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writes:Im 18 going on 19, and I was sleeping with my ex fiance, trying to slowly win him back, then I got pregnant. I'm 12 weeks along now, and I moved up to Oregon with my aunt and uncle. He's down in California and is still in shock. He wants to be there for the kid, and we're sorta friends, but I still feel so alone. We're not sure at all what our plan is after the baby is born, and I'm not sure I could handle living near him since he's so determined to get a new gf. But I dont think its fair to keep our child away from him since he wants to be a part of it's life. I'm just lost.
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reader, soscared.. +, writes (23 December 2011):
i kno exactly how you feel i am 26 weeks pregnant with twins and i'm only 14..if the father wants to be apart of the babies life AWESOME! but i do have to say coming from a home where i had no father..once he/she is old enough to realize that daddy isn't always around that's when you need to start protecting..my father came in my life for about a year when i was 7 and when he left i was absoulutly devastated and i started doing horrible in school..but when he/she is mature enough you can then start talking to them a little more about there dad..while there younger if they ask just give the most basic answer you can..good luck!!:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2011): Never be with someone because of a child. Never feel like you are now stuck. A child is a gift. If he wants to be close to the baby, let him move close to you. He doesn't have to live next door. Believe me, you will be dating soon and then his questions will be the same as yours. It is posible that the two of you want to be together but your both emotional and scared. Don't look at the dating seen. Look at one day at a time.
Good luck
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