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Archived questions from: August, 2015 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Does anyone have advice for these terrible anxious feelings I get?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - I know this is a site for relationship advice, but I've spent quite a fair amount of time on this website to know that many of the responders on here are extremely mature and have quite a bit of life experience. So mainly I'm just looking for ...

How will I find a boyfriend when I'm not happy with my physical appearance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - I am a 28 year old African American woman. Without sounding petty I just want to come right out and say this, I do not find myself physically attractive. I feel this way about my face and body. The main reason is I was morbidly obese, very un...

My husband is obese and has health issues. Should I leave him or continue to try and support him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - My marriage is suffering due to my husbands excessive weight gain, should I leave him or continue to try and support him and hope that things will get better? We've been together for 11 years and have two young children. I love him dearly but ...

He's been verbally abusive. My parents call him psycho. Should I move on or try harder in our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - I don't whether I'm still in relationship with him or not but i will say: I am in a relationship with south indian conservative man,though my roots are from south as well but my birth and education is done in different state due to work reason i...

Any advice for a lonely old man of 79 who likes to masturbate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3368 days ago

30 August 2015 (M) - Any advise for an elderly man who is lonely and likes to masturbate...

A psychiatrist told me I am not mad, (when I asked him) but is it possible to feel something for an historical person who lived in another era? What is this feeling called?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, Since I was a child, I was always afraid about become mad. Two years ago I learned about the existence of a russian man who lived between the second part of XIX century and the start of 10's. I was enchanted for his behaviour and pe...

Can anyone tell me why my mother is behaving this way? I'm 22 but she acts like she does not trust me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3376 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - Hello all, I am a 22 year old female college student living at home with my mom. As much as I would love to move out, I can't because my tuition is where almost all of my paychecks are going. My mom and I have always been close, and we've never ...

My Mother's said she's a married man's mistress. How can I respond and preserve our mother-daughter relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, My mother told me recently she has been a mistress to a married man for the last 5 years. She got involved with him when my dad was terminally ill and told me about it after he passed away. She is still seeing him and wants to ...

I faint sometimes when having sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

28 August 2015 (M) - i some times faint when having sex, due to my penis. it doesnt happen too often. some women don't know wot to do. i heav tried all sorts of creams and listen to many ideas. i do yoga and lots of sportss, and it never happens then. does it hurt ...

I know I shouldn't be involved with this married man but I don't know what to do about things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - I'm a 20 year old college junior. I've had many problems that started in late childhood. Starting with body dysmorphia, and lead into anorexia, binge eating, self harm, suicidal tendencies, and depression. I've been diagnosed with borderline ...

I'm dating a man who is depressed. Its making me feel vulnerable. How do I not let it get to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been with someone for 6 months and I absolutely adore him. We fell in love and everything was effortless and happy. Since the beginning of the relationship I had the feeling he was maybe a bit depressed but now that he has had ...

She used me when she was bi-curious. I want her, she doesn't want me. What can I do? I feel so lonely.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Could be long. This has been ongoing for 3 months now and it's getting worse, not better. This girl used me as she was bi-curious and I fell for her. She doesn't want me, I want her. I can't just be friends with her but I don't wanna stop talking ...

How do I carry myself forward and ensure that I do NOT go back to him and ensure that I move myself into Normalcy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm here for emotional support and help. I just broke my 6 years of relationship with my EX-boyfriend which I'm stressing on because it's hard to believe that he's ex. I got into this relationship when I was 17.. the guy had slowly m...

He made a remark that upset me. Should I say something to my boyfriend's friend or just let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - I was at the beach yesterday with my boyfriend and a couple of his friends were there to meet me for the first time and hang out with us. I was in a 2 piece suit but you could still see a bit of skin. I was devastated when I over heard his...

Doctor and dermatologist suggested remedies that have not helped. What else can reduce skin discolouration around inner thigh area?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - My inner thighs/groin area is very dark and discolorated and I don't know how to get rid of it. It recently made me feel much worse because my partner noticed it and asked me about it. I read it is a skin condition caused by insulin resistan...

Trouble with Boyfriend, Should I stay? He's jealous and controlling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating 2 and a half years. About a year into our relationship, we had a lot of problems with him being jealous and controlling, and I broke up with him for about a month. He begged for me back, showed up at my parent’s...

My boyfriend of 5 months doesn't shower or brush his teeth and its really getting to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - Hello! Really hope I can get some help! I met the most amazing man on holiday this year, and everything is fantastic, I love him to bits and he treats me amazingly. The only issue that I have is is complete lack of hygiene. We've been toge...

Boyfriend has a problem with me having a male surgeon

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

25 August 2015 (F) - I think my bf is overreacting on a simple issue. I ought to have a surgery on my breast in few weeks time. The surgeon is a male. I have no problem with the gender of this surgeon. Surprisingly my bf said he doesn't like the idea of him being a male ...

