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writes:I am 18 years old and my gf is 16, we r going out for 3 yearz. we are in a long distance relationship but i often go to her country, i just visited her 1 month ago. I am insecure type a guy, i dont like her talking to other boys and i dont like her to smoke or to drink or to party too much but still i gave her all the permission but now she wants a break, she told me she wants to live her life have fun, she dont want to call soneone so often n doesnt wana be comitted or bound and she will come back after 2 yearz and she swear she wont cheat or go out with another guy. but I love her alot, we have physical contact if u know what i mean, but i know if i give her a break right now she will choose the wrong path and will destroy her life, just tell me what can i do ? how can i keep her stay with me ?
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reader, anonymous_jp  +, writes (16 April 2011):
if she chooses the wrong path and destroys her life it wont be your fault. you could try to guide her but its her choices in the end. check out "too late for roses" by august burns red. its about a girl who destroys her life. sickk song. ok so...advice: tell her you dont want a break because you love her too much but will do it for her if she needs it. (if youre willing to wait that is, but damn dude, 2 years?!)if she drinks, parties and smokes a lot then my impression is she has cheated. it really seems like you both want different things in this. dont think of it as a loss though if you break up, its only an opportunity for a more suited girl. good luck. remember, its only my opinion. also...if youre asking "how can i keep her stay with me ?", even though that sentence doesnt make sense, it means that its not even a relationship anymore. you cant ask that and expect someone to have faith in the relationship. seems dead to me. sorry bro.
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