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writes:This is going to sound like a daft question as its not totally about help with my bf but here goes.I really like my bf but he travels a lot Im due to go and visit him while he is away but am extreemly nervous as I have never spent a few nights away from home before. I feel torn I really want to go and spend time with him but dont know how I will cope I could come back home at any time and ring as much as I like but the thought is making me feel sick and emotionalAny advice please The more help I can get the betterThank you x x x x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2006): I totally agree with what Jinny said.You sound anxious about things and could be making a mountain out of a molehill.Discuss your worries to your B/F plus it could be a blessing to see his reaction to your worries.If he truelly respects and loves you he will be very calm and understanding about things which would prove he really cares for you.But the best thing to do is stop stressing over the situation and go for it i know its daunting but its only a few days and wouldnt it be good to see your b/f instead of talking to him over a phone.Good luck xxx
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reader, Jinny +, writes (19 September 2006):
 Hi you sound very young.
Being away from home is daunting for the first time so you are not alone in worrying.
Ask yourself honestly WHAT is making you most worried?
WHAT are you frightened of?
If it is being away from parents or family, then if you are old enough, and your parents see no problem with this stay then just see it as a huge adventure. You are right, you are free to go home,free to phone anytime. So relax.
If it is the sexual side of things then write down exactly what it is that worries you.
Discuss these fears with your B/F beore you go.
If he truely cares for you he will respect your wishes and worries and put you at ease.
The same goes for any other fears. Write them down. Discuss them with your B/F.
Then go....face the adventure. Once you are there you you may wonder why you ever worried.
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