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Archived questions from: April, 2012 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

We are in a LDR relationship but never met, how do we talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship for 15 months now. We are in different countries and have never met yet. Lately, I've noticed that things arent what they used to be. Earlier we couldnt stop talking, now its like sometimes we run out of ...

How can I inspire my LDR to drink less?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - I love my girlfriend and she makes me happy but we are in a long distance relationship but we have started reasoning (not fighting) a lot lately. My problem with her is she drinks more than most girls and even more than me. She lives in a small town ...

Why isn't he excited anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I have been talking to this Spanish guy on Skype for six months now. We met on a random chat site but we video chated so I've seen him on camera. We always have good conversations, despite the language barrier. He always tells me how beautiful I am ...

How do I tell this person whom I love and care for and WANT as a major part of my life, that I'm having doubts about it right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and have a great relationship (given that every relationship has ups and downs at some point). I honestly believe that he is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with and we've ...

His move will cause us to be apart. Why is he acting like the change is my fault?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - This is complicated and for length I may have left important parts out, so bear with me. Basically my boyfriend got a job in a city. I do not want to live in the city and he is giving me an ultimatum that either I move there with him or he'll break ...

I am in a relationship with a momma's boy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I am dating a momma's boy?Help me understand please!? Hello everyone, My boyfriend and I are doing longdistance relationship,i really love him a lot,and i think he loves me too.a little bit of background,we first dated 5 years ago( i was 17 at that...

Are all women paranoid, especially when they are in a LDR?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - do all women get paronoid, thats what my boyfriend of nearly 3 years called me last night on the net, which upset me, but hes right, its LDR and we are due to move in together soon cause the distance is getting to us a bit more now, been loyal ...

My LDR isn't very available, and I've met a new crush online

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - Long story short: I'm in a LDR, we dont see each other often and I feel like he doesnt give me the time I need (on the phone, video chat etc) he's always tired from work or going out with friends. I tried and did my best to talk to him about that ...

He's depressed and never responds to my emails or texts, and never answers the phone. How do I deal with my irritated feelings over this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend recently 'went' back to the east coast where he's from, and there's no certainty if he will come back, or when. All of his stuff is still over here with me... but I can easily see him decide to stay over there and have all his stuf...

Our outlooks are different. I already have a Bf. So why an I crushing on this very different guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I am very confused. Something very strange is happening to me, and I really need an explanation. I met someone that I have been talking to..l will call him X X and me used to work together and were always good friends, he moved to another...

He wants to go on a holiday to meet other people, I don't think I will enjoy this as we are travelling as a couple!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I'm in a long-distance relationship. I'm in the singapore, he's in the united kingdom. We've been together for over 8 months and we talked on skype everyday on the phone. recently he just got went here to have holiday with me over a month we enjoy ...

I'm so horny but I plan on keeping my virginity until marriage with my LDR!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I m a virgin and i decided to stay virgin ntil marriage and my bf respects that. im 20 btw and he s 25. we live really far from each other, we only talk on the phone and we videochat everyday. the thing is sometimes i feel so hornyyy and whenever ...

Am I ruining my reputation by dating foreign exchange students? Or am I overthinking things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I'm a college student who dated a foreign exchange student a couple years ago, and now I'm dating another one. Although my bf and ex have different mutual friends, I'm concerned about my reputation. I don't want people to think I only have non-co...

How do I convince him? we are in a long distance relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - Well, there is this guy I really like (and have for quite a long time) and turns out, he likes me back. But thing is, we're already living in different cities (he's studying at university in the capital, and I'm still at school), and as I'm ...

His version of playing slow is to never text or call and I'm wondering why he wanted to come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - My ex split up with me in January after 1 1/2 years, and living together. We hit a rough patch for a couple of months but other then that we were very much in love, his reason he decided he didn't love me anymore. He came back from the states ...

He distant, is our relationship ending?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - I feel like I'm losing my boyfriend :( We've been together 2 years, and I'm going away for college in 2 months, so we'll be in an LDR. He's been distant the past week, (even forgetting our 2 year anniversary) and I just get this vibe that it's a s...

I'm afraid my LDR boyfriend could be texting other girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

21 April 2012 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy i met online. We met a few times and we get on like a house on fire. The thing is because its happened me alot I'm afraid he might be texting other girls. like he said he isn't but look how he met me. ...

Should I go to Vegas and have fun with this guy who is a bit of a player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 April 2012 (F) - I was hoping for some advice on a trip I may or may not go on. So here it goes. Like 3 years ago me and my then bestie was on holiday in las Vegas, I am from the uk and this was like the trip of all trips. I was crazy. I meet 3 guys and one do them ...

