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Archived questions from: July, 2014 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Am I overreacting or is he just not that into me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. I feel like he’s just not that into me. He’s been in florida for over 2 weeks now, but I’m always the one calling/texting him. This isn’t the first time that this has happened. He goes down to Florida to ...

I'm in a relationship but it's not feeling like one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

29 July 2014 (F) - When we first went out 3 years ago, everything was perfect. He tried his best to do what ever he can just to make me happy but because I don't mind anything and he kind of stopped doing because he said I don't really mind anything he does and I'm ...

How do I reassure him that I'm here for him but not trying to make him get back together? He broke up with me out of the blue so that's why I'm here this week!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Me and my 1.5 year bf just broke up last week. It came out of the blue. We were in a long distance for about 9 months. We always texted each other and try to make skype call everyday. About 2 months ago I suggested him that he should move back...

I'm missing him so much I'm feeling low, how do I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over two years. Its going brilliantly! I love him to pieces! We just get along so well! Anyway since we got together weve both maintained some independence. He loves to write and is often working at home or away on ...

I need advice, I'm worried about her, our long distance relationship, and I miss her all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3796 days ago

27 July 2014 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have crush on each other for 5 years since high school but didnt know then. And now in a relationship for one n half year. Actually we were in the same little hometown so it was all okay if we didnt see each other much. But now ...

I have to tell him I am moving, but I'm worried he might see it as a big complication!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - I apologise in advance for the long post. I've been dating this guy for about a month now, and things seem to be working out fine. We haven't yet defined what the relationship is, and I'm afraid of asking, because I don't want to seem desperat...

LDR issues: Don't want to lose him, but things are moving too fast

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3802 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - How can I help to make this LDR work? I met a guy a month ago and he moved too fast with his feelings. I hesitated to date him at first because I have tried two LDRs that failed because the first one I wasn't really in love and the second one basi...

Is it worth trying to make a LDR work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3804 days ago

23 July 2014 (M) - So I have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. She is now a senior in high school and I am going to be a freshman in college. Our relationahip is as amazing as it could be and I love her with all that I got. We have been having numerous talks ...

We broke up but I still feel like I should tell him I went out for drinks

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship for almost a year. He and I had several problems throughout the relationship, initially about opening up and then trust issues towards the end. In the beginning after a month or so of dating he was demanding...

Should I hope for the best? Or allow my insecurity about my breasts be enough to put me off being intimate with a partner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3805 days ago

20 July 2014 (F) - I recently got into a long distance relationship with an exceptionally charming man. We have made plans to meet in future but I am afraid of getting intimate for one reason: my breasts. I know it sounds silly, but I am very self conscious about ...

I'm older now so how and where should I meet this guy I used to talk to online? What's a way to make it safe and get to know him better in person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

18 July 2014 (F) - Hello everybody. Hope we are all well! A quick question really, if anyone is able to let me know their opinions? Right, I'll try and keep this as short as I can. Basically, a few years ago I did meet a guy online. We hit it off, yeah, bu...

Should I give it time to develop? I feel confused about my Online long distance friend. I really like her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

18 July 2014 (M) - Hi everyone Sorry, new to this site so not exactly sure how it works but I'll just ask away. Well basically I'm in a sort of confusing position with this girl who is my best friend. She's from Taiwan and we've been talking (online) for at ...

Why would my sexy sext stranger mention marriage, of all things?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

17 July 2014 (F) - A guy I met online (from far faaar away) and I have been texting/sexting for about 2 and a 1/2 weeks now. I'm new to sexting and find that I'm enjoying it immensly - we seem to be very compatible. However I don't expect anything more of this. It's ...

What should I do? I have a tight family and this sort of falling out will be a huge deal but I'm also not going to give up on someone because of someone elses problem

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3810 days ago

16 July 2014 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship on and off for two years and although im not sure what our future holds, on a day to day level we care for each other and we have fun. We recently split for a few months as the distance was tough and ...

