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Archived questions from: September, 2006 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Chatted on MSN for ages, I want to meet up, but we are 2 days away from each other!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - For about 6 months I have been chating to a guy I met online. We have talked on line through msn instant messenger as well as through our phones. I am 17 and he is 19. I have also seen him on web cam so I KNOW he isn't some old pedaphile. We hav...

We are both from different religions we love each other we are in different countries! Whats the solution to be together ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - Dear whoever is reading this. This is hard for me because usually i advice people but i am blind to my own problem. or to the sollution anyway. I know i am in love and i know the person i love loves me too. i mean even when we are asleep if someon...

Other peoples negativity towards my long distance and age gap relationship is driving me insane!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

30 September 2006 (M) - Hi, I think this is more of a personal problem than a relationship one, though it deals with a relationship. Without going into specifics, I'm in an LDR and age gap relationship. The age gap is relatively small (less than 8 years) but since I'...

My BF will go in the army for 6 months, Im worried for him and myself!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6307 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - Hey everyone Im really in need of dome help here My bf is in the army and due to do 6 months in iraq Im terrified. Not only for him but (and i know this sounds selfish but myself) How do i cope without him Its not like i wanna see him every d...

She's a totally different person since she's left for school

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6669 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend is away at school, and we don't get to see each other that much, only a couple times a month. It seems to me she's distant at times, never returning my calls or AIMs, but she always has time to go out with her roommates to shop, party, ...

Is she having second thoughts about us ? Cant understand why all of a sudden she is so distant ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6668 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - My girl is giving me the cold shoulder, why? We have been dating for three months, and things have progressed very fast. We both agreed that the way it was going was fine. I'll be honest, I fell in love with her and we have already been talking ...

I dont want my bf to think my life revolves around him. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - hey My bf and i are long distance at the min, for about another month. We text quite a bit and when my phone buzzes and shows his name i feel so great i cant describe it. Firstly i worry that i might text him too much Although he somet...

how do I liven my texting up for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - hi everyone Im feeling a bit sad and emotional at the moment as my boyfriend is away for a month with work To keep in contact we mainly text and I need some advice/tips on how to keep going on this. It seems like I send the same ...

I feel second best

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6670 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Pleasssssssssssssseeeeeeeee help me! My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 6 months. I am very much in love with him and he tells me he loves me all the time. But here is the problem: sometimes I feel like he just tells me that because I ...

My bf is off to Oz, for 2 montsh he wants to break up, as doesnt feel we will last, I dont and want to try!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (?) - My boyfriend is goin to Australia for 2 months on friday week and thinks it would be better if we broke up as it would be too hard on us to try and continue our relationship with the distance between us. I don't want do that and would be willig to ...

My boyfriend is away, how can I keep our relationship alive whilst hes away ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

Im married and work over seas, Ive fallen for someone else and am thinking of divorce, but feel pity for my child, what should I do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - I am a married guy working overseas away from my wife and kid. I met a girl who at first was my best friend but we eventually became lovers despite the fact I am already committed (she knows). I am suddenly thinking of divorce but I feel pity to my ...

My bf works away and I get mad if he doesn't text. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6670 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Hi Im gonna sound like such a bad gf but here goes My bf works in the working away for a few months Obv working (never the same hours two days running) is a good reason that he can not reply to my texts all the time and i understand this (when...

My bf takes me for granted, been long distance for 2 years but will soon be together, will things get better ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6669 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been doing long distance for 2 years but together for 4 years. I just feel like he takes me for granted and doesn't show his feelings. I know that this may be a typical guy but I've tried to talk to him about this at least ...

Should I keep seeing my Army man who may be marrying his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6670 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - i was seeing a guy on and off for 2 years. he is in the army so he travelled quite a bit. he knows i fell in love with him. i havent seen him for 13 months now, but he is back in my city for a month or so. he told me about 6 months ago that his ex ...

How can I respond to a letter from a girl? I don't want to bore her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

25 September 2006 (M) - A girl has wrote a letter for me. It was really long and enjoyed reading it... the thing is i have to write back now and i have never writen a letter before - and i don't want to write anything that she will find boring! i like this girl and i think ...

My boyfriend is away for a month. How do I cope without seeing him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6671 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - i am missin my bf so much He is away for just over a month and I kinda feel like my life has stopped I feel like i have tried everything hypnosis taking classes going out with friends the works but i still feel low and emotional People around ...

