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Archived questions from: December, 2012 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

My Coworker says he's a "relationship kind of guy" but I think he's rushing things. Does he want more a FWB than a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I have got involved in a coworker. We have been sexting and sending each other pics... I was really against this but he eventually twisted my arm. Thing is, hes only just recently broken up with his gf and says he wasn't bothered about the breaku...

Why do I feel like I need a man to complete me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - hello cupid,i hoping you can help me anwser some concerns i have about me. i have been married for 20 years now. but thinking back i really got into this marraige really fast. within a week of my husband and myself dating we moved in together and ...

How do I politely say "no" to men I'm not interested in on an online dating site?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - i got a dilemma, i signed up for a dating website not so long ago. and over all it is fine, what I am finding harder than i though, is replying to messages of men i am not interested in, i try to turn them down as politely as i can but there is...

Fake FB account and now I'm stuck. What do I do?? I never meant to hurt anyone.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - i know.i messed up. i know i hurt people. i just want advice though. okay sorry if this is long.i fell fast and hard for a male friend. well i wanted to find out if he was insterested in anyone without him knowing i liked him. so i made a fa...

Six months of dating, but he never says, 'i love you'. How can I be sure of his love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - Im 32 years old and my bf is 21..weve been dating for 6 months now. I love him and i always show and tell that to him. but im not sure if he loves me, he doesnt say the words 'I love you'..but i can feel that he cares for me..not just by text. he...

Texting him for 4 months. Then he suggested FWB. Then ignored me totally. Am I right to be concerned by this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I've been texting this guy for around 4 months now and a few weeks ago we both told each other we like each other. Since then we've been texting everyday and have planned to meet up and go out somewhere. I should also mention that he also suggested ...

I exchange a few messages with girls on websites and suddenly they delete their profiles. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - Hi, I am 23-year-old single guy who has been struggling to find a great girl for myself. I joined a dating site that is strictly for college students and alumni. This past week, I found two girls and started chatting with them. After we traded ...

I want a relationship with trust and honesty!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I have caught my boyfriend on dating sites 5 times this year. He has promised to stop doing it from now on. He said that all the other times too. I find all i do lately is look for evidence of him doing it again. Just like i have done in the past ...

I keep letting possible partners slip away even though I want a relationship. Should I persevere with this guy I've met online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

26 December 2012 (M) - Relationship/ gay advice please? I don't know what to do. I've let so many guys slip away on the advice that 'they're not the right one' etc. but I tired of this happening and it makes me sad. I'm in my final uni year, still single and I don...

What are general tips on the types of places suitable for 1st and 2nd dates?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

26 December 2012 (M) - I met somebody from an online dating site. We went to a starbucks near where she lived. There was background music playing and I couldn't hear her properly because she was speaking very softly ( I didn't like her that much, so won't be seeing her ...

Thank you Dear Cupid. This is a WONDERFUL site. You showed me good directions when I was lost.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I just want to say thanks to all the wonderful people at dear cupid. Since from the beginning of the you have shown love and good advices. Mostly thanks to the wonderful founder of dear cupid. Its so good to know that there's someone out there who ...

Was he over the top to break up over this after 2 years together? Was he looking for an excuse?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up in April of this year. He had found out I was on dating sites again. I did not want to meet anyone, because I was in love with him. I used to go on dating sites to tease the guys on them and had no intention of meet...

She told me to date other women. Trying to forget her but it's hard. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 December 2012 (M) - So I met this single mom from a dating website. Things were going great. Until I began to be unsure about dating her. I thought she would be better off dating someone that was on her level(career wise, ect.). She replied to me by saying "I'm not ...

Why is he still lying? Yet begging to resume our relationship? Will he change or continue to go on dating sites if we get back together?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

20 December 2012 (F) - I dumped my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago for going on dating sites and sex texting with girls. He could not even explain who these girls were, so I assumed they were from dating sites. He is still lying and says he never went on those dating s...

Old crush from highschool poked me on Facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

19 December 2012 (F) - A guy I had a big crush on in high school just poked me on Facebook. I haven't seen him for 2 and a half years since I left my hometown for college. In high school we were always staring at each other but we only spoke a few times. We were both ...

After a week on talking online he says he loves me and wants to marry me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

18 December 2012 (F) - I recently placed a personal ad saying i m looking for a mate, I had over 20 response , most of the guys were playing or seeking sex so I finally came across a guy who sound great anyways we chated though email then he gave me his number , we ...

He says "it's not what I think it is". But why am I not enough for him? Why does he need to talk to other girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

18 December 2012 (F) - Question Especially geared for the men MrX and I have been dating since June. We are monogamous with each other (sexually) I know most of his friends, but not his family and although we act like it, he really won't commit to saying he's my a...

