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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Okay, ive been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years and it's mostly been online. That's how we met. We live 4 hours apart we don't meet that often. He's been my first relationship and I actually can say with confidence I love him! i wouldnt say we had the best relationship as alot of trust was needed and id constantly lose it by doing little things like talking to a guy which i think is normal, but to him that was a crime and he would say hes leaving me ect so i have to beg him back and really commit. Yes he was a controlling freak but i love him?? recently a week ago we just broke up and we hated each other but out of the blue we started texting each other again just as friends but i'm starting to gain feelings again and i don't know if he feels the same as i know hes talking to alot of people what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2014): Seems to me your to young to be spending so much time on a relationship that is mostly on line. I would make a clean break and do more things for yourself in the " real" world. Find some new hobbies and interests and get out there and meet someone who isn't a control freak and you can build a calmer, healthier future with. If you want to remain in touch with your ex as friends then do so, but don't let him distract you from having and getting on with enjoying and living life, find out who you are and what you want while your still young and free enough to do so.
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