Does anyone else here find long distance relationships really hard and depressing??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - Does anyone else here find long distance relationships really hard?? And depressing?? I usually see my boyfriend once a fortnight, but he couldnt make it this weekend for what I thought was a pretty stupid, unimpressive reason. We were going to go...

I miss my boyfriend so much, I dont think I can cope. It hurts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - Hey guys Any advice on how to cope with the fact that i miss my bf so much when he is away with work I know it sounds silly but i miss him ssssssssoooooooooo much it actually hurts I have never felt like this before Please help guys ...

Why can't my ex tell me why he is snubbing me in this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6672 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - my ex boyfriend lives in australia, but when he left he said he'll only be gone 4 a year and he'll neva fall in love with anyone else or sleep with anyone else (i didnt believe this as he is a guy) But 4 the first couple of monthes he was calling me ...

Torn between two guys and I am so confused, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - This is a long story so bear with me. Basically, I was dating a guy for almost three years and we broke up because he wasn't sure he saw a future with me, we were different, stuff like that. So I picked up and moved out to San Diego and was having ...

His departure has taken a big toll on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about a year and a half now and he's always been more into me than I was into him. He treats me with so much respect and love and I don't know why but I sometimes find it hard to tell him I love him. I do love him to ...

Should I wait 9 months to tell the guy how I feel, or should I be saying, "hit the road Jack" and dating other guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

23 September 2006 (F) - Hello, Just looking for advice. Okay...so, I'm seventeen years old and a senior in high school. And I've developed some serious feelings for one of my very good guy friends, Jack. Problem is, he lives a bit far away at the moment, and the next...

I cheated on my husband of 14 years with his best friend. He stayed with me but now I have met someone else. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6674 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - I have a a problem and don't know what to do about it I have been married for 14 years and have children, I fell in love with my husband's heart he is so giving and wanted to take care of me I was not physically attracted to him physically, but he ...

Whilst on holiday, I met a wonderful guy, then had to come back home to my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6674 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Hiya, Im 19 and I've been in a realtionship now for over 3 years with a guy. He is nice but he has strayed before in the past so im finding it difficult to trust him. He tries to make decisions for me. He does try to control me. I know that he lov...

In a long distance relationship for 3 years, he went awol for 3 months, but said he loved me, then when he came online he ignored me!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - I've been in an long distance online relationship with this guy for 3 years and we would talk practically everyday and alot on the phone. everything was completely fine until all of a sudden he just hasn't come online anymore for nearly 3 months ...

He's at school, and he said he'd call me back but he didn't

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6675 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - I could really use some advice. I recently told my ex that I miss him and that I still really care about him. He wrote back and told me he feels the same way. He even mentioned that he doesn't want to nor has dated any1 since me. He also said he'd ...

He is seeing her again, but I still miss him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Hi, So me and my ex boyfriend have been on and off for about the past 2 1/2 years. We are both in college, but 1000 miles apart, and the distance is the reason for the on and off. The reason why we first broke up was because he was cheating...

I hate college and want to go back to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - I've started college after a 2 month relationship with my bf through the holidays, and things are really difficult. I hate college so much that I would walk right out of that door if i didn't know that I wouldn't be able to get a job without these ...

I'm just missing him so so much

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend has gone away with work He will be gone for a month. I text him everyday and sometimes talk to him on the phone but im so over emotional. I feel so sad and upset. I just want to cry. I know he is coming back and I shouldnt be so s...

Do long distance relationships ever work ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6677 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - hey i need help big style, im still not really over my ex and i need 2 b i think about him every day and we split up cause his lil boy died and went bk 2 his ex!! anyways i have met loads of new guys jus dont feel like goin out with them as i am ...

I am extremely nervous to go visit my Boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - This is going to sound like a daft question as its not totally about help with my bf but here goes. I really like my bf but he travels a lot Im due to go and visit him while he is away but am extreemly nervous as I have never spent a few nigh...

I think my mum is having an affair

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I think my mum is having an affair. About 5 or 6 years ago, whilst taking my younger brother to school, my mum met this man whose son was in the class as my brother. They got talking, and my mum was having problems with her computers, this man ...

