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Archived questions from: January, 2017 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Gave up my family and now he treats me badly

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2849 days ago

30 January 2017 (F) - Hello all. I'm married for 20 months now. It was a love marriage, a run-away marriage actually. My husband was the nicest man ever. So polite so caring so adorable. After I ran away from my home and few months passed he changed. He has become...

How can I end this selfishness in my marriage?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2847 days ago

30 January 2017 (F) - Hi guys. Im just looking for a bit of advice. Im 24 years old and I married my husband last year. Lately he has been very selfish and entitalled. Every morning he is rude and angry. He always complains about having to go to work. I am so sick and ...

How can I get the physical affection aspect re-started in our relationship? The cuddles have stopped.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2849 days ago

29 January 2017 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm not sure what to do. My husband and I mostly have a great relationship, but for the last few months he seems to touch me only for sex. I like sex, but I'm starting to resent it and not want to have it when it seems to be the only...

Why is he checking on his ex flings FB page after she unfriended him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - Something happened a few months ago with my husband and an "ex-fling" of his. I was there when the incident occurred and it was just a bit of drunk stupidity on his part, which we are both fine with in our relationship - it was a private message ...

Do cheating married men usually have more than one mistress?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

27 January 2017 (F) - Do married men who cheat, cheat with more than one mistress at a time? Or do some men stay with just one? I am interested in everybody weighing in with their opinions. ...

I hid a recorder and heard breathing, is he cheating or watching porn?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

27 January 2017 (?) - Hello Everyone, I have a unique issue. I don't trust my husband. For varies reasons. Alot of people thought I should hire a Detective. I really don't have the money for that. A friend of mine suggested I get a voice recorder and set it in the m...

Why would my husband delete his porn history, when it upsets me even more than the actual porn usage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

26 January 2017 (F) - My husband deletes porn from his internet history so that it doesn't upset me. It's not that it upsets me a lot, I understand his reason for watching it is for quick release, usually his stress. And it's not ALL the time so... But I do sometimes g...

Wife friended EX on Facebook and it has caused issues in our marriage

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

24 January 2017 (M) - One evening my wife was typing on her smartphone because she got a message on Facebook. It turned out, an ex-boyfriend wanted to friend her and she asked if it was OK. I asked her if he knew she was married and she said it was on her profile, so I ...

I feel inadequate!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

22 January 2017 (M) - Here I am..again. Now trying to stop loving my wife. During the last 6 months 3 of her former FWB have written e-mails to her remembering their pleasure moments...I found out reading those e-mails (not spying , given we both have open access t...

My wife left me for her ex, who found her on Facebook and now wants to come back. Should I give her a second chance ?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

22 January 2017 (M) - My wife was contacted by an ex on Facebook who first said he only wanted to be friends, then indicated he wanted more. She showed me his messages and told me they dated in high school and college and she broke up with him twice. The first time...

My husband left me and I think he's now coming over to talk divorce. I don't think I can handle it

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

21 January 2017 (F) - Okay, So a few days ago my husband left and told me he wasn't coming home again via text. I tried so hard to give him space. I did send a few texts back to him and I never got a response. - Which is fair. The reason why he left is because i had ma...

How should I handle this situation? I think something is going on between my mom and my husband

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

21 January 2017 (F) - I think there’s something going on between my mom and my husband !! I know this sounds impossible but it seems true !! And I want to get to the bottom of it but don't know how !! My mom's visiting us and it has been here for the past 2 months !...

I lied to my husband about maxing out my credit card and he found out

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

19 January 2017 (F) - So today my husband found out that i maxed my (our) credit card. He was upset by this. Which i dont blame him. Ive totally broken his trust in me. I was going to say that i dont know why i lied about it. But i do. I lied because he gets ver...

Is he using me? He's spending more time with his ex than he spends with me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

18 January 2017 (F) - I'm going out with this bloke on and off for over a year now, but what gets to me is he spends most off his time at his ex's house. He says he's there for kids but half of the time the children are not there. He leaves at 8:00 in morning and ...

This bothers me a lot. What can I do? Married nearly 15 years and now my wife is no longer interested in Bjs.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

18 January 2017 (M) - Been married for nearly 15 years. My wife has basically decided that she will no longer perform oral sex on me. It's not like I was getting once a week, in fact once every two years is more like the current rate. When we first married, it was some...

Married recently. Are these marriage problems happening too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

18 January 2017 (F) - My husband and I just got married about a month ago, unfortunately we can't live together because neither of us have a job at the moment. Although we are looking. We see each once or twice a month. We text everyday and FaceTime, but now all of s...

