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Archived questions from: June, 2015 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

How often should I talk about sex with my long distance girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - Hello friends, I am in a new relationship. ...I have been in a relationship before but this this time I am in a serious relationship. .We are this time in a distant relationship I want to know how often should I talk no about sex with her as she is ...

Long distance lover suddenly acts weirdly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - I love a woman in a long distance relationship. we met once in my country. everything was ok for last three years, until from recent times she started to behave weirdly. ok so the basic problem is, i cannot have sex with her while we met for just ...

Are my reactions to his actions enough to call me clingy and obsessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Am I being paranoid and clingy? My bf of over a year and I recently got into a long-distance situation. Getting used to the distance has put considerable strain on our relationship as he is more extroverted than I am. He's always been a bit of a ba...

Are my concerns justified ? He's joined the army and I'm worried that the army will change him and our relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Ok so I just got married to a guy I have been with for about three and a half years. I love him so much, he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He has just enlisted in the national guard/reserves and is currently in basic training...

What is the difference between Friends With Benefits and a Long Distance/ Casual Relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3389 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - What is the difference between Friends With Benefits and a Long Distance/ Casual Relationship? Call me old fashioned here - but from a woman's point of view - I cannot see how she can get anything from FWB without having some sort of feelings for...

How could he go from being the (I thought) love of my life to marrying another girl five months after we broke up and leave me when I was feeling vulnerable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

26 June 2015 (?) - Hi, I went through a terrible breakup in December. We were in a long distance relationship for 4.5 years at the time of breakup. Last year while I was finishing my masters I got placed at the first company that visited our campus (Top company in ...

Should I keep chatting with her and ask her out again when she's settled in uni?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

25 June 2015 (M) - OK . so Im a 24 year old guy, I recently went on a couple of dates, (first time in over 2 year). They both went realy well. How ever a couple of days before the 3rd date she sent me this "im not sure its a good idea , im not interestd in anyth...

Just got married to my LDR, and he's getting ready to relocate to me. While he wanted to visit in the process, I told him to stay put to save money. He took it personally!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I need your advice as a newlywed. Married my LDR boyfriend few mths ago and sldo expecting. He has not fully relocated due to things he has to take care of. He left 2wks after our wedding. Last week he hinted he wanted to come and spend a week wit...

Why does he not seem to care? Am I wrong to feel offended?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

20 June 2015 (F) - Hi people of DearCupid. I hope you can help me figure this out and I apologise in advance if I make typing mistakes or sound incoherent. I'm on my friends laptop so not used to the keyboard. I'm in a long-distance relationship, it's...

I've discouraged him in the past. But should I, or should I not continue to suppress my feeling, for B, again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3476 days ago

16 June 2015 (F) - Hi everyone :) I think I am only now realizing that maybe I like my friend more than just a friend. I have a friend (call him B) who I have known for around 5 years. He was one of my first friends when I moved to USA. We met in a community co...

He said he "was thinking about me while getting his lapdances,"and thinks it's not cheating. Should I give him another chance?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

15 June 2015 (F) - My bf, J (23) and I(25) are both military and have been together nearly 3 yrs, mostly long distance (we're 10 hrs apart now). At the start, we made boundaries for cheating. Since we're both jealous, we said kissing, flirting and all the various ...

I'm starting to feel like a side dish in this LDR. Am I being too controlling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3478 days ago

14 June 2015 (F) - I wonder what happened in our relationship. Has he changed or have I? We are in a Long Distance Relationship, but are able to see each other quite often. The first year we were together was pretty amazing. There was trust and love. We didn't ...

What is he really playing at? He says he's working there. I think he has had a baby with another woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

12 June 2015 (F) - Six month's ago I found a new fb page of my current bf, which said in a relationship with someone else, when I confronted him he denied it and removed the account saying his brother made it. Anyway I kept the girls name and every now and then I g...

Am I in love with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

10 June 2015 (M) - What began as curiosity, turned into a friendship. I joined a club in college in hopes that I would get to know her an I did. I fell for her while she had a boyfriend and it was hard. We remained friends throughout that, and whether or not she know...

I miss my best friend, but I'm afraid I'll never see her again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3484 days ago

8 June 2015 (F) - I need help my best friend moved 4-5 years ago now and I missed her I have vague memoiirys of her, we meet when I was in first grade and we were best friends forever soon she left to live with her sick grandma and now I live in the same state as she ...

