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Love stories: Help and advice

Vacation Love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - First of all, it´s not a question, but just a comment about my situation, althought I accept comments... I´m Brazilian and I had been in South Africa in 2009 to study English for a few weeks. There, I met a guy and we became special friends....

My girlfriend has been going through a crisis in life and is unsure about her feelings for me. My life has come crashing down...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

23 April 2011 (M) - I am new to this forum and probably wouldn't have ever posted if it weren't for one of the most painful turn of events which might change my life forever. my girlfriend and I had been going steady since dec 2007. we were exact opposites...

It happens alot these days, I just wonder how you prevent it?

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23 April 2011 (F) - Why does love fade so easily after a couple of years? Why are relationships so hard to maintain these days? I have a boyfriend of 2 years, and we love each other a lot. We have our ups and downs, but we are mostly good. It scares me when I hear ...

Is it true or a hallucination?

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22 April 2011 (F) - So this guy i met a few months ago, on a ski trip , i want to make sure if he loves me or not. The way he talks to me is as if he loves me, but i still have doubts. He talks to me in so many different ways, but they all are so romantic. He texts me ...

Do you think it's possible to fall in love with someone you have been in a relationship with for 5 months?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I am interested in hearing other people's opinions on this- do you think it's possible to love someone you have been in a relationship with for 5 months? I have been with my boyfriend for this long but really feel like we have a strong connection. ...

Unrequited love since Kindergarten....she represents everything positive in this world that I could love!! How do I approach her with this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - This is one for the books. I've known this girl since Kindergarten. She was literally the first person I noticed when I walked into the classroom the first day. It was pretty much love at first site. I've had a crush on her ever since and she's kn...

Should I say yes to falling in love with my best friend ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - When I was in 7th grade, I laid my eyes on the most adorable guy in school, we didn't talk until 8th grade. Soon we became the best of friends, he would walk me home everyday after school, we were just little youngsters and at our 8th grade ...

I don't want to leave her, but I know if I give her a break, she will choose the wrong path and destroy her life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5000 days ago

16 April 2011 (M) - I am 18 years old and my gf is 16, we r going out for 3 yearz. we are in a long distance relationship but i often go to her country, i just visited her 1 month ago. I am insecure type a guy, i dont like her talking to other boys and i dont like her ...

I've fallen in love with an older female escort!

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16 April 2011 (M) - i have met a female escort and i started to love her how i can get her heart also she older than me not too much and i Believe that i got no snow ball chance in hell with her what can i do guys to know her feelings about me especial...

8 Golden rules!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - Hiyaaaa, Ever since I've join this amazing website which wasn't long ago, there is many question about relationships failures like cheating, no spark and all that so I've decided to come up with 8 Golden Rules on relationship! So here are my inte...

My LDR boyfriend wants to be "just friends"....and its killing me! I'm a mess...How do I deal with this right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Ok I wrote in before about my LDR bf getting super depressed suddenly about everything and losing all emotions etc. I need help again. He didnt come online last night but did tonight and he said he did some thinking and that he wants us to...

Do I deserve a girl who loves me as much as I love her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - Do I deserve a girl who loves me as much as I love her? Recently, I started to question myself whether I deserve a girl who loves me. I know I am young; I know I should focus on academics even though I am pretty good; I know teenage love is ...

What do you think about the potential of this relationship: should we try again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - The Relationship: We get along great. We have similar humor and personality. We enjoy the same TV shows and always had a pleasant, easy time together. But we didn't always have a lot to talk about or share a lot of common interests. We...

I transform when I'm with my parner into a better person. Will that better version stick?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - “Jack” and I have been dating for over two years. He’s my first. He’s intelligent, hard working, witty, and full of integrity. His knowledge surpasses mine, but we mesh well as a couple, filling in for what the other more or less “lacks”. We see ...

Trying to rekindle. We are giving homemade gifts. Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - My husband and I are going away for the weekend to try and rekindle the relationship. We would like to exchange a small token of our love for each other. However, we don't have a lot of extra money so we decided to do homemade gifts. Any ideas?...

Should I just forget him, or do you think my hoping won't be in vain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - It's been a year and a half since my ex and I broke up, and I'm still not over him. He was my first everything, first real boyfriend, first guy I had sex with, first love. The only reason we broke up was because he moved away to a different country. ...

I cannot forget my crushes and feel like a lost girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Hi there... Last december I went on vacation to mexico with my parents. I had a pretty good life back then, I was really happy and never thought I would ever have the problems I have now.... So when I got there, there was a Mexican animator who see...

I desperately want to see my long lost love, but my family will disapprove!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - i went to stay with family for a holiday where i met my cousin for the first time we were both 17. it was like love at first sight i tried to resist but i couldn't hold out. straight after i felt scared incase anyone found out. now 27 years late...

If love comes and goes is there any hope for two people wanting sustained long term love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - I read it all the time: "We were in love, but then I fell out of love." And then--poof!--the relationship ends. Love seems so fleeting. We get to know a person, the first few months or year are exciting. But then we tire of that person. Love fad...

I'm in love but he hasn't noticed. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - Hey!!! Am 18 and i'm in luv wit a 20 yr old guy, i told him but he seems like he never love me. What should i do?...

How can I stop obsessing over this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (?) - Hi friends...I need help... Please... Okay...so how can it be a coincidence all the time? There's this girl...who makes my heart jump, makes me crazy...in short my love... So the moment I forget her...how is that I see her in reality? She'...

