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writes:Ok so I need help, I'm 16 years old, I have a girlfriend that I love very much and don't get me wrong she turns me on, I mean I sometime I jerk off thinking of her. I mean when I'm with her I watch her when she walks and even when we're in church I look down her shirt and when we're cudding on the couch I grab her ass, not violently but enough to get an erection. It's not all about sex though. I love her more than anything else in the world, I couldn't live without her and if I was told that I could never have sex with her I wouldn't leave her. Anyway to the point I'm attracted sexually to other girls more than my girlfriend. I maturbate to other friends that are girls more than my girlfriend. Is this normal? What Sould I do about this?
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (20 August 2009):
 lol, in church, that's hot ;)
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reader, VirginMaster  +, writes (20 August 2009):
 In church! naughty naughty! what would your God think of you?!
not that i care. your god isn't mine (and they don't mind sex at all). but you should think about it. haha.
On a more serious note, it is natural for a guy to think about other girls as well as his own. I've been with the same girl for a long time now, we're engaged and have a very very healthy and active sexlife. but i still think of other girls. its how a male mind works. just don't go act on it or you'll mess things up.
Rather think like this: it wouldn't be natural not to look and think about other girls. .. ...
It is natural for being close to her to turn you on. It is natural to get an erection from touching her. It is natural to get one to think about having sex with her.
My fiance just has to kiss me, or even just give me a certain look and i get turned on. she likes it.
By the way, I work in the sex product and supplement industry, i study sex and its my passion in life. its my job, its my future and my fiance likes having it way more than most other girls.
So it is natural. In science talk. because you are young, you have a lot of the right hormones, esp. testosterone.
They account for you obsession with having sex and thinking of other girls. all i hope is that one day it doesn't lead you to have an affair like most people do sometime in their lives. . . .
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (20 August 2009):
I think it is your age that makes this more natural for you, but i do think most people are attracted to other people you always want what you can't have. This doesn't mean you don't love your girlfriend and really has nothing to do with her if you love her like you say you do. Maybe you aren't ready to be with one women yet and that is why this bothers you so much think long and hard about how you really feel.
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