My B/f said, "'not to sound rude but you have a lot of stretch marks baby maybe you should do something about them"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

25 August 2015 (F) - I've been with a man for almost a year and only recently been sexually active with him. He recently made a comment 'not to sound rude but you have a lot of stretch marks baby maybe you should do something about them' I told them they are all ...

Why is it the older I get the harder it is to control my hormones?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - Why does it seem that the closer I get to my twenties the more my hormones seem to crave sexual activities? At eighteen, I have managed to stay a virgin, but it seems to be getting harder to avoid sexual thoughts and the desire to be an attention ...

Dominating mother in law. How can I help my husband see that he needs to nurture our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

22 August 2015 (F) - My mother in law keeps my husband so occupied that he has no social life. It's been two years of our marriage he has not been able to nurture our relationship because of lack of time. She's made it mandatory to spend hours with her everyday. H...

Is there any way to increase the size of my breasts without surgery?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

22 August 2015 (F) - i am a 17 year old girl with a 34 B-cup breast I was wondering is there anyway for me to increase the size of them without surgery? I had my first cycle when I was 14 and my mom I think is a b cup I'm not sure....

A brazilian wax has left a cut, should I treat it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

21 August 2015 (F) - Hey guys. I could use a bit of advice. I had my first Brazilian wax yesterday... it was okay, if painful. When I got home and looked underneath I saw some skin had been pulled off with one of the wax strips, leaving a cut about a centimetre long. ...

Should I get breast implants because my boyfriend wants me to?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

20 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to get breast implants, and I don't know how I feel about it. I am naturally very flat chested, an A cup. I've never really liked having small breasts but as I've gotten older I've learned to accept it. My boyfriend wa...

What to do when counselling has been a COMPLETE waste of time and money?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

19 August 2015 (F) - What to do when counselling has been a COMPLETE waste of time and money? First I lost my job and then found out I was pregnant. Several things went wrong. In laws COMPLETELY interfered. Pushed us into keeping her, WITHOUT caring about my own ...

Could it be anxiety? Is there a solution to this? I seem to flake out on plans and have excuses I use to not attend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3388 days ago

18 August 2015 (M) - I think I have a problem which could start to affect a lot of relationships that I have with people. I seem to flake out of plans quite regularly, I get offered to so quite a lot of things and opportunities and ill take then up at the time but ...

Please help me see something positive in this high school and help me get over my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3387 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - Hi, So Recently I've felt very different from how I normally feel. Typically I'm a very generally happy person and even when I'm sad or upset certain people can easily cheer me up and make me happy, as well as I don't normally keep my negative ...

I am having hateful feelings towards a 'friend' and want to let it go, but we work together and it's more complicated, but not just because of that.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - Dear all, This is not a relationship question, but a 'freindship' question. Please help. I have been working with a woman ( I too am female) for seven years now. We developed a rather co- dependant freindship. Basically, I was going through a very ...

I'm a little uncomfortable with her fetish!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

17 August 2015 (M) - Hi there! i have just found somthing out about my girlfreind that i did not know. We have been together for going on six years now. sex has been good, just lately my missus(Sarah) has been having problems becoming aroused and sexually moist. And she ...

This pregnancy couldn't have happened at a worse time! I need advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3389 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - Hi im looking for some advice, I don't want any hateful comments as this is hard enough. I have two children 5 and 3, im no longer with their dad and have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. He is perfect, he adores my children and we ...

Help. I need advice and how to keep control please? Virgin and Penis problems.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3387 days ago

17 August 2015 (M) - I am 22 and have a girlfriend.. bt when ever I am with her.. my penis keeps erecting and. its embarrassing.. I to leak a juice.. also I am virgin and she too is.. bt erectinf infront of her is very embarrassing.. can anyone please help how to cont...

I'm wasting a lot of time obsessing over my ex. What can I do to stop thinking about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3390 days ago

16 August 2015 (F) - Hi. I went out with a guy for over 5 years. He was my first great love ; he would've been 'the one'. Things went rough and we broke 13 months ago. I would say I was very happy about the breakup because he did love me and treated me well but the...

Is my mother and law driving a wedge between my husband and I? Because since my miscarriage I feel like leaving my husband.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3389 days ago

16 August 2015 (F) - My husband and I just lost our first child through miscarriage, and while my family have been supportive and giving us time, his mother has driven us apart and he can't see any of what she is doing as wrong. First, she told my brother in law a...

He wants a divorce, my life is spiralling out of control

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3390 days ago

16 August 2015 (F) - 2 weeks ago, my husband of 7 years sat me down and told me he wants a divorce. After the past 2 weeks of many talks with each other and thinking things through, we have decided/agreed to get one. In a nut shell and without going into too much de...

