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Archived questions from: September, 2013 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Does he really take Viagra just to masturbate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - I have been in Married 15 years. I love him very much. However, I found two times he took Viagra with him when he is a way for a long trip. First time I found he took about 2 pill, this time was half of the bill. Both times, I talked to him. I asked ...

How do I cope with the breakdown of my parents marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

28 September 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, just hoping for a bit of advice. My mum has just started the menopause and now is saying that she wants my dad to move out. They have been together for over 30 years and while I admit they have had their ups and downs, I have never se...

How to overcome the lack of sex in our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

28 September 2013 (M) - My spouse are both in our seventies and I still get the urge for sex, but because of her medical problems she's afraid to even try to have sex. She won't even let me touch her. We've been married for fifty years, it wouldn't make sense for me to ...

How can I be happier being a stay at home wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - How can I be happier being a stay at home wife? I feel stuck. I am a stay-at-home wife (not mom). About 50% of my time is spent at home working on a project I've been developing for several years and hoping it will come to fruition. The re...

A conversation about a friend led to resentment of my wife's different treatment of me and her ex lovers.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

26 September 2013 (M) - aqwsasThe other night at supper I was telling my wife of 32 years about a young lady at work. This woman was telling a story about a friend of hers who worked three jobs and when he came home from work his wife turned their three kids over to him ...

It feels like he blames me for finding out about this child with an ex of his!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

24 September 2013 (F) - I've been married for almost 17-years. When we started dating (first year) we had sex almost everyday. After 5-months into our relationship, we were informed that my husband could be a dad from a former girlfriend (she had four boyfriends at the ...

I found out husband is taking viagra. Is he lying to me about the reason?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2239 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - my husband is way. I found he took some Viagra with him. I asked him why did he need it? He said he need it when he feel like to have a sex and he will do it by himself with out any partner? I don't believe him.To you, it is a case? And do you think ...

Wife improves behavior but I cannot love her again

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

23 September 2013 (M) - My wife was abusive to me and our kids for over 10 years. She did many horrendous things, including verbal abuse, lying, manipulation, and, in general, not expressing any love to me and our kids. We talked about these things over time, but she was ...

I feel like my wife settled with me and its really bothering me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3804 days ago

23 September 2013 (M) - Ok here is my story. I met my wife 14 years ago. She was 19 and i was 28. I met her through a friend. She had a daughter and i had 2 daughters from previous relstionships. The first time I met her I asked her what she thought of me and she said I ...

Burdened under high expectations.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

20 September 2013 (M) - I am 37 year old self made married man with wife and kid. I had a poor living and have been fulflling all responsibilities since years without any expectations and demands even from my wife. Result of this everyone including my wife and ...

I'm in love with my friend, who's in an unhappy marriage. Should I tell her my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

15 September 2013 (M) - Hello, I have a female friend who seems to be in an unhappy marriage. Her husband constantly loses his temper for no reason whatsoever, causing her to cry. He's never hit her, just shouted at her. The other night, she phoned me in tears after he'd...

Sex is painful for me after having 2 children?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

13 September 2013 (F) - Feeling hopeless. Hi aunts and uncles. Sex is painful for me. Im not a virgin, by any means, my husband and I have two children together. I have read that "tenting" will help, but you must have foreplay to acheive that. My husband is not a fan of ...

Is it ever ok for a married man to take another women out to lunch?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1894 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - Is it ever ok for a married man to take another women out to lunch? My husband worked with this women but she recently got a different job. Well I just found out tonight that he talked to her online and ask her to have lunch with him sometime so ...

Our first anniversary is here and he has porn on his phone and a hidden facebook account, I feel disgusted!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - My husband has been good to me in the past 12 months of our marriage however, i have recently found him out to be having pornography (pictures) in his cell phone and he also keeps a facebook account he told me he lost some two years back. His sole ...

I feel as if my husband has forgotten his commitment in this marriage and is disregarding the needs and desires that I have.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

10 September 2013 (F) - Hi. Thios os my situation. My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years and lived together for 1 year before that. We split the bills equally because we earned about the same. (No children) About a year after we married he lost his job. We ...

Why did my sincere love for her wind up with me in such pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

9 September 2013 (M) - I think have posted abut my problem many times but this one is different related to my Ex American wife. I met here through internet and she came to Pakistan and we married here. She applied for spouse visa for me in the US and close to my ...

