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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ive been seeing this guy for a month we decided to wait for sex until we was both ready so we went away for the weekend just gone...we get on great...were very sexually attractive to each other...hes 29 im 22....so the night came and we kissed etc we was about to have sex when he lost his erection....so we tried other things and he got semi hard then lost it again....he said this has never happened before....we tried again the next day the same thing happened....he said it was nerves etc.....so we came home and we have been talking naughty via text and he said he keeps getting a erection so he sent me a pic....im seeing him 2moro but im so scared this will happen again....is this a common problem? If it happens again what should we do? He has given up smoking because of it to!
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reader, Claire73  +, writes (19 August 2009):
yes very common, same happened to me, The fact is he is that attracted to you that he has an idea in his head of what it should be like when you have sex and then he panics when it finally comes to it that he loses his erection. This may happen again and a few more times after that but be patient and it will happen. Dont put so much emphasis on the sex as this too can hinder the problem. Dont worry, it may take a day, week or even a month, but it will happen. So all it is really is nerves and pressure as to what sex should be. Believe me.
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