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female
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30-35,
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writes:Iv'e currently been with my boyfriend for 4 months however we've been friends for two years. My problem is that I can't stop thinking about his ex girlfriends.I love him and I trust him. I just really don't know why they bother me so much. Maybe it is because he is my first sexual partner, where as he's had two. It feels like I'm constantly questioning him about them and it brings him down, in which, brings me down. We live together now (with my parents). He's still friends with both his ex's and visits where one of them works like once a month as he does have many friends there but it bothers me that she's there. His other ex works at his current job thus they see each other on a daily basis. He says he loves me and I believe him. I'm just terrified of getting hurt. As I have loved deeply before and just out of the blue my ex finished with me. this destroyed me and Im scared of pushing my current boyfriend away with all these questions. I deleted my ex off of my phone/ facebook etc. I just cant understand how he's still friends with his ex's. He too has a shady past. He used to flirt with many girls and meet up with them. (I read his previous messages) He also tells me he never loved either of his ex's. He thought he did at points. Yet on Facebook (when he was with his ex) he expresses his love to her and the same to the other when he was with her. Should I be worried? Am I being silly? My boyfriend, does absolutely nothing wrong, he's lovely, buys me surprise gifts, he tells me he loves me daily, he cheers me up. I'm completely in love with him just... so lost. I don't want to loose him. What do I do?
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reader, based51  +, writes (4 April 2011):
 Well he hasn't actually done you any wrongs here. His past is his past and what matters now is that he's with you. You should forget about these people and just enjoy your boyfriend. He isn't doing anything wrong, you're just letting your insecurities get in the way.
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