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female
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36-40,
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writes:Something happened a few months ago with my husband and an "ex-fling" of his. I was there when the incident occurred and it was just a bit of drunk stupidity on his part, which we are both fine with in our relationship - it was a private message social media incident and it has not caused any issues for us, but was a bit awkward for her... and he was embarassed about it.Anyway, she is FB friends with my husbands mother and sister and I noticed through one of their accounts that she had unfriended my husband on FB (obviously because of this incident) as she was no longer friends with him - I just noticed we had one less mutual friend than before. I mentioned it to my husband last night, and he brushed it off as 'ah well, put it down to life experience and drunken stupidity'. He said it didn't bother him - though he was a bit quiet for a while after and then this morning I walked past him while he was on Facebook on the computer, he had looked up her FB profile and quickly closed the window.My question is: does it bother him more than he is letting on? Why would it? He only slept with her a couple of times but apparently it was pretty wild sex! - I know I shouldnt know this but mistakes were made at the start of our relationship and unfortunately I do!He said it didn't bother him so why is he looking up her profile?!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (31 January 2017):
 He is probably curious and checking out to see why she deleted him. Male ego is a big thing. But it doesn't mean that he has feelings for her or is imagining being with her. Try not stress about it and leave it as it is. If it gets to much for you talk to him and I am sure he will reassure you. But honestly I wouldn't worry.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (28 January 2017):
 He is with YOU now. His ex is in the past for a good reason.
He is bound to feel curious though, especially when she has just unfriended him. Give him a break and let him work it out for himself.
I can't imagine this will be a big deal (especially as she has distanced herself from him ) unless YOU make it so.
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