for a year and a half. Right now I am very seriously considering breaking up with him, but I am having a hard time making a choice. In many ways he is very g...

Is it normal to like lesbian porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3391 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - Is it normal that I am a straight girl but enjoy lesbian porn?...

Is it normal not to want to perform oral sex on a man after just having sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3398 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - I love my husband. We are married 8 years and he was my first sexual partner. I was always the prudish type! Not by choice but i think by fact of low self esteem and the fact I probably have no confidence. I have only in the last maybe year or so ...

I'm horny and unsatisfied but not sure if I'n ready for sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3396 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, is it normal to feel horny most of the time? I am 17 (which is the legal age for sex) and I have a boyfriend. I dont want to pressure him into anything though as I am not sure he's ready. But I feel really horny a lot of the time and ...

Help! I don't feel loved next to porn.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3400 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - I've never gone on anything like this for advice but I'm alone in this. My friends and family wouldn't understand. I can take judgement in here but not from them. Ok, my fiancé and I have been together since we were 16. We're 27 now and have two ...

He says it's not him. Yet the swinger's site show he's a member. What can I do? I don't want to lose our relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3400 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - hey everyone, I really need some advice! Me and my partner have been together for 5.5 years, we were childhood sweethearts and got together at 16! Our relationship has always been good, we are both very laid back and therefore we don't t...

My partner won't cum

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - Me and my partner are 43. he has problems with cumming. I have never been able to get him off with oral, hand jobs have made him cum occasionally, he will never cum with me on top during intercourse. more recently he can only cum when we have sex ...

Are there no gentlemen left? ? My dating has left me not interested in sex, though I have had sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3401 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - I'm 20 and I've got this problem with boyfriends. I only had four of them when I was in HS. "Matthew" was a relative of a friend and he was nice, but he annoyed me because he would just show up at my house without calling first or else he would...

I don't want to cheat on my husband but don't know how long I can go being unsatisfied

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - So basically for the past 2 weeks or so I've been extremely horny. Like to the point that I think I might cheat on my husband if given the opportunity. I also gave myself my first orgasm ever last night. I am not being satisfied by my husband at the ...

He lied to me. I am so angry with him, yet can you love and hate someone at the same time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - Six months ago, I was going out with a guy. We were both sixteen. His ex also made me feel very uncomfortable as she still liked him and kept making jibes over us. This guy has had a string of girlfriends but he was my first boyfriend. I tho...

Is it possible to be just Friends to him, after losing my virginity to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - I lost my virginity at the beginning of last year to a co-worker. And moved out of state back to where I'm from. We kept in contact for 5/6months. Then in August we stopped talking, I actually think it is because of me that we stopped talking ...

Would it be so horrible to have sex on a second date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - Met this great guy online, like me he's been a single a year. We have a lot in common and have spent hours laughing on the phone for the time we've known each other. Our first date was great, we were comfortable with one another almost right away. ...

All my friends do sleep randomly with anyone. I don't because it concerns me. Am I too sceptical thinking it's dangerous?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

18 July 2015 (F) - Is it dangerous to sleep with anyone randomly? Because all my friends do that and nothing happens but I'm very sceptical? I need answers because I'm struggling....

My fantasy of a three-some with my wife is on my mind. And it will not go away. Any advice from those who have tried to have a threesome?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

17 July 2015 (?) - I have a long time fantasy that wants me to see my wife having sex with another guy. I have been reading Q and A's on this forum for a long time. I have read everything that very nice folks here have to say about threesomes not being a good ide...

We got along great, one time of oral sex and now he says I'm vindictive and he treats me like a sister. What did I do wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

17 July 2015 (F) - met a guy about a month ago. we spent a lot of time together, got along great. first time in a long time that I found someone worth trying for. everything was going so well that I thought naturally we should just take it to the next level, as there ...

Should I tell him that I was a virgin when we met?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

17 July 2015 (?) - I've been seeing this guy now for some time. We've had sex, and I enjoy it but I've been harbouring this little secret since our first time. He has no idea that I was a virgin before I met him. It's been about three months now and it's not ...

How can I modify girl on top position to make it more comfortable for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

17 July 2015 (?) - Hi guys. I've been in a relationship with this guy for about six months and we have been having sex regularly for the last few months. And yes it is amazing. My only issue is that when I'm on top I can't seem to hold him in and my legs cramp ea...

Should I forget about sleeping with her because I ccan't protect myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

17 July 2015 (F) - I want to have sex with a girl but I think she practises safe sex and have had girls and guys before. I don't know what to do because I don't want to get anything because she's slept around and I know she doesn't use condoms. So should I try for...

Due to have sex tomorrow, should I just accept that he likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

17 July 2015 (F) - Okay. I'll try and keep this short and sweet. I'm 18 years old and I am a size 14 in the UK, however in some shops I am a size 12. Size 14 in the UK is now considered as plus size (even though I have no idea why) so technically I am classed as a ...

How is it possible for him to feel aroused, when we were arguing and so angry at each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

17 July 2015 (F) - We were in the middle of a heated argument and I noticed he had a hard-on. Later he disclosed that he was so hard he had wanted to rip off my clothes and have sex right then right there. How is it possible to feel that way when you are so angry at...

Is something wrong with me? I don't seem able to have an orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

16 July 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, I think there is something wrong with me. I am a girl, 17 years old. I do not orgasm. EVER. I had a boyfriend who touched me and I touch myself too. But I never seem to orgasm. I used to watch porn. The porn watching started when I was ...

Breaking up was not my choice. Do I tell my current Bf that I have feelings for my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

16 July 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am so confused and would really appreciate any advice. I am currently in a relationship with a really amazing guy. He's kind and funny and treats me the utmost respect. And my parents like him, which is a great bonus. But there is ...

