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*helsieSue
writes:Me and this boy have been talking about dating and all that stuff, the fathest we've gone is makeout. i really like him, but i'm 15 and he's 17. thats not bad, but he'll be 18 in March and i'll still be 15 until junee. i'm a sophmorevand he's a senior. and were both virgins, but i worrry that he'll want to have sex. he's told me time and time before that he doesnt want too put me on the spot and make me do anything a dont want to do, do you think we wont have a chance for a relationship? honesty pleasee.(:
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reader, ChelsieSue +, writes (29 December 2009):
ChelsieSue is verified as being by the original poster of the question just for an update, we started dating August 22nd, and we just passed our four month; without sex:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): Hi, of course you have a chance for a friendship, but by no means should you be thinking about having sex at 15 and I understand your concern that he is older. That said he seems to reassure you that sex is not what he is after, so I would go with that and just keep things as friendly as possible....because like one aunt said, friendship and trust are the basis of any good relationship. You probably will have more boyfriends before you ever feel the desire to have sex, I hope you wait until you are much older and in a committed relationship.
In the mean time enjoy kissing and all that romantic stuff.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): This is why age really is more than just a number.
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reader, jessjess  +, writes (19 August 2009):
 Never mind waiting until there are no legal repercussions (although obviously consider this too!)...the MOST important thing is to wait until YOU are READY to have sex with him. You haven't even started going out yet- stop getting ahead of yourself and take things as they come! If you don't want to sleep with him, don't. There are plenty of other sexual activities that you can experiment with until you are ready (if you want to!). It will be much more special when you are comfortable and ready and hopefully in love with the guy. If he is worth being with and genuinely cares about you, he will want you to be at ease with him and will wait. He's already told you he doesn't want to pressure you, so I don't see why if you like each other you shouldn't give things a go! Sex should by NO MEANS form the foundation of a relationship. Friendship, trust, having fun together, love, loyalty and understanding are all MUCH more important trust me. Good luck.
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reader, heartbroken . x +, writes (19 August 2009):
Ohh yehh of cause you will :) Im 15 and my birthdays in june :) And my boyfriends 17 and 18 at X-mas time and we are in a really good relastionship (Excuse my spelling Haha) But bare in mind your mum and dad might not like it , my dad hates !! it ! and im not aloud to see him on my own , so just bare in mind if your dads protective that might happen . but im sure he doesnt want sex . If you feel right and YOU want to do it , you are free to :) Good luck Heartbroken. X
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (19 August 2009):
 Once he's 18 he would be breaking the law if he had sex with you. Just tell him you want to wait until there can be no legal repercussions.
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