I'm overweight and meeting my LDR boyfriend for the first time, how do I prepare myself for rejection?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

16 April 2012 (F) - I've been in an LDR for about 6 months and next month, he's coming to my country to meet me. I'm very fat and from the very beginning, I made sure he knew that. I mentioned it and even sent him full-length photographs so that he knew exactly how I ...

My Russian boyfriend is becoming really insecure and wants me to move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 April 2012 (F) - I'm Irish and in a long distant relationship with a russian man . I'm 29 and he is 37 . I met him in Russia it was love at first sight and we are together 2 years . I go to Russia quite regualrly and he comes to ireland howver he thinks it is time ...

I told I'm pregnant, he said "I'll talk to you tomorrow, I don't want to say the wrong thing right now" what does that mean?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

13 April 2012 (F) - Hello, Men! I need your advice, ladies your welcome to opinions as well. I've been dating a man long distance, known him for a year, dating for 5 months, we are not in a committed relationship but we do go and visit each other every 2 months, we ...

Should I go after this girl who lives far away from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

10 April 2012 (M) - right now I don't know if I'm doing the right thing. I like this girl, I have a huge crush on her, we talked on tumblr (a social networking site) and I told her how I feel about her but she just politely told me that she only wanted to be friends as ...

Should I just stop talking to him? Or am I being unfair that way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

10 April 2012 (F) - Hello! I need some suggestions... But I gotta tell my story first and I guess it's quite long. Well... First of all, my boyfriend and I met on the internet. We're from different countries and don't see each other too often, but if we meet then it's ...

Why did he leave me when things were going so well?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

10 April 2012 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I were in a long distance relationship for over 2 months but still saw each other every weekend and talked lots during the day by txt, phone, facebook and were really close and happy. He treated me like a princess and I treated ...

Are we having to much telefonsex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

9 April 2012 (F) - Uhm ... Hello. This question is a bit embarassing for me but uhm ... yeah. My boyfriend and me are having a long-distance-relationship so we don't see each other very often but we are telephoning and chatting all the time. Two months ago we start...

I really love him and want to be with him but I haven't been able to ignore that online situation that he has going on, which I've tried so far.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

7 April 2012 (F) - I have to make a final decision and was wondering if I can get some opinions/advice here. My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year 5 months. Well, I recently (December) found out that he's been having an online relationship wit...

Is my LDR committed or am I falling for him too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

7 April 2012 (F) - I'm in a long-distance relationship. I'm in the US, he's in the UK. We've been together for over 10 months and in the course of that time we've only shown each other a photo, and as of recently started texting each other. We met online, and have ...

Should I be worried about his meaning? He said "you better be worth seeing" randomly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 April 2012 (F) - Hey guys. My boyfriend said some thing last night and its bugging me, i dont know what he ment by it. He said "you better be worth seeing" randomly. Then i said what? And then he just completly changed the topic. We been togather for almost a yea...

I feel guilty dumping my Facebook/Long Distance friend. So should I go back and say sorry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

7 April 2012 (F) - I met a girl in facebook and she became my girlfriend for one(1) year. It was a long distance relationship and she lives 8-12 hours away from me. We only met around 4 or 5 times throughout our relationship and per meeting, I stayed at their house ...

He's ignoring me because he doesn't see any future for our relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

6 April 2012 (F) - hello.i m a grl of 18.i met a guy on fb.he is of24.i m an indian nd he is pakistani.we were initially good frnds.we chat daily on fb for hours nd hours.after somedays i came to know dat i love him nd cant live widout him.i was on his ...

Was planning to move to be with my LDR, then found him on a dating site?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

5 April 2012 (F) - Help !!!! in a serious long distance relationship, we communicate daily,have plans of moving together, with me making the relocation,and found that my man is on a site, lied abt his age and seeking younger women..he last logged in today...in our ...

Should I send them my number?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

2 April 2012 (F) - Okay. Let me start by saying i got this two friends ive made on the internet social network. We have been sharing texts for a year and 3 months now. One of them is male and the other one is a female. We are both from different countries. Today they ...

Should I leave my long distance relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 April 2012 (F) - Me and my partner were set up by my sister and his best friend. We hit it off straight away. He lives 2 and a half hours away from me and we just chatted for hours everyday online then met a week later. We got along really well and wanted the same ...

How can we get to see each other despite the distance without our parents knowing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

2 April 2012 (F) - In January I had to move schools to the town over. When I was there I became friends with this guy and we started dating March 8th then on March 12th I had to move back to the school I was at before. He was my first love and I was his we broke up ...

I'm flying to meet my LDR fiance in three days and he has said he doesn't love me anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 April 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 years old and I've been in a LDR with my german fiance (who's one month older than me) for 1 year and 5 months. We met for 3 times and spent one full week+2 weekends together in total. We were both virgins when we met but that changed. ...