Apart from seeing the doctor and taking the medication Dr recommends and all I've tried: What else will get rid of my recurrent thrush?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - Hi, For almost a year now I have been struggling with long term thrush symptoms. Sounds silly but it's driving me insane and affecting my sex life. I have been to the doctors about this on more than one occasion as try just tell me to buy the ...

Is it so difficult for a husband to give oral sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2908 days ago

14 July 2015 (F) - Hello members, Im an Indian married for 14 years.. everything is perfect.. but my husband has never gone down on me. Ive asked him a million times.. done everything to get him for it. Im very beautiful and good at almost everything.. husband ...

Started a relationship with a friend but I don't get turned on by her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

14 July 2015 (F) - Hi there, recently my best friend of 4 years and I started dating and it's great. I love her more than I've ever loved anyone, and she feels the same, and it's so nice. The only problem is, I haven't been turned on around her since we first started ...

My girlfriends brother asked me some inappropriate questions about mine and her sex life. Should I be concerned?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

14 July 2015 (M) - I met an Asian girl from Singapore a few years ago and she has been my girlfriend for three years now, about six weeks ago I met her family for the first time. The first time I was alone with my girlfriend's brother he started to ask me some ver...

My husband is convinced I have cheated on him, but I have been nothing but faithful.. should I stay or should I go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

14 July 2015 (F) - Help! My husband thinks I have cheated on him. We have been married 9 years and sex was great at first until he started accusing me of cheating because my vagina was too loose, it didn't feel the same.ilove him and have been faithful too him the ...

How can I determine and confirm if he just wants sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

14 July 2015 (F) - I met a guy online and we talked for a few weeks before having our first date today at a coffee shop. We had a lot in common and he said very sweet things to me, which made me think he liked me. He knew that I was a virgin and that I had never...

Should I be freaking out because she gave a guy a bj when she was much younger?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

14 July 2015 (M) - Modnote: this is very similar, in the circumstances, but NOT identical to an earlier question submitted recently - you may also find some good answers here: www.dearcupid.org/question/can-i-get-over-this-revelation-three-years.html below is what...

Does losing one's virginity cause decreased libido?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

14 July 2015 (M) - Before I used masturbate like once or twice day. Sometimes with porn, sometimes without. However, after losing my virginity a few weeks ago, I have had no desire to masturbate, or sexual desire whatsoever. For example, I check out girls, and i...

What are my options as far as my cold guy friend? The only time he is affectionate is when we have sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

14 July 2015 (F) - I have been going out with my bf for 2 years and he has taken me on some lovely holidays but he has never bought me a birthday card or a present although he has bought me Christmas presents. When asked about this he just says that as he pays for...

It is possible that a guy doesn't know if he cums or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

13 July 2015 (F) - Okay so this is rather embarrassing to ask but how does guy not tell if he cums or not? I mean is that normal? My fiancé and i wanted to try something neither of us have done before so we decided to have sex in water. He said hed pull out before he ...

How can I build up the strength to NOT go back to him? His behaviour has been inconsistent and confusing

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

13 July 2015 (F) - I need some help finding out how to move on from a terrible, emotionally abusive relationship which has destroyed me. I have been involved with a guy for around eight months. When we first got together, he told me he was kind of involved with so...

How do I understand my girlfriend's anatomy and what she likes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

13 July 2015 (M) - My gf and I are 18 and we have been dating for the past school year. We are considering having sex. How do I understand her anatomy and what she likes? Can I ask my gf to show me what feels good sexually for her? How can I do that? Can good sex ...

I want to give oral sex to my girlfriend, but unsure how to proceed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

13 July 2015 (M) - Hello! I really want to give oral sex to my girl, however I am really inexperienced. Her vagina is really "salty" and has a slight unpleasing smell. I can feel it on my fingers whenever I finger her, and it tastes salty. From doing my own res...

My girlfriend doesn't like me going to porn sites but she doesn't want sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

13 July 2015 (M) - Recently my girlfriend became upset when she found porn sites in the history of my phone and she asked me to stop looking at them. I understand where she is coming from but over the last several months the amount of sex we have has declined to ...

But how can I tell which applies? I know I'm either straight, bi-curious or bisexual.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

12 July 2015 (F) - Kinda confused on my sexuality right now. I know i'm either straight, bi-curious or bisexual. I know i'm not a lesbian because i'm definitely attracted emotionally, romantically and sexually to men. However, ever since I was younger and coul...

Can I get over this revelation? Three years ago, before I knew her, she gave a guy a bj.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

11 July 2015 (M) - Okay so im 18 and have been with my girlfriend who is 19 for a year. I'm very happy with her, and still am, but recently found out that when she was barely 15, she gave a bj to a guy who she only got with 2 or 3 times, who she knew had a gf but d...

I'm pregnant. How do I tell the father of my child? We work together, but are not in a relationship together.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

11 July 2015 (F) - I'm expecting my first child and I'm really excited about it. I have always wanted a child since I can remember, and when I found out I was pregnant I was over the moon. My problem is I'm not in a relationship with the father, and apart from a f...

Why are handjobs his big focus? If the handjobs not how he likes then he mocks me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3409 days ago

11 July 2015 (F) - Hello! I've been with my bf for a year and a half and recently we hung out.. And like he asked why I didn't give him a handjob? And like we've had sex a few times and I have given him blowjobs too.. I gave a handjob like twice? But like it wasn...

Sex or affection more important? I feel rejected

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

11 July 2015 (F) - I'm confused I don't know what's more important affection or sex ? Me and my bf haven't had sex in about a month. I tryed to make the first move than he said no you don't deserve it (we had argued 2 days prior) and this happens frequently he ...