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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

High sex drive, don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - I have a very high sex drive. I don't want to break my promise to God of having premarital sex. I don't want to do any of these things, but I am so tempted. I love this girl. I don't get hard or anything when I look at her or talk to her, but when I ...

My first sexual relationship and I cannot orgasm with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - I have been in a relationship (my first sexually active one) for 1 year and a few months now and my girlfriend has still not been able to give me an orgasm. I have narrowed this down to these possibilities 1. Watching porn too often (every day...

I'm scared my flat mates will hear us having sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is coming to see me soon in my halls of residence. However one thing thats bothering is my flat mates. I am worried that they be will embarassing or whatever, or that they may hear something due to the paper thin walls. I don't know if ...

Does this sound like a STD?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Very personal question- I'm sexually active and I'm afraid I may have an STD. I have these tiny bumps on the inside of my vagina but only towards the bottom. They itch like crazy and hurt sometimes, especially if I scratch them. I get temporary ...

I feel disgusted after masturbating to porn, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - Okay I'm 16 and I'm gay... or bi (confused). And I've got something that I don't understand. So I'm hoping you guys might have the answer. So the thing is I only like porn when I'm turned on. And when I masturbate and cum; afterward I find it ...

I really like this guy but he did "things" with another friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Okay, here goes: I like this guy. Really really like him. His name is Tal. The other night there was a party, and well, him and me fooled around. Alot. As in, underneath bra and panties. After the party we went over to a friends house, but i had...

Has he met someone else or just busy with his studies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - hey, I am 22 years and an indian. I've been in a relationship with a guy from almost 8 months but we've been friends for about a year. we plan on getting married after 3 years. we are both are still studyin(pg). he has been acting strange lately, ...

My girlfriend has never had an orgasm! How can I help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - Hi. My partner says she has nver had an orgasm, and I would like to know if this could be possible... She has Cerebral Palsy. She has gone through quite a lot of stress. How is it best to relax before sex and is is best to try oral sex and s...

I have sex with other guys with my husband's permission.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I have sex with other guys with my husband's permission. He says 3 or 4 times in a month is ok, but don't cross this limit. I am doing it 2 or 3 times in a month with my friends. also i had it with his friend some time. actually it was his idea to ...

He hurt my feelings when he said not tonight

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months and we are getting along great. Normally we see each other 1 time a week since we live 30 miles apart and due to our work schedules. In addition to our regular jobs, we both have weekend part time ...

How do we talk about sex openly without the shyness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Hey friends.. I know this is weird..but can anyone help me to fix this problem? I saw my bf looking at my breasts. We were sitting close to each other and i was telling him about something looking somewhere else. As i turned my head towards ...

I can't even get a one night stand!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Why is it so hard to get into a relationship? I can't even get a date only a one night stand. The men that want me are too feminine, if i wanted a sensitive partner id turn to women. All the stuck up preps get the guy while the socially awkward girl ...

Why don't I want to have sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - i had a child 6 months ago and during the pregnancy as well as afterwards I've been put off of sex whenever my partner tries to be affectionate i feel like he is trying to have sex with me and it makes me almost reject him, i only seem to be ...

If he needs to watch porn does it mean I am not enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I am not sure whether to be offended or not I've been with my boyfriend for roughly 2 years and the only time ive known him to put porn on is when he is trying to wind me up by putting it on the computer so i can see it, but i have recently noticed ...

Cousin and I have been having sex but I think we need to stop

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31 October 2010 (F) - hi, i know this is going to sound weird but i need to say it. im 19 and my names summer and my second cousin sara is too. we were actually born only 3 days apart and our moms were cousins and we lived down the street from eachother so we were always ...

Is 9 times too much in a day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (?) - My boyfriend and i have been dating two years and have recently become a long distance relationship. We met at a hotel between the two of us a few weeks ago and he was able to finish multiple times within only a few hours. probably about 4 times. ...

Impossible to penetrate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - hi well im 18 and i have tried to hold off sex with my bf for almost a year now and my bf and i have decided itz time to give it a try... he tried to finger me but it hurt but i thought it was normal so i just went with it. Then he tried to ...

Does a man ever suggest to 'have sex for fun' even if he is truly interested in a woman ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Does ever a man suggest to 'have sex for fun' even if he is truly interested in a woman ? Or is this always a sign that he has no emotional interest in her?...

Having concerned if this man is really large?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I'm a little embarrassed to post this question, but am going to anyway: I'm an older woman (post-menopausal) and am in relationship with a really nice man. He likes me a lot and vice-versa, and we have a great deal in common. In short, its going...

Indian guys don't do oral?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - why don't indian guys give there women oral sex??...

How do I get over the condom business?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - i have just started a new relationship with a woman i really fancy and drives me crazy any way last night things got a little steamy to steamy as soon as the word condom got mentioned i went soft and just could not get it hard again i was so ...

He's jealous because of the sexual things I did with my ex!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - i have a question... my boyfriend of 3 years is jealous of the fact that i gave my ex boyfriend oral sex and he ejaculated in my mouth, and ive been with him for 3 years and he has not done it 2 me. first of all my ex boyfriend treated me like a ...

Why does sex hurt so much when I'm on top?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - OK so im 16 years old and sexually active, but theres a problem and i dont know if its normal or what should i do. whenever me and my bf are having sex and he is on top it doesn't hurt me at all not one bit, But then when he tells me to get on top ...

Ladies, what is the perfect duration for sex for you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

30 October 2010 (?) - Ladies, what is the perfect duration for sex for you? By that, I mean from the time penetration starts till he comes...so excluding foreplay and stuff. If you like it long, do you expect him to get it up again soon? For those who like minutemen, ...

