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How do I decipher the confusing actions of my ex?

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Question - (7 August 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2015)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *issiep123 writes:

hello.. i'm pretty confused right now.

I broke up with my ex for a month now, we rarely talked on the phone, most contact we have had was via email and probably like once or twice a day..

He asked me to phone him yesterday for just a general convo really but i noticed he's still calling me babe?

Surely the habit would have been gone and i know he can control it but he just carried on.

During the convo he said he was staying with his mum like an hour's drive away from me and having a bit of trouble with his brother and sister. They were having a problem with him being there.

His words were, ''i'm not going nowhere''.

Yet a few mins later hes telling me he dont know what hes doing yet as he hasnt had a chance to sort his head out.

I automatically thought does he mean what he's doing about me and him?

we broke up due to living with my parents and my parents made things very awkward for us for 6yrs living with them.

He up and left because he could not take nomore.

i'm so confused! thank u . lissie x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2015):

You don't. You just forget them and get on with your life because you broke up and they are an 'EX' !

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (7 August 2015):

Honeypie agony auntYou and your BF lived 6 YEARS? with your parents?

Seriously? I can see living with parents at your age, if a parent is sickly and needs assistance, or they have a house so huge that you can rent half of it and live more like "renters" rather than adults living with their parents.

Do neither of you work?

I can understand why he left. What I can't seem to comprehend is that you two were OK living there for THAT long. Not wanting to find a place of your own? It boggles me.

As for what your BF meant, you need to ask him. He might meant with his life in general, he might have meant with you two.

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