I'm in a long-distance marriage and at a loss! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

17 January 2017 (F) - I am in my second marriage and my husband and I live in separate states. There is, of course, a backstory...but my main issue is simple. He does not make our marriage a priority. In this day and age, I don't even hear from him every day. If I do, I ...

Logically I know it doesn't matter, but I am struggling with my Girlfriend's past!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

16 January 2017 (M) - I know a lot of you are going to say this is just another guy with hang-ups and insecurities suffering from hypocritical retrospective jealousy – and to a certain extent you may be right – but I really am desperate to fix this (fix myself?), so ...

I'm concerned that my wife is texting a younger male co-worker outside of work!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

13 January 2017 (M) - My wife is a manager in a small store of 20 employees. She texts and Facebook messages a male employee half her age. The texts/messages are both work related and non work related. Non work related include videos of songs and home decor along basic ...

I don't fantasize about other men so is it wrong that I feel upset that my husband uses porn?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

12 January 2017 (F) - I've read a lot of information on porn use following some tension between my husband and I over his use of it . When we first married I did tell him that I was not wanting to be in a relationship with someone who used porn and he assured me he ...

The sex is good but I want more!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - I'll get straight to the point: I'm not happy with my sex life. I'e been with my husband for 15 years, we're married for 4. we are happy in our realtionship- though there are always things to work on. He works a lot, which is fine. He is caring and ...

He wants to move in, I said not without marriage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid ,I'm at a time in my life now my kids are grown and now I just want to do me.I have this one guy friend who wants a relationship with me and then hopes of marriage. Our kids are all grown and some have children of their own.He wants to ...

My husband wants me to date other men for sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - I have been married for 17 years my husband for the past 5 year asks med to have sex with other men while we are having sex it gets him harder, should I? I have explained to him sex is more then sex to me, he says for me to go out and date then. I ...

He's asked for another separation because it's hard for him that I don't trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - I been with my husband for 15 years. About 6 years ago we briefly seperated because he started talking and texting with this girl from work. He said that it was nothing but deep inside me always screamed that it was something. We got back together ...

I need advice on making my marriage better. Should I feel guilty about the flirtation I had on a weekend away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

8 January 2017 (M) - I need some advice on making my relationship better. I'm married and have been for 13 years, the first thing I want to say is I love my wife. I am in my mid 40's whilst my wife is 7 years older than me, up until last year I was fairly overweight ...

Am I over reacting to husband's online interaction with another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

8 January 2017 (F) - me and my husband are having some problems, maybe its all me i dont know but anyway.. few yeas back i caught him deleting messages from a co worker he said it was nothing but just didnt want me to get the wrong end of he stick so thought he would...

I am finding it increasingly difficult to deal with my in laws!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

8 January 2017 (F) - I am finding it increasingly difficult to deal with my husbands family . He has several family members who beliefs and behaviour are very challenging and they sometimes stay with us as they live interstate . Some are currently or were in the past ...

I don't feel good that my husband talks to his ex behind my back! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2845 days ago

6 January 2017 (F) - I have been cheated on in the past and I just can't stop with snooping. I've talked to my husband about it but I just keep finding him communicating with his ex and he deletes them right away. I just saw that he told her I don't like them keeping in ...

He promised to change if we got married ....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 January 2017 (F) - I am currently married 5 moths this January, we where engaged for a year and dated a year and 1/2 prior to that. Well now I want a divorce! My husband is the man I married and he swore that after we got ,arrived things would change, but still 5 ...

Should I tell my wife I've been visiting massage parlours?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2836 days ago

3 January 2017 (M) - I'm a married man in my early 50s with a big secret. I've developed a habit of visiting massage parlours and receiving massages that end with sexual stimulation and orgasm. This started a few months ago and I love the excitement of headin...

Wedding is booked. But groom has cold feet. He's 40 and is fearful of commitment. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

1 January 2017 (F) - Hi We are due to get married in just a few weeks time. A number of days ago, my fiancee has said to me he has cold feet about the wedding and is overcome with nervousness and fear about the day itself, growing up and getting married. We are ...

My husband made 160 phone calls in one month to his female coworker! Advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

1 January 2017 (F) - Geez - where to begin? Suffice it to say that about a year ago I began a downward spiral into depression. (The triggering event was horrific, but unrelated to my marriage). Anyway, I am definitely not myself, anymore, nor do I adequately fulfill the ...

Waiting for a proposal for 3 years and then the ring was not to my taste. Am I worrying about things that matter in this situation?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

1 January 2017 (F) - Iv been waiting over 3 and a half years for a proposal for a wedding After much nagging about marriage I got a proposal with a 219 pound argos ring when he earns over 20 000 per annum which shows no saving as he bought even this on a per monthly ...