I hate these pictures!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3390 days ago

16 August 2015 (F) - Hi, I know this may sound silly but I'm really upset.... I got married a few months ago and recently got back my professional photo album and dvd. I was reluctant to have a photographer as I hate pictures of myself as I know I'm not photoge...

Am I doing something that unsettles him? Why won't he make eye contact when we talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3392 days ago

14 August 2015 (F) - I've been thrown for a loop, and am in need of opinions and advice... I fear I may be reading too far into this (as I have a tendency to do). The backstory: This guy and I share a few mutual friends, and have known each other (only to say hi,...

Am I being stupid? I just feel like I've worked really hard and I have tons of holiday days left to take from work and I just don't want to sit at home!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3394 days ago

12 August 2015 (F) - So I don't want this to come across as being very spoilt or like I'm entitled but me and my other half of 4 years have been saving for a deposit for our own place, this year after having a special event on at work I have been working 12 days on and ...

Recent weight gain due to stressful job and an acne breakout! What should I say to my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3394 days ago

12 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend is essentially blaming me for his unhappiness with our relationship. He talked with me last night and nicely explained he is not been happy with our sex life. When I asked him why he hesitated but said he feels I haven't really been ...

I need help to convince my girl to give me another chance after a rough break-up. Help, what can I do? or say?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3392 days ago

12 August 2015 (M) - I broke my gf heart when I left her for six month and now I feel horrible because I felt what i did to her. A week ago she told me she met someone new. I am devastated, I only left her because I was in so much pain from my grandmother and father d...

Is there a chance that in fulfilling these fantasies I could also get a broken heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3395 days ago

11 August 2015 (F) - Ok.. How can I sum this up... My fiancé and I are head over heels in love with each other, we have been together for 4 years. We have made it through some pretty hard times, the first year of our relationship, which in the end made us so much ...

Are failed relationships a source and cause of our anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3394 days ago

11 August 2015 (F) - Are failed relationships the cause of our anxiety? There are many people out there who suffer from anxiety or depression or both. I have found during the first 20 years of my life (when I wasn't in a relationship) that I was happy go lucky, d...

Why am I still obsessing over my ex and his new girlfriend? How can I stop obsessing like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3393 days ago

11 August 2015 (F) - Why do I still obsess over my ex and his new girlfriend after all this time? I had a bad break up with my fella - last year. I'm not the dating type so have never moved on or found anyone since as I don't want really anyone - I still love my ex de...

What are the chances we might conceive a deaf child?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3396 days ago

10 August 2015 (F) - Not really a relationship question but maybe someone knows the answer to my question! My boyfriend and I are trying for a baby. My boyfriend was adopted and doesn't know his birth parents. He has very little information but he does know that his ...

I care much less how I look since our breakup, what's wrong with me and what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3393 days ago

10 August 2015 (F) - What is wrong with me? Before me and my ex broke up or he left after HE cheated 7 months ago I care less and less of how I look sure I go to the gym but I make zero effort to look good. Before I used to always dress up but it was usually for school ...

Dilemma about breast implant removal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3395 days ago

9 August 2015 (F) - I am in such a dilemma about my breast implants and need advice please. I have always had very small breasts - a very small, only just 34A (more like a 33A). I actually wouldn't mind this, but the thing is that I only ever put weight on, on my...

65 year old submissive cross dresser. How can I encourage my wife to be more tolerant and supportive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3398 days ago

8 August 2015 (M) - I'm a submissive,married crossdresser, and although my wife knows of my dressing, she does not participate or encourage me in any manner. I wish she could be somewhat supportive, and I could also share my other fetishes and fantasies with her. In ...

Things are awkward. Cheating happened. How can we improve our relationship, to work better?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2311 days ago

8 August 2015 (F) - This is weird. I'll make it short. I was on OKC and I met this really nice guy. We started dating and 2 months into the relationship I found out he was writing to his ex gf, asking her to meet him. I confronted him and he came clean, saying he...

How can the family help our sister who keeps on forgiving her abusive partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3398 days ago

8 August 2015 (M) - My sister has a live-in boyfriend who is about 20 years younger than her. He is about 36. In the past, he has beaten her a few times that we know about. He also had attacked my sister in front of family. My sister has done about 3 temporary re...

How can we resolve our living arrangements amicably?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3398 days ago

8 August 2015 (F) - My husband and I met in England but we moved to Canada 6 years ago. I liked living in Canada at first but over the years I got more and more homesick for the UK and after a while I started disliking my job too. I have repeatedly over the years asked ...

How do I decipher the confusing actions of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3399 days ago

7 August 2015 (F) - hello.. i'm pretty confused right now. I broke up with my ex for a month now, we rarely talked on the phone, most contact we have had was via email and probably like once or twice a day.. He asked me to phone him yesterday for just a general c...