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writes:I recently got into a long distance relationship with an exceptionally charming man. We have made plans to meet in future but I am afraid of getting intimate for one reason: my breasts. I know it sounds silly, but I am very self conscious about them.Currently, I wear a 32C/34C depending on make, and I feel this is a decent size. I don't have natural cleavage, but this is easily fixed with a good push-up. The problem is that once I take my bra off, they aren't round anymore. They just seem kinda undeveloped/pointy, even though they are a C. I also have an issue with my nipples in that they are kinda soft and puffy unless they are stimulated.My partner already told me that he prefers breasts on the smaller side so I'm not worried about that. What I'm worried about is what he will think about the shape of them if he was to take my bra off. Are there any ways to make breasts appear rounder (without a bra) without turning to surgery? Or should I just hope for the best that he will not be put off by them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2014): It sounds like you have tubular breasts. Google it. I had them, although was much smaller with my A cup. And mine looked more round when my nipples were cold or aroused. No man I was ever with commented about them or made me feel bad but I was very self conscious about them. And the size too.
I had implants about 10 years ago. I'm not telling you to do this but mine are now round and larger. The cosmetic surgeon was able to do something with the constricted tissue when he put in the implants.
Again, I am not pushing you to have plastic surgery. Any man who cares about you won't care one bit.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (22 July 2014):
 Men love breasts. Theres not much else to say. Ive never in ny life heard of a man complaining. Once you take your bra off they're lost. Boooobs. Not much else to say, really. You have absolutely no reason to worry.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (21 July 2014):
 I think you are overthinking it.
Don't forget when you stand your boobs look one way, when you lie down another.
There is no cookie cutter mold for boobs that EVERY woman has to fit.
He will be perfectly happy with what you got. If he isn't, then well, he isn't a keeper.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 July 2014):
 I have had breast reconstructive surgery... Natural breasts droop... even mine do now.... it's normal and natural
cleavage is made by a good bra (according to my plastic surgeon)
I think you are worrying about stuff that doesn't really matter.
women and their breasts come in all shapes and sizes...
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (21 July 2014):
 He won't mind. Trust me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2014): Plenty if not all women have differing shapes and sizes. You sound like you're perfectly normal, and he will absolutely love it. If you two really like eachother, I doubt what's under your shirt will get in the way of your hearts. Best wishes to you both.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 July 2014):
I honestly don't think you need to worry in the slightest. You sound like a totally normal woman to me. And from a male point of view, this is not the sort of thing we notice (especially when the woman we like is naked in front of us - our mind is usually elsewhere)
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