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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

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An ex wife, an Autistic son, a crazy ex girlfriend, and another son-that's my B/f's life. Any thoughts on how best to handle this situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man for nearly 2 years. We were talking about marriage..etc. He has been divorced for over 10 years and has a 10 year old Autistic son from his previous marriage. He is a dedicated father and pays ...

My fiance doesn't want to disown the child that he is said to have fathered with this dubious woman, for fear of hurting the child!! What do I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Could anyone who has been through this help. My fiance has a child. It appears that no one in the world believes the child is his. The mother became pregnant within a month of them getting together. It has now surfaced that she was sleeping with ...

Husband (also doctor) addicted to teen porn...just told me he hates me for asking him

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - My husband has admitted to being addicted to porn years ago but it was never a real issue because he hid it. I recently borrowed his laptop and he had over 89 bookmarks of 'teen' porn and he used the name like 'morgage payments' to hid the sites. On ...

Neither my parents nor the father of my baby know that I'm pregnant. How do I tell them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I met this guy on some dating app ending of November this year. He seemed like a sweet guy and lived in my area, so we met up at a local Starbucks. We seemed to click and clearly were interested in each other so we continue...

What happened? Was it is miscarriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone I want to know if I had a miscarige or what? Well heres what happend I had sex with my bf on april 1st and we only had half way in sex he only put his penus half way in which he camed inside me and alot! And so my period didnt come for 2 ...

I'm 20 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend will not tell his parents. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Dear cupid. Im 20 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. my bf of 2 years. still has not told his parents and I dont know what to do. I gave him option to leave if he wanted and he decided to stay but is still making no effort. His parents need to know ...

He cheated with me, now I am paranoid about people finding out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Well i met this guy the other night and the first time we met we connected like he was the one to say this too me and that we couldn't stop looking at each other... The next night him and his girlfriend who is one of my good mates came around to m...

Can I get pregnant if he only puts it half way in?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone well I have this sex situation well here it is I have a boyfriend that I been with for 1 year and 3 months we only had half way in sex 4 times that was on april 1st and on and we used lubrication for some reason it feels good when he ...

How do I prove to this man that the baby I'm carrying is his?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - I am a 34yrs old lady I've been seeing ds man for a year now earlier I found out he was cheating on me we talked abt it and I was wrong cause i snooped on his fon while he was sasleep.well we continued visiting each other until now when I find out ...

Does this guy really love me or is he just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Confused, he broke up wth me due to distance and fear of commitment, recently when he return for the holiday. He started texting me on his whereabouts and so forth,he ask me to visit, we get physical on three occasions, he asked if I can bear him...

How do I tell my locked up boyfriend that I am pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - hi i really need some help..i'm pregnant, yes i kno 14 and pregnant..it's a huge deal please don't preach me about it..my family is just starting to accept the fact that i am and it's been 4 months since i've told them..but that's got nothing ...

His Mom tells lies about me. We have a baby girl. Should I wait until he wants to come back to me? Or contact him first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Just had a huge fight with my boyfriend, his mom and sister. He was drunk and was arguing with my mom and me....he was saying all kinds of things to us and well my mom was screaming things back so it turned out to be a huge fight! We ended up ...

I was sick will this stop the pill from working?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - I had sex without a condom with my boyfreind but I'm on the pill I take it regular and never miss x the thing is I was sick three hours after taking the pill will this stop the pill from working just am due on my period any day now and this waslast ...

Baby due 9 Jan. Which guy possibly fathered my child? Mr early April / MidApril or Mr27 April?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - I need serious opinions!! Now i know this is a "medical" deal, but to be quite blunt, talking to my doctor is like talking to a robot. I am pregnant, due january 9th, but, i had sex with someone around the beginning/middle of april, then someone ...

Is my verbally abusive Bf cheating? Should I leave him? How do I stand up for myself better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I recently had twins a boy and girl and I feel my boy friend doesnt love me no more ! I DO everything for him I cook, clean, give him sex when he wants it , i take care of the twins i told him 'if you want to help me with the twin...

Can I keep my Gf and still do this? I'm pretending to not be attracted to other women to keep my girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 December 2011 (M) - Im in my first serious relationship for 3 years now. I love my girlfriend. She is beautiful and we get along. We are having our first child soon. I want to marry her. But sometimes I feel like I'm hiding part of myself from her. I think that if she ...

My family aren't supporting me during my pregnancy -- should I take up the offer from my b/f's family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - i am 14 almost 15 and i'm 26 weeks pregnant with twins..i am super happy and so is my boyfriend and his family..my family on the other hand..i'm thinkin..not so much..i can see why they are upset/disappointed but right now all i need is support..i ...

Now that I'm pregnant I'm worried my b/f doesn't find me attractive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - I have been with my fiance for 5 years he is 39 and I am 26 I love him so much. I am 13 weeks pregnant and I am kind of scared that I am less attractive he keeps "holding" my large stomach and it makes me feel...yuk. Also his ex wife is not letting ...

Don't know how to tell his parents we're pregnant! Needing advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - I've been in a relationship w/ my bf for over 2 years now. We are looking at getting engaged in 2012 and getting married in 2013. At age 16 I was told I wouldn't be able to conceive naturally and would need fertility drugs in order to get preg...

I would like some information on 'the Pill' from women who use it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - I am in a long term relationship with my boyfriend, of whom we are totally faithful of each other. I have had the coil for a long time, but it isn't for me because I don't trust it without condoms, whereas we don't want to use condoms any-more...

I ran away, now I'm pregnant and don't know how to tell my Mom!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - i need help please! my mom and i got in a huge fight about a year and a half ago about her and her boyfriend getting married i couldn't and i still can't stand him..time being she hated my boyfriend to, he probably wasn't and probably still isn't ...