I'm engaged, but I've fallen for a guy online. I don't know who I'm really in love with! And I don't want to hurt anyone! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4382 days ago

17 December 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 and half years now. Last year we got engaged. He is my first and only love.Since the engagement things have changed. He acts way much childish, being completely irresponsible. He says he has always been this ...

I can't seem to form lasting relationships.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

17 December 2012 (M) - So I'm not first to have this issue and I'm sure I won't be the last. I'm 29, and I've had only one real relationship. That was back when I was 21 and it lasted 3 months. Since then I have "dated" two women. By dated I mean that nothing ever was ...

How do I get a date or a girlfriend without coming off as being desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4387 days ago

Why is my b/f still active on the online dating site?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

17 December 2012 (F) - Five months ago I met a guy online and we hit off it seems. We are at the stage where while we never talked about being exclusive, I've met his parents and friends and have been introduced as his girlfriend. I've never closed my account at the d...

Do you think I am wasting my time on some-one who is polite but not interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4388 days ago

16 December 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. Well I am at a loss, I met a girl online, and I think we are connecting. We've talked the past few days sporadically through the day because she's at work and I'm at school. I really like this girl, and haven't felt like this a...

My Bf has been so very unkind to me. Should I even bother texting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

15 December 2012 (F) - My bf texted me at 9 am I responded but i didn't realize my message didnt go through So i texted him again 8 hours later saying, "hey babe sorry i didnt realize my message didnt go through" He was just like, "I'm going to bed" So i said, "If you...

My ex girlfriend blows hot and cold about getting back together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

13 December 2012 (M) - So here it goes. Me and my girlfriend of 2 years just broke up on Thanksgiving and it was a pretty rough break up. The thing is this Friday would have been our 2 year anniversary which is going to be a really rough day for me. Heres my question...

What is the wait time to talk to someone again after a great first date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

10 December 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. So I met a girl online on a dating website. I didn't really think I could meet anyone and that these sites don't work. But I'm happy to be mistaken, I found someone that I find to be gorgeous with the same interest as myself. Now ...

Could I make something happen with this crush of mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4394 days ago

10 December 2012 (M) - hello, just wondering if you can give me some tips please, and a bit of advice with girl issues, i will try make it as short as possible basicly i havent had a lot of girlfriends so im not really that experienced, i had my first 'girlfriend' whe...

Is it best to just forget this guy? I know I deserve better

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I am legally separated from my husband and will be going to be divorced soon. I have made plenty of friends online for the last 3 years. One of them, a guy and I have become quite close. We have been chatting on skype for 2 weeks. There was a l...

Do I wait? hope? or just break up with her? Because I think she may have feelings for another guy who reminds her of her ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - I'm in college. Over the summer I was at home and started talking to this girl online, who also lives in the area. We had common friends and began talking for hours every night. I had very strong feelings for her but she was reluctant because for ...

I have some regrets about my LDR. I think I give too much. How can I overcome these feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - Im in a ldr with a wonderful girl and we love each other very much. When i met her i was pursuing my dream job, having job interviews etc. When things got serious and we became exclusive she had to go back to her country to complete school ...

How do I forgive a cybersex affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (F) - I met a new guy three years after my divorce . online dating he was very newly seperated ( i didnt know this at first)I think his wife cheated . she moved out with another man. But anyways .. Everything was great He was great . Lot in common, ...

I love her already despite the fact we havent met yet, but will I get my heart broken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

3 December 2012 (M) - Hi, I'm not new to relationships or dealing with women, however; this is a little more complicated than I would like it to be and could use some opinions. I have a problem trying to decide if this girl is worth my time. It all started a few weeks ...

Saw my best friends fiancée on a dating website. Should I tell him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

2 December 2012 (M) - I have joined a dating site. I have seen a profile of my life long best friends soon to be wife. She is active on it and it says she is single. What do I do? If I told him would it end up where she lies to him and I get classed as a trouble causer? ...

She is a weak woman who thinks with her heart and not her head. what is wrong with her?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

1 December 2012 (F) - hi i got myself into a tissy and i my conscious is getting the best of me. sometime ago i connected with a woman on a dating site. i didnt tell her i was bi and not divorced and occassionally sleeping with my husband and my man boss. she thinks...

He made a commitment to be with me, but is still chatting up girls on the dating site we met on.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

1 December 2012 (F) - I met my boyfriend on an online dating/chat website about 7 months ago. We were just friends for about 5 months before we both agreed to be in a committed relationship. We live two states apart and we visit each other at least every few months. ...

Would you consider an internet romance to be cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

1 December 2012 (M) - Would it be cheating if my girlfriend went on internet and talked to some guy and they had a little romance over the internet for not a long time before i cought her. She then told me they did nothing. But I read the email and they were flirting and ...