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writes:Hi there. Okay so I went out with this boy when I was 16 for 2 and a half years. We were each others first loves. Anyway things finished on a bad note and we lost contact for a while. However, we got back in contact later on. We became friends and helped one and other through problems. He got kicked out his home and his Mum didn't want anything to do with him, and I supported him through it all. We had our ups and downs in the relationship, rumours spread that he cheated on me. We almost got back together, we were sorting things, however he soon got with a girl called T.T was a weird, obsessive girl. He told me she beat him and wanted his baby. He soon had enough and split with her. I got with a boy called T whom I'm still with now, and my ex told me he'd wait for me because he loves me. I said I'd moved on now and I wanted to be with T, so my ex told me to forget it.Anyway, lately he's moved into a flat near me. I'm having family problems so he offered me a place to stay which I accepted. He always says he likes me company. He's currently seeing a girl called J, but he still texts me saying I'm different from the rest. Last night he called me when he was drunk and I missed he, but he texted me this morning telling me he would have probably said he loved me because he is a 'drunken fool'. I don't get this. Why is he always texting me? And asking me to go round/stop at his, when everything turns out fine at home? He also doesn't like my boyfriend. Is my ex still in love with me?
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (2 April 2011):
He obviously isn't over you and I guess being in contact with you isn't helping. I mean, you two can't keep this middle term relationship. As you two seem very confused about what you really want. You should make up your mind. If you want to be together then leave your respective partners and try again. If you won't, then just cut all contact off.
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reader, Ima FreAk! +, writes (2 April 2011):
 Hiyaaa,I'm guessing so! I think the can't get over and wants your company.The best thing to do is that you shouldn't get your hopes up and just support him and be his friend because you got a boyfriend and he as a girlfriend and you don't wanna over complicate things, otherwise things that go tumbling down!By your description I can tell he is confused because he wants to be with you but he doesn't because he knows that you got a boyfriend and encourage him to get a girlfriend because that can take his mind off.Remember don't rely on his love because he MIGHT still be in love with you don't gloat and say yhh I got this guy if my love doesn't work out because things change!So support him and be in each other lives and it's always nice to get that company that makes you smile!Hope my advice helps!Good luck!Lots of love,Ima FreAk!x
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