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writes:We were in the middle of a heated argument and I noticed he had a hard-on. Later he disclosed that he was so hard he had wanted to rip off my clothes and have sex right then right there.How is it possible to feel that way when you are so angry at each other?We've had great sex after we argued, but not during the argument. Reply to this Question
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reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (17 July 2015):
Because you're cute when you're angry. :)
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 July 2015):
 Ah, so you have had greats AFTER arguments before? In a sense it makes "sense" that he could get turned on by an argument because he knows what CAN come after the argument... as in great sex.
I think it's part biological and part conditioning.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (17 July 2015):
 Arguing and being sexually aroused are triggered by the same chemicals within one's body... so it's not surprising, what you described...
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (17 July 2015):
 I will answer your question with another one: why should it not be possible to feel aroused when arguing? Just because you have never experienced it, doesn't mean it's weird if others do.
Yes, some people can experience arousal during arguments. Some say sex during arguments is the best and most intense sex they've ever had. Some say sex AFTER the argument is the best. While some dislike arguments so much they turn ice cold... People are just different.
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