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writes:My boyfriend has gone away with work He will be gone for a month. I text him everyday and sometimes talk to him on the phone but im so over emotional. I feel so sad and upset. I just want to cry.I know he is coming back and I shouldnt be so silly but im just missing him so so much. I am trying to get on with other things but he is always on my mind. My thoughts seem to revolve around him. Please help me if you have any advice help me I hate feeling like this.
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reader, ButterflyonFire +, writes (20 September 2006):
 There's nothing wrong in the way that you feel, it only shows how much you care about your bf.
I know exactly how you feel.I was in 2 relationships like this. When I was married my husband was gone for over a month one time and then for 2 weeks home 2 days all the rest. It felt like I was single. I felt so alone and depressed. It's all I could think about. I hate being alone I like to have my bf there with me. But, when I went through this there was some things that helped me cope. Like others have said Spend time with your friends. Do you have a neice or nephew that you love to spend time with? I have one of each and while I was alone I took that time to spend alot of qaulity time with them. Do you live in your own house? Clean, redecorate, spend time with your pets, make time for your favorite tv shows and watch some new ones.Spend time with family. Rent some movies and have yourself a movie night. Keep a diary or journel of your feelings. Before long you'll get into the swing of being by yourself and if he has to go away again it won't be so hard. I hope this helps and that the time flies by and that he's home in your arms soon. *hugs*
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2006): Firstly you are NOT being silly !!!!I wish i could offer you some advice.I feel like this when im away from my partner even if its only for a few days they are always in my thoughts.It shows how much he means to you and how much you want him to be part of your life.The only advice i can think off is try to keep busy and perhaps arrange some time with your friends im sorry not much help i know but i know how you must be feeling (((hugs)))
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reader, Yuna~  +, writes (20 September 2006):
 I know this is going to be hard for you and for anyone else who's going to experience this.
Being a girl, I hate this feeling of depending on your partner a lot. It doesn't matter how independent you are, the truth is we all need a shoulder to cry on, and a hand to hold on to.
My advice will be try to hang out with your other friends more. If you're busy interacting with other people, it takes off your feeling of being lonely (which I think it's why you're sad). If your friends are busy, go do something like shopping, scrapbooking for your bf, work out, take a class, something you're interested doing without the company of your bf. Think about it this way, is there anything you would like to do all along but haven't had the time to get to it?
My bf will be going away for 6 months soon, I know I'll miss him. To keep myself busy, I already plan to hang out with my friends more, order a magazine subscription, go to the book store and get some books to read, do a scrapbook about my bf and I, start a blog to write/upload pictures for my bf, take an accounting course, go to the gym regularly, get a 1000 piece puzzle, volunteer, etc. I hope my idea helps you get through this sad time.
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reader, Cazzie Rox22 +, writes (20 September 2006):
 When you love someone it's natural for you to feel that way about them when they go away and i completely understand the feeling and i understand how painful it is for you.
Just keep in contact with him and tell him that you can't wait to see him, it's natural to feel this way and i'm sure he feels the same way about you. What would you tell him to do about missing you so much? Take your own advice and the time will go by faster. Try to see your friends a bit more and talk to them because your friends will always stick by you.
Love Always
Caz
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