I'm tired of him making excuses not to try for a child or to get engaged!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

19 December 2011 (F) - Hi I accidently got pregnant last summer with my boyfriend (we've been a steady couple for 3 years) and then had a early miscarriage. I took the MC very bad but by bf just shook the whole thing off as "those things happen". Now I've been wantin...

She's on birth control, but the condom slipped... Should we be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (M) - My fiance and I were having sex yesterday. We used a condom, but when I came, it started to slide off. It had slid almost halfway off by the time I pulled out. We're worried that some may have come out of the top and gotten inside her. She takes ...

How to improve intimacy between us? Help! there is no sex in our relationship...or very little

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - Hello! I am in a quandry at the moment about my sexual relationship. I have been together with my partner for almost 2 years - we started off on a long distance relationship, I then fell pregnant to him and we now have a gorgeous 7 month old baby...

I'm pregnant. When will airlines say "No" to me flying between New York and England?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

14 December 2011 (F) - Are you allowed to fly aboard when you're pregnant? my partner wants to take me to new york before baby is born?? if you are allowed to fly then how many months pregnant can you be, and still be able to fly? many thanks ...

8 months pregnant, and my partner seems to be getting more and more distant and resentful as the due date is approaching

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

14 December 2011 (F) - So i am eight months pregnant and lately the father of the baby/my boyfriend has been acting...distant. its so subtle it almost makes me think im imagining things but we have been together for two years and i know when something is different. Its ...

Pregnant, alone and trying to find my way.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - Im 18 going on 19, and I was sleeping with my ex fiance, trying to slowly win him back, then I got pregnant. I'm 12 weeks along now, and I moved up to Oregon with my aunt and uncle. He's down in California and is still in shock. He wants to be there ...

I'm 15 and my family hasn't talk to me since I told them I'm pregnant. How do I get them back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - I'm 15 and having a baby what should i do? i'm keeping the baby but my family hasn't talk to me since I told them. I want my family back, so what should I do? I can't do this on my own, they want nothing to do with me. ...

I'm 17, pregnant and engaged...and all of a sudden my boyfriend's behavior has changed towards me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

9 December 2011 (F) - Okay so...the details aren't important, but to narrow things down I have been with the love of my life and my fiance for a while now. Today I am 17 weeks and a day pregnant with our first child. He has told me many times that he wants this baby and ...

He asked what turned me on, and is now avoiding sexual intercourse because of it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 December 2011 (F) - Got a really strange question for you. My boyfriend has asked me over time what turns me on. He knows some things but recently he asked again and I finally told him one thing. Now he seems to be avoiding sex with me. I told him that I dont wa...

My guys is still affectionate, but no sex! Is it because of 2 kids and our busy life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

7 December 2011 (F) - Hello, A little background information, My boyfriend and I have been together for just about 4 years and have 2 young children. Our sex life has never been crazy, I got pregnant pretty quick when we first started dating (3 months)so I think tha...

My partner couldn't be bothered that I miscarried our baby, and he's been busy texting his ex while I'm going through hell!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

7 December 2011 (F) - Hi I've been with my partner for 3 half years. I was due to move on with him next month. In October I found out I was pregnant and was so happy. I'm 41 and my son has left home. My bf wasn't too keen at first but eventually began to get excited....

He wants a baby but not marriage?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year. (He's in his early 40's and I'm in my early 30's.) We recently got pregnant, but I had a miscarriage. Though this pregnancy was unexpected, we had discussed wanting to have kids together in ...

He called it "SPAM" I think he is cheating. Should I leave him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - I need some help big time with my relationship! My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years!! Recently I have suspected him of cheating on me and its driving me insane! A few months ago I noticed that he wouldn't let his phone out of his s...

14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...

I feel I can't say no to him. What should I do?" What advice is the best to help me in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - I am a 16 year old girl and my boyfriend is 18 year old . Both of us love each other very much but we are of diffrent caste and our family is highly orthodox but he had promised me to marry and now he is asking me to have a physical relationship. I ...

How much do your breasts grow when you are pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - I am trying to concive a child and I am just wondering what is the average size your breasts grow? AsI already have rather large breasts (36G) and I am just worried that they might get to big. ...

Struggling to cope after miscarriage and now I am insecure he has cheated! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Hi long story now but here goes. I had a miscarriage 3 weeks ago and I had to have an CRPC to remove what was left. After that I came home. Me and bf were both very upset about it but he has also been quite insensitive at times, i.e. on the evening ...

Could I be pregnant for 5 seconds of sex, on my period??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Is it possible to get pregnant whilst on your period? seriously!!? i had sex on the 4th day of my period so i was not heavy and my partner didnt even notice, however i had sex without a condom for literally 5 seconds and then i stopped it and said ...

He takes lots of time out with his friends. How can I stop being jealous, before I ruin the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

4 December 2011 (F) - I need help with this one. My boyfriend and I, together for 13 months, we have a daughter together. When he hangs out with friends that are guys i get jealous. When he drinks or gets drunk with his friends i get jealous because while he is doing ...

Is this weight gain normal even during pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

2 December 2011 (F) - Hi. I'm just under 7 weeks pregnant and am due for a termination tomorrow due to medical problems that could risk my life if I continue with my pregnancy. I've come to terms with all of this and I'm okay in myself at the moment. I've got the sup...

Has anyone had any problems with taking the morning after pill (norlevo) ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

1 December 2011 (F) - Anyone have any problems from taking the morning after pill.. {NorLevo}.. Do you think its ok to take this medication in a emergency? ...