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writes:im working as a housekeeper. my lady boss told me that her husband is in love with me. i was asked several times already by my male boss if i want to sleep with him which i refused, he didnt force me though. i like my job and dont want to resign. what shall i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, VirginMaster  +, writes (20 August 2009):
 I agree. resign. and remember that sexual harassment in the workplace, even if your workplace is in his house, is a crime and you can lay a charge against him for this which will tarnish his name forever, as well as maybe make you a lot of compensation money in the process.
For more information, contact an organisation which deals with sexual harassment or go see your closest Legal Aid Board for help.
I don't know what the law is in Taiwan, but in most places in the world, that is what it is like. go find out!
or look for another job and resign
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): Resign. Please do yourself a favor and find another job. This will probably end badly if you don't quit.
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reader, tamika1983  +, writes (20 August 2009):
If I were u I would find another job. If your worried about not having any income coming in u could find a new job and then quit. U could also file a sexual harassment suit. They have no business even coming at u side ways like that. Good luck!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (19 August 2009):
 I'm with icelordess, you are damned if you do and damned if you don't. I'd start looking for the next job.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): You are a housekeeper, not your bosses whore. he and his wife should not treat you like one. you can refuse him sex. they must not pressurise you into having sex with him. please try to find another job if you can. talk to someone you can trust about what these people want to do with you. if he has sex with you you must report him for raping you. this is not the dark ages where the workers can be treated as just sex things. you have rights and if these people try to force you or try to threaten you with losing your job, please report them to the police.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): Get another job sharpish, then have sex with him on your last day. You clearly want to otherwise there would be no problem, and they cant fire you on your last day. Btw, dont tell em youre leaving unless you have to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): they've been married for 28 yrs already. but accdg to my lady boss, they dont have passion for each other anymore. her exact words was they are more like friends now. i dont know deep inside how she really feels and why she even told her friends infront of me that her husband is in love with me. dont know what's inside her mind. on my part, i just took the whole scenario lightly. but i dont know what will happen next....
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reader, kahlan  +, writes (19 August 2009):
 You need to have a talk with him and tell him how uncomfortable he is making it for you to work in his house.Tell him you wont sleep with him.Hopefully he will get the message and stop hassling you.I think you should start looking for another job anyway.His wife probably told you about her husband being in love with you to see what your reaction would be.If i was his wife he,d be out that door so fast his feet wouldnt touch the ground.
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