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writes: I am deeply in love with my man, was giving him head until a week ago when he suddenly said you don't have to. I asked him what that meant, he said it is because I won't swallow, Is this a really a deciding factor for men, He loves the way I give head, but since than he won't let my lips touch his joint and actually I miss pleasuring him like that. What do I do?delightful
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): From personal experience it's like if a guy was eatin you out and stopped just as your orgasam began instead staying with it to the peak. For me swallowing makes my orgasam so much more intense and fufilling. Oh, and for anyone out there that thinks I should swallow my own... I do!!!...=-)
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reader, Honest_Answers  +, writes (19 August 2009):
 Do it in the shower! That way when he does come you just keep your head in the stream of water and spit with your head down and he'll never know whether you're spitting or swallowing. Also maybe save oral sex as a special treat, give him chance to miss it and want it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): well it is a turn on for men.and some women.but as to why he did that is puzzling me to,especially if he enjoys what you do,as you have just said.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): My woman does both and never disapoints either way. I find it puzzlng this one.
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reader, cheated  +, writes (19 August 2009):
well all that l can say is "its his loss"
my wife has probably swallowed twice in 15 yrs, the rest of the time she gets me close and then finishes me off by hand. l am very happy with that. don't let him force you to do something you don't want to. just tell him that maybe if he isn't pushy you may feel in the right mood to do it and if not then there is other ways to pleasure....
creativity is the secret.
oh by the way, will he kiss you when you swallow???? rub a little on his lips and see if he likes the taste......
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (19 August 2009):
 If you truly love someone then you would be willing to make this compromise. Thats the way see love is supposed to be unconditional. Im not saying rob a bank for the guy,but if you cant do this small deed for this man maybe you should evaluate what love means to you.it can be a big deal for some men, I cant speak for all but i would say by not swallowing he may feel your rejecting this part of him. Its a psychological thing what if your man didnt like your breast never looked at them and never wanted to touch them.If you dont want to do it dont but I think your with the wrong guy.My question is why wont you do it?
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