I have fallen for my online friend. I don't think he feels the same. Should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - hi i am 22 years old and i finally met the guy i was talking to for over 2 years..we got to know each other online through a common friend,started as texting but then we started talking everyday!..and we finally met,he came down to my city for 3 ...

I'm scaring her by staring at her. What should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - Today, the girl I love suddenly asked me why do I always look at her and this scares her. She said all her friends have noticed that. Two days ago, I have sent her a goodbye letter and wanted to end our friendship since it is too much for me afte...

Fallen in love with "Best Bud" and he is leaving. Should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - i think i am falling for my bestbud.. it's been 2 years.. i started to care more than i should.. i dont want to lose him.. he is showing he cares for me.. jokes that he loves me.. i know he loves someone.. its so hard when what he is showing is ...

We were each other's first for everything and she broke it off. How do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of 4 1/2 years broke up with me about 6 weeks ago. She told me she didn't love me anymore. She started talking to a new guy almost right away, but every once in a while she text me or calls me and says she misses me or is thinking ...

With my dream girl, I don't want to get hurt again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Hi, i'm just here for some advice on a relationship i've just entered, though were not officially together yet, were basically seeing eachother. i've liked this girl for years and we've always been quite flirty with eachother but i had a girlfrie...

He's with someone new but still calling. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Question: My boyfriend, now my ex-boyfriend said during our relationship that i "scare the sh*t out of him." He said that he's not ready to settle down. But neither am i. I'm a nice girl, sweet, smart, and I've got my stuff together (good job, etc). ...

How do I repay him for all he's done for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - hey, right now i am sick. i have the flu and i've never been this sick before in my life. my bf is being soo sweet, like he's here everyday checking on me, and bringing me my school assignments. he makes me feel like a princess even when i ...

Is there any such thing as "I don't know why I love you but I love you"..??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 9 months told me yesterday that he doesn't know why he loves me but he loves me. Is there any such statement and does such exist. I can tell him 3 reasons why I love him but he can't? When I asked him what he menat. He said "It mean...

Can this impossible love happen? Is it true you should set them free if it is meant to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Well here it goes ... I have been seeing this man for 4 years .. We never talked about our relationship other than 95% non verbal negotiations and 5 % verbal negotiations. he has been honest so far even though he screws up almost but never hides ...

Should I give him the card I wrote telling him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Hello, there is this guy who has told that he has feelings for me in the past. the problem is that we don't talk to each other very often because it is kind of complicated. we don't talk to each other on a regular basis and we don't go out on dates ...

"Relationship crossroads:Approach of College"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - Alright This is going to be a bit of a long post, this is a big deal for me so try to bear with me through it. In September I started seeing a wonderful girl in the grade below me (shes a junior/I a senior), but of the same age as me (17, I'm v...

I have loved my Science teacher for years. I need to find a way to tell him (discretely).

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - just to give you a brief overview of the situation i was in year 8, young and naive, when i started to like my science teacher. he is rather attractive, i could go on for ages, but generally charming and funny. so naturally, i started to like ...

Discovered 'Mr. Perfect' is in the middle of a divorce, after I fell in love with him. Now I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I met a great guy some time ago and we started dating straight away. It was brilliant - we seemed to be completely on the same page. Alike enough to really like each other and alike in the most important ways but still so vastly different that ...

I love him so, but I'm scared of getting hurt. He is still friends with his ex's. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Iv'e currently been with my boyfriend for 4 months however we've been friends for two years. My problem is that I can't stop thinking about his ex girlfriends. I love him and I trust him. I just really don't know why they bother me so much. Maybe it...

He's everything to me, but he's not the serious kind. Should I continue trying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I am scared to let him into my life. However, my life has no purpose without him. Well, they say Jesus came to die for us. I think i was born to die for this man. i love him, however am getting worried that it might be running mad. He's not s...

Am I reading the signals wrong? Does he like me even though he has a GF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Ugh. This is awful. And a long one. Sorry, but I've been desperate to vent to people who won't spread this around my sixth form There's this guy on the badminton team at school who is the year above me and we've known each other for five years, a...

I don't want to ruin her chance for happiness, nor do I want to her slip through my fingers. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - Hey. I've recently (three/four months ago) been through a rather violent breakup. A number of factors led to this; her grandmother died and she took it out on everyone else, we fell distant.. you know. The major factor - one that we had kept fro...

I love the perfect guy...but he has a girlfriend!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - So , I may be young and naive , and people may tell me I don't know what love is yet or haven't experienced anything close to it , but how do they know , right? I have been working at a fast food place for a year or so now , part-time , while ...

I should have proposed sooner and now I am afraid I've lost her. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

2 April 2011 (M) - we have been together for nearly 3 years, we have a house and a dog together. For the few weeks I realised she was getting distant from me....I pointed this out and she said she loves me but not 'in love' with me. She says she doesnt know why or w...

It's complicated. Is my ex still in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - Hi there. Okay so I went out with this boy when I was 16 for 2 and a half years. We were each others first loves. Anyway things finished on a bad note and we lost contact for a while. However, we got back in contact later on. We became friends a...

Why do guys do this or is it just my guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - why do guys do this or is it just my guy? So im in a LDR and have been for 3 years, I Love him and we have met in real (incase anyone thinks we havent) and we get along much much better in real but anyways... Hes not much of a sentimental ...