If he truly loved me would he risk losing me while he's away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

8 June 2015 (F) - My on/off boyfriend and I have been through a lot the past 5 years. We are closer now than ever, support each other, have the same views etc. He is moving to NYC in a couple weeks, a long time dream of his. And I could not be happier for him, I w...

Should I end my relationship with my current boyfriend? I feel guilty that I still think of my ex every day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3484 days ago

8 June 2015 (F) - Just under a year and a half ago me and my ex broke up. I thought he was going to end things with me as he had stopped telling me he loved me, but this turned out not to be the case he was just struggling as we had gone into a long distance ...

My LDR boyfriend objects to me going alone with a guy to have coffee or see my new city!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

8 June 2015 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship for a few months now,my boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years,im in a new city and I have made a few local friends!one of the guy said hel show me around we could have coffee and it sounds good to ...

I'm afraid he'll never feel ready for anything more than dating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

7 June 2015 (F) - The problem I'm having could be easily summed up as "I want to move in together but he doesen't". I don't know, I love that guy, he's the best thing that's ever happened to me, but I'm afraid he'll never feel ready for anything more than dating. ...

What is the solution? Jealousy is already making me want to run for the hills

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

7 June 2015 (F) - I have a major problem with jealousy. It only happens once I've developed feelings for a guy. At the start everything is fine and we act like our selves but as soon as I have feelings for him, the same things he would have been doing before e...

How can we keep things going between us now that we will be a different schools?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3486 days ago

6 June 2015 (F) - Hi I'm 14 and currently in a relationship with a guy for the third time. The last time we dated we were together for almost four months and recently he told me that he regretted the decision to break up with me. When he apologized he so...

Is there any point in trying for long- distance? Or can we offer a future promise to each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

5 June 2015 (F) - Extremely in love with a guy who was here for work. We've been together for a year. He leaves for his home country soon, as well as to complete his studies. I am thinking of discussing long-distance with him seriously, yet will there be a point...

I now know he lied to me about his ex, in order to break up with her, and be with me and it concerns me. Should I listen to my heart over this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

5 June 2015 (F) - I'm not sure how to handle the situation I'm in. My boyfriend and I are in a LDR and have been together about 2 years. We have plans to be engaged next year and move in together. However, there's something in my heart that I'm not able to let g...

I'm not over him. How do I get on with my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3488 days ago

4 June 2015 (F) - I was dating a guy and I got completely involved in him. We started dating in 2011. It was a long distance relationship. In the beginning I thought it would not work but I have no idea how hard I fall for him as the time passed by. We used to talk ...

I want to know if my girlfriend's actions are normal, or if I am over reacting

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

4 June 2015 (M) - So i have been in a relationship for 8 years with this girl who is now heading to another country for her post graduate. She is super excited but is also acting super weird about it. She started stalking guys who will be in her batch, and tells...

Is it normal to second guess yourself about a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2185 days ago

4 June 2015 (F) - Over the last few years, I've grown closer to one of my long distance guy friends. Our friendship started heading towards dating but at the end of last year, he expressed reluctance to upgrading this because he thought we were too different. I was ...

Sad and jealous about my LDR

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3469 days ago

3 June 2015 (F) - How can I stop feeling sad and jealous? Ok so there is a guy I really like but it's long distance. We can only speak 2/3 times a week. I am seeing him again in around 6 weeks and I think he really likes me too so I am hopefully going to tell ...

Am I over analysing our LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3490 days ago

2 June 2015 (F) - I started talking to this guy nearly a year ago. I liked him from the first moment we started talking (through Facebook due to mutual friends). We talk every single day and are very affectionate to each other. I have no doubt in my mind that he ...

I'm knackered. How can I get him to slow down? LDR but I can hardly keep up with his lifestyle

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1212 days ago

1 June 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a long distance relationship for three months. We met on the internet and I'm 32, he is 30. We really like him and have a great time together. It has taken me a long time to find a guy I have shared interests with an...

LDR and I've discovered he called his ex to take him to hospital. Should I just let it go as he suggested? Or what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3491 days ago

1 June 2015 (F) - I am in a LDR. We've been together for about 2 years. Recently I found out that about six months into our relationship, my boyfriend had food poisoning and had to go to the ER. He called up his ex girlfriend who lived about an hour away from him...