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writes:ok so me and my boyfriend has been together for quite a while now and we have started having sex quite regular but the problem is everytime we have sex i am left in quite abit off pain and a browny discharge happens :S..the very first time we did it this discharge happened but i was expecting blood as everyone says you bleed being your first time but i didnt have any of that i had browny discharge :S as this was my first time i thought this was normal ? but now i get it all the time :S is this normall ?? just wondering if anyone else has experienced this ?? he used a condom and im on the pill it was both are first time and i thought that this pain would have settled down now seems as we have had sex quite abit now but it dont seem to have stopped it just hurts more everytime and more off this discharge is happening :S please help thanks for taking your time to read this :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2009): Excuse me kitty, but you are reading something in my answer that isn't there, I am not condeming her being underage, in my country she is underage and would need her mother or parent to accompany her to doctor to be put on the pill etc, so that is the reference point I was coming from....and as far as busting my head, I have no idea where that is coming from....
I am merely frustrated that aunts try to give a "Maybe" diagnosis as an answer which can keep a fearful teen, or an undeducated one from getting the proper care she deseves from a medical professional....it is really rather stupid to ask us about physical symptoms, but it is stupider for us to give an answer on gynecological symptoms which can be something very serious....it isn't like she wrote in about acne.
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reader, kittykhaos +, writes (20 August 2009):
 Your welcome chick just please make sure you get yourself checked out just in case ok? take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for the last person who commented i mean honestly why leave a comment as nasty as the first one !! just dont bother even commenting reli im onli 16 fgs so you no i was onli asking !!! and im due on my period :) thank you for your help xx
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reader, kittykhaos +, writes (20 August 2009):
Actually rhythemandblues 2 she is not underage she is from the uk and sex is legal at 16 so calm down before you bust your head.I agree a doctor is probably the best person to ask but maybe she didn't realise this wasn't a common problem how about you back off and be a little more sensitive to some ones issues. to the girl who wrote the question. Are you due a period or have you just come off? sometimes you can get discharge like that just before or just after. Please just to be on the safe side go to the doctor and try not to worry but maybe you should stop having sex until you get yourself checked out. good luck and don't panic your body is just adjucting probably x
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (20 August 2009):
 This is a better link for you, based on your country flag: http://www.selfhelpguide.nhs.uk/
Don't mess around with this, it could be something simple that if not treated, leads to big problems. Doctor! That link I just gave you should guide you. There is also a number you can call there.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (20 August 2009):
Get to your doctor, please. A little look at the webmd.com symptom checker tool gives these as possible causes of what you describe:
pelvic inflammatory disease, vaginal yeast infection, candidiasis, cervicitis, chlamydia, vaginitis, dyspareunia, ectopic pregnancy, foreign object in the vagina, gonorrhea, trichomoniasis, urethritis or vulvodynia
Don't take chances with your health. And stop having sex until you do see your doctor. He might need to see his as well based on what you find.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): Why why why do people ask us aunts to diagnose physical MEDICAL problems. We can't see you and examine you and we are not doctors. What you are hoping for is some woman on this site to say, Oh, yes that happened to me, too, here is why and what I did.
Do you think that is a very smart way to determine something as important as your health? Any time you have pain with anything, your body is trying to tell you something. You are under age so you will most likely need your mom's permission to make an appointment with an ob/gyn doctor, or perhaps they have Planned Parenthood in your country where you can go on your own....I don't know what is available to you. However, you need to speak to your doctor, perhaps the one who prescribed the pill to find out what might be done to help you.
Take care.
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