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writes:Okay so this is rather embarrassing to ask but how does guy not tell if he cums or not? I mean is that normal? My fiancé and i wanted to try something neither of us have done before so we decided to have sex in water. He said hed pull out before he came but when he did pull out he later admitted he was unsure if he came or not. We are both a little paranoid at the moment and was wondering if this has happened to others and what they have done.. please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 July 2015):
 And the sooner you go for emergency contraception the more effective the results.
You posted this like it was an emergency. Are you reading the answers?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (13 July 2015):
 Impossible! He knows he reached orgasm he just can't be sure he was out.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 July 2015):
It doesn't sound normal, was he really drunk or high or something?
If your use of the word 'paranoid' means you are worried about pregnancy, go into the pharmacy and get emergency contraception. Or call your gynecologist for help.
And while you're at the gyn, do ask her for advice on contraception. Be honest about what you do and don't do in and out of bed.
P.S. Unless he wants to be called "Daddy" your boyfriend should stop relying on the pull-out method, as he clearly is not a reliable reporter of his own sexuality.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 July 2015):
 Lesson from this? DON'T have unprotected sex if you can't sure what you are doing.
Pretty sure he KNOWS if he came or not. He might not have know if he was "all the way" out when he did.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (13 July 2015):
Sorry, but I have never heard of a guy who cannot tell. Once you have hit your peak, it is very to stop that process. It's not like going pee and you can control it the same way.
Sorry.
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