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writes: Hi guys. I've been in a relationship with this guy for about six months and we have been having sex regularly for the last few months. And yes it is amazing. My only issue is that when I'm on top I can't seem to hold him in and my legs cramp easily after about five minutes (or less) in this position. At the minute we're switching and he'll revert back to him doing the work. Which I don't think is fair on him even though he hasn't complained.What I want to know is are there any ways that I can modify Girl on Top to make it more comfortable for me. Any help would be appreciated.x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys. I'll try these when I see him next :)
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reader, like I see it  +, writes (17 July 2015):
 Have you tried *reverse* cowgirl? From personal experience, I'm not the most flexible person and regular girl on top also isn't so comfortable for me. And yes, it's tougher to keep my partner "in" during standard cowgirl because the natural angles of his erection and my vagina are not aligned very closely when I'm sitting up straight on top of him. Given that neither of us seems unusual downstairs I would imagine many couples have this problem to some extent :)
Reverse cowgirl (facing away from my partner while riding him) feels much more natural and gives a better angle of penetration for both of us. Or if I really want to face him while we do the deed, leaning forward and over his chest during traditional girl on top and resting some of my weight on my hands/elbows to either side of him helps too... plus I can reach his face to kiss him while I ride that way.
Hope this helps. Have fun experimenting with what works for you!
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reader, KingZeus  +, writes (17 July 2015):
 Did a lil' research on this first. Get into positionSimilar to the Cowgirl, kneel on top of your man then push off his chest and slide up and down his thighs. Don't worry, you're not doing all the work. He supports some of your weight and can grab your hips or thighs while he rises to meet each thrust. Ride 'em, cowgirl!What's are the benefits?Less stress on your legs makes climaxing easier. Plus, female-dominant positions delay his climax. Win win.Really hope this was helpfulKingZeus.
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reader, Slippers  +, writes (17 July 2015):
Why not sit on him and then slide down so your on top much like how he would be on you .. then use your arms to push your weight of him and use your hips a lot.
I hope this helps ..sweetie ..
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reader, IanHenryCooper +, writes (17 July 2015):
 Lurking in the deeper, darker recesses of my memory I am sure that Cosmo did a guide to more positions and techniques than the Kama Sutra! The problem is finding it; maybe Google will help?
Ok, I looked for you - take your pick from these entries!...
https://www.google.co.uk/?gws_rd=ssl#q=cosmo+-+sex+positions
Harry.
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