Should I break off my engagement to my LDR? Concerned about so many issues.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3810 days ago

15 July 2014 (F) - Should I break off my engagement? I'm engaged and I love my fiance-he has a lot of wonderful qualities-honest, loving, caring, etc. I do feel like I am taking on perhaps too much baggage to be with him and I am concerned about how our future w...

I think she might try to initmidate me when we meet!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

15 July 2014 (F) - I have recently moved to live with my long distance boyfriend. In a few days time I'll be meeting one of his female friends. I get the feeling that this girl has become used to being adored by all her male friends and may not appreciate me taking ...

Is it salvageable? If yes, then how do I salvage my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

14 July 2014 (F) - Hi, I am a 28 years old woman, I met this guy online (he's 38), we are living in different country. I was in a relationship when he first contacted me, but only told him that when i was about to break up with my ex. After 6 months I came to ...

Going the distance. Can love become friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

14 July 2014 (F) - Our 3-month relationship has been going great. It's been rather serious, too — given that I've met his mother on several occasions, such as dinner and coffee. But in a month I will go to France on exchange and he will go to England for Masters. ...

Is it wrong of me to still be upset about this one night occurrence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

14 July 2014 (F) - A few months ago, my boyfriend of 5 years went out with some friends before his best friends military deployment. Rather than going to a bar, as he told me, the guys instead went to a strip club. My boyfriend was the designated driver for the night, ...

I get the silent treatment every time we have an argument!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

12 July 2014 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship with a very passive aggressive man. We've been together for 2 years. We had a small argument 2 weeks ago, and i did apologize to him the next day telling him that i'm going through a lot of stress l...

He says he wants me in his life, but also says he doesn't know what love is!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

11 July 2014 (F) - hi, i have been in a relationship from 8 months. he keeps me happy, he is caring, responsible and loving at the same time. From one month back we are in long distance and meet each other after 15 days approx. Now he says "I have the same feelings ...

Has he left me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

10 July 2014 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for nine years. it is a long distance relationship but we have managed to make it work. recently he had to go to another country to visit his family. he told me how long he would be there for and when he is ...

LDR - so why doesn't he tell his family and friends that we're dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

9 July 2014 (F) - I've been dating someone, long distance, for about a year though I've been talking to him and we've been good friends for around 5. I met him through another friend. I love him and think he's absolutely amazing, so my entire family and close...

How long to withold sex in a LDR when you meet your significant other?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

9 July 2014 (F) - I just met a guy through a mutual friend here in the states that I really like but he lives in Europe. We have been chatting everyday both on the phone and all other messaging means. He really likes me as a matter of face he loves me and claims I am ...

My B/f waits for me to fall asleep after sex and then proceeds to masturbate!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

8 July 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a one year long distance relationship with my boyfriend we love about six hours away and we see each other about once every two months. Whenever we have sex he later waits for me to fall asleep and then proceeds to mastu...

My LDR boyfriend has become a playboy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

7 July 2014 (F) - hii people plz help me out i m girl of 20 years in a ldr for about 2 years ..this is my problem 1) my bf attitude changed recently he is asking me to flirt with guys i feel terrible d it is totally not my wish 2) he has changed a lot ...eg befo...

LDR is getting me down because I want to be with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

5 July 2014 (F) - I have been in a LDR relationship for a year. I know that I truly love him and I haven't got any doubts about my feelings for him but I'm starting to question whether this relationship works. He has gone away to another continent to do this ...

We broke up but are talking and I don't know how he feels about me now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3820 days ago

5 July 2014 (F) - Okay, ive been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years and it's mostly been online. That's how we met. We live 4 hours apart we don't meet that often. He's been my first relationship and I actually can say with confidence I love him! i wo...

Went through my LDR's phone and found evidence that suggests she cheated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

1 July 2014 (M) - Hello dear Cupid and agony aunts. It's been awhile since I asked for help Here's the thing, I've been dating this girl for about 3 months, and we have known each other for 5 years. I love her, and have a connection to her I've never felt befor...