2 yr update on being married and cheated on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

8 September 2013 (M) - original post http://www.dearcupid.org/question/revenge-cheatingwill-it-help-.html I would like to start by saying thanks to all those people who commented and gave positive advice to me when i had nobody to speak to about what i was feeling and ...

Can I trust a marriage counsellor to keep my confidentiality or will s/he tell my wife everything I say?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

8 September 2013 (M) - My wife and I have been going through a rough patch lately. I think we need to see a therapist, counselor, or psychologist. I am not sure if the rules regarding confidentiality are different for each, but I am wondering if what I say will ultimately ...

Opposing work schedules! How do we make the best of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I work as a teacher, Monday through Friday, and am up 6am and get home around 4pm. My husband works as a casino dealer and works weekend shifts and weekdays that he can pick up from 9pm-5am.....Fridays, Saturdays, and Sundays guaranteed. ...

Husband addicted to autocad and finding a job. How can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

6 September 2013 (F) - Normally on here you hear about partners who are addicted to World of Warcraft/WoW. I'm 35, he's 32. Well, this one's different; my partner (husband actually)'s addicted to AutoCAD. Is this odd, considering that it borders on workaholism [see bel...

He goes to strip clubs and told me I'm not as sexually attractive to him as I was 14 years and 2 of our children ago!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

6 September 2013 (F) - I don’t know what to do anymore. I have been married for 10 years to my husband, we dated for about 2 years before that and we have two children together ( almost 8 and 4 years old) (he also has two from a previous marriage). I just recently found ...

Her parents don't know we are married and I can't handle things the way that they are any more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4124 days ago

5 September 2013 (M) - Dear All, For a brief insight into my circumstance please see http://www.dearcupid.org/question/her-parents-dont-know-we-are-married.html Since my first post, I have just crashed to be honest. One night she was on sleeping pills and was acting...

Married four years and the sex is dismal

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

4 September 2013 (F) - Im in my forties my husband is 39 we have been married for 4 years i love him more than anything but we never seem to have sex it feels like he doesn't want to do anything with me and i feel lonely and unloved and im thinking he doesn't fancy me or ...

Friend from childhood resurfaced. He's married and we started an affair. How can I end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

3 September 2013 (F) - I'm a separated mom of 3 girls. In early May of this year, my childhood friend started coming around me and my kids. At first it was just casual visits and then he started making advances which I was totally against. I made it clear to him that we ...

Should I tell my wife that I have a disire to continue being with guys or should I just do it and see what her reaction is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

3 September 2013 (M) - I have been crossdressing for a few years. My wife both supports and helps me with this. We do go out together while I am dressed up. She gets a kick out of watching guys hit on me. A few weeks ago while at a club I hung out with a guy for an hour ...

He told me I shouldn't try to wear a bikini again! Yet he looks at porn when I'm out of the house! Am I wrong to take this to heart?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

2 September 2013 (F) - My stomach was severely covered in stretch marks after having our first baby. Its been 3 years and I've worked really hard to get back down to my college weight. So I said something to my husband about trying to get back into a bikini. He told me ...

He's my one and only, and I feel like I missed playing the field

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

2 September 2013 (F) - Ok so I have been with my husband for 5 years we were 17 when we got together, a year later we had a son and got married. My problem is that he's the only person I've dated or had sex with ever! I find my self wondering wat It would be like to ...

Why would a married man flirt with an employee if his marriage is secure?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

2 September 2013 (F) - Hello all. I really need some advice so here goes..one of my managers at work constantly plays and jokes around with me unlike with any other employee..for example.. he makes sexual comments..he has given me a tight side hug..he gives me compliments ...

Can I get over his disgusting sexual past?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

1 September 2013 (F) - If opposites attract can they live a long happy married life together? I am in my 40s, my children are grown, my first marriage lasted almost 20 years. I met a man who's also in his 40s with two grown children. He has been married two times before. ...

Am I going to lose my husband to his female business partner?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

1 September 2013 (F) - I think my husband is in love with his female friend of 2 years. I think I should be worried. I check the phone bill and her number is almost the only one on it that he calls and he calls often. They talk for hours every day. This is strange becau...