2 years, and we don't have good sex anymore. What can I do to improve the situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few days short of 2 years. We live in seperate cities, and both have fairly busy lives between work and social lives, so we only usually see each other on weekends and occasional public holidays. We skype ...

Quick sex, no Frenching

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Why does my husband like quick sex but does not like to french kiss. Only to have his few minutes of fun and that is it. ...

Girlfriend not interested is sex any more

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend on and off for about 8 years, and we have a 5 year old daughter together. We have been back together now about 8 months, and I am making a very sincere effort to work things out this time around. She had wanted to ge...

Anyone have any advice on how to better my sex life with my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Okay, I'm new to this. My fiance and I have been together almost 2 years now. When we started out, we constantly on a regular daily basis would have sex. After about six months things started to calm down we would go from every day to 3-4 times a ...

Is this the G spot or something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - When I put my finger inside my girlfriend's vagina and move it along the front wall, the first (i.e. closest to the opening to the vagina) thing I feel is a bit of an uneven or rough patch that is perhaps three-quarters of an inch wide by one inch ...

I am now in my 20s, and I still get petrified at the thought of getting pregnant...!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I have a question about sex, I am now in my 20s, and I still get petrified at the thought of getting pregnant and i know how my body works and i keep track of my cycle and all, but recently me and my bf of 2 years had sex without a condom for the ...

Was he letting me down gently???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hey, I had a one night stand, the next morning there was no awkwardness he wanted sex again but I decided against it, but told him I was up for meting up again just for sex(I did like him but didnt want to appear too keen!). He was very affec...

All I want is one good time together with this married man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - there is a man who works at my school who is a good bit older than me but I can honestly say I dont think ive ever wanted to sleep with someone more. I know he is attracted to me but he is married. I just need to know how to tell him. i barely see ...

I like sniffing ladies dirty panties

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I like sniffing womens dirty panties and i dont know if i am normal.Am afraid that if my girlfriend finds out she will leave me.Ladies if you find your man sniffing your dirty panties will you leave him....

Do I lose my virginity having anal sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

30 October 2010 (?) - My boyfriend and i want to try anal. Is there anything i should be worried about? Well it hurt me? Will i lose my virginity??...

My boyfriend of 2 years has never gotten me to orgasm.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (?) - I have been with my guy for 2 years and he has never gotten me to orgasm...that i know of. Is there something wrong with me? Is he doing something wrong? I feel like i'm starting to hurt his ego. Help please......

Condom came off inside me, am I still at risk for an STD?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - am i at risk for a std if the condom came off inside of me? but we didnt notice but he found the condom inside me within 3minutes , but we continued sex with a new condom. am i still at risk for std?...

Does chlorine kill sperm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I've got a couple of weird questions so if you can please bear with me. Ok now I went on a date this summer with my girlfriend and we were making out in a pool, wearing nothing but swimsuits and pressed up against each other, and we started French k...

B/f upset because while he was sleeping I masturbated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I'm in a long-distance relationship with the love of my life in another country, and I spent the summer with him, meeting him for the very first time. I had been a virgin, and I had never had a real boyfriend before him (never kissed or touched ...

Sometimes I am really turned off by sex after what happened to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Hi there,i'm just going to get straight to the point . ok so 4 years ago i was a victim of sexual assult and attempted rape,by my then boyfriend i was with at the time. I'm now with my loving boyfriend of 3 years ,jay. Are sexual side of things h...

Female orgasm

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - what does it feel like when you have an orgasm--for females that is...

Cherry popped?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - how do you know when a guy has 'popped your cherry'??...

What is dirty talk?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - What do men want when they say they want dirty talk. Can anyone give me some ideas of what they are talking about. Do they want me to call them a dirty boy and start spanking them? Or is dirty talk more of "oh f*** me baby?" Just wanted to see what ...

Where is this infamous G spot?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - (mod note: the question has been edited to make it fit for publication) So I have this little.. mmmh not problem but predicament, I've heard, read and seen a lot of women that say that having g spot orgasms are mind blowing, that it's the best org...

Why won't he look at me anymore during sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - So heres another question about me and the bf... So we have rarely been having sex (my choice because he is being STUPID)... anyways... I noticed the last 2 times... he wont look at me (position willing) anymore. he used to make me look...

It was my first time without a condom and I'm very nervous!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Okay so I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months. WE've had sex before but today I let him cum inside me for the first time. I'm on birth control and I've been on it for a while. I'm just a little nervous because my whole family is very ...

Husband of 27 years regrets that he didn't have sex with other women!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I have been married for 27 years and a while ago my husband told me that the biggest regret of his life was that he hadn't had sex with more women. He had always lead me to believe that he had only been with me, but during this odd conversation I ...

Boyfriend just grabbed me and "did it". He didn't see anything wrong with that!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Hi All - I need some insight on this. So yesterday I went to see my bf and we both knew we were hooking for sex before he leaves for the weekend to see his mother. Anyway, when i got there he was just uninterested. I touched him, he didnt touch m...

Sex is not like it normally is, what could be wrong with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - my partner has not been having sex like a normal, random guys on the street he does complains of emptiness in him, tiredness. What kind of drug can be prescribe for us, or solutions....

Should I leave him because he has slept with 9 girls? And when is the right time in a relationship to have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - iv been dating this guy for a month now.we havnt had sex yet because i told him i want to take things slowly.and just a few days ago i found out that he had sex with 9 girls and his only 21.that dosnt seem right to me.and confused if i should stay ...

Scared of sex because of his big penis!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

29 October 2010 (?) - Hi, So i ended up dating my best friend of almost half my life. LDR so you know but we're really close, and we know EVERYTHING to the core...But when i knew how 'big' he was i got suddenly scared to have sex. I know im almost 16 and it wont happ...