He says he glad I contacted but He won't answer my calls now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6676 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I met a man 13 years older than myself 3yrs ago. We dated for 6mths until I moved across country. The only reason we quit seeing each other was because I moved. We seemed great together and I fell in love with him. We kept in touch but not often. ...

We love each other but all we do now is argue

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating now for 10 months and he just recently moved away for college and now all we seem to do is argue and treat each other horrible.. we both love eachother alot and want things to work out but i feel that i cant find ...

I only use the pill when I see him, could I get pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6677 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - okay here's my question, I really hope that someone has any advice for me. Me and my fiancee are in a long distance relationship. I was on the pill last time I saw him (mid august) but messed up on it a couple times while visiting(time change, only ...

5 years of long distance is taking its toll because I now have feelings for someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6678 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - I have been in a long distance relationship for about 5 years. I see my girlfriend on the weekends, and we both love each other very much. Recently my girlfriend was away for a few months, and while she was gone I developed feelings for som...

I gave up partying as I was committed to her, she however hasnt, I dont feel this is right advice please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are in a commitment relationship and currently living apart, in a long distance relationship. I stopped drinking and partying for us, changing over to a new leaf of life so to speak. However she continues to drink and party and ...

She's going to Uni and I feel like I'm loosing her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6679 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been seeing eachother for just over a month and a half now. she is all i eva wanted in a girl. we have been close for a couple of years but nuthin has happened til now. she is shortly going away to university in leicester ...

I think that she likes me also

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6679 days ago

16 September 2006 (M) - I need some advice, I met a girl on a trip in france a few weeks ago, she was part of the group I was with. This girl is absolutely wonderful, she is pretty, funny and an absolute sweetheart. I think that she likes me also. we got on really well o...

How do i cope with a long distance marriage? I don't feel missed very much. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6680 days ago

16 September 2006 (M) - How do i cope with a longdistance marriage? Well ive only been married for about a year 1/2 now and we have a 18months daugther. The problems i have is this is the first time my whole family have been separated and its affecting my marriage with...

In a long distance relationship-what do you do about your sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6680 days ago

16 September 2006 (M) - In a long distance relationship. What do you do about your sex drive?...

Had a long distance relationship for many years, it ended, then he got back in touch asked to get back just so he could have sex!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6680 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - I was in a long-distance realtionship for many years. I fell madly in love with this guy, but sadly it was an on/off affair, due to his lack of commitment,distance etc. He did tell me he loved me, but we split earlier in the year because I found him ...

How do we know if we are really compatible after living apart for so long ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6681 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - I have been in a long distance relationship for many years and we are considering getting married. We have never lived in the same city and will not be able to do so until maybe a couple of years after tying the knot. We would like to get married ...

I really love my girlfriend, but ended up kissing another girl!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6681 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - I am 20 and have been in a long-distance relationship with a girl for 6 months. She is moving back to live with me next year. Lately she has been very busy and doesnt speak with me all too much because of time differences and work, and I haven't ...

She is in Paris being smug while I decided to finish up at school

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

13 September 2006 (M) - Hi everyone, So my girlfriend and I have been together for four and a half years now. We met at the end of high school and maintained the relationship throughout college (we did the long distance thing for a year as we went to different colleg...

I want to let him know that I want to be in his life, but not in his way, how do I let him know ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6684 days ago

12 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I've met this incredible man, he's sweet, caring, loving and is unlike any other man i have ever seen. We have been meeting whenever he is close because his work means he has to travel alot, and although the time spent together is very brie...

The distance between us is killing me, but doesnt seem to affect him, if only I could banish these feelings!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6684 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been in a long distance relationship for a year now and as time goes on, I'm getting more and more frustrated with the distance, more and more jealous and craving more time with my boyf who I only see once every month. I love him...

My long distance GF is starting to question us.. thinking of getting to know other woman, not to cheat, but to get another perspective!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

10 September 2006 (M) - this is prob. a stupid question. still would like some opinions. thank you. i am in a situation where my long time girlfreind is living far from me for about another six months. she is starting to question us. i am sure of us, but with her questio...

Long distance Love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

10 September 2006 (F) - Hi I need some advice. The Guy i love will just be coming back from his University….by the time I am only just LEAVING college to start my University. How can we stay together? Do long-distance relationships work? If so….